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brilohr7

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Re: Sleeping with a married man? Who is at fault husband or mistress.
« Reply #30 on: February 25, 2010, 07:02:53 pm »
It's both of their faults.  That's about as low as you can get.

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« Reply #31 on: February 25, 2010, 08:35:34 pm »
listen they are both at fault and the only way to solve this is to come clean and stop otherwise it will only bring more unhappiness later and shorten her own life who wants to live a jaded person the pain and embarrassment will only last for a little bit we all know a line is crooked because we know in our hearts what is strait what is wrong is wrong

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Re: Sleeping with a married man? Who is at fault husband or mistress.
« Reply #32 on: February 26, 2010, 06:55:08 am »
Obviously both parties are at fault. But the bigger question is does she feel like she is a real woman cheating with a married man? Because it sounds like she can't get a man that does not have a committment to anyone else. And I think she is a sad person to feel like she is doing somethng special.   

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Re: Sleeping with a married man? Who is at fault husband or mistress.
« Reply #33 on: February 26, 2010, 07:07:02 am »
I would say that they are both equally at fault, unless the mistress was unaware of his marriage. 

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Re: Sleeping with a married man? Who is at fault husband or mistress.
« Reply #34 on: February 26, 2010, 07:09:08 am »
I would say that they are both equally at fault, unless the mistress was unaware of his marriage. 
  I Totally agree.

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Re: Sleeping with a married man? Who is at fault husband or mistress.
« Reply #35 on: February 26, 2010, 10:04:19 am »
Yeah.  If she knows that he is married then she is just as much at fault as he is.

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Re: Sleeping with a married man? Who is at fault husband or mistress.
« Reply #36 on: February 26, 2010, 02:38:20 pm »
I would say that both of them are at fault. Because the husband knows better to go out and cheat on his wife when he is supposed to be committed to his wife, and your friend should know better also knowing he was married(or did not know), to back off and look the other way. If he did not want to be with his wife anymore he should be up front with her and tell her the truth, instead of cheating. Being honest is the main thing. They both are going to do what they want anyway, because once a cheater always a cheater.
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Re: Sleeping with a married man? Who is at fault husband or mistress.
« Reply #37 on: February 28, 2010, 06:54:16 pm »
both of them are at fault. they both know what they are doing and if he wanted to sleep with other women he shouldve never got married. she shouldve be with a married guy at all coz u know he makes his wife number one and will never leave her for the mistress. my friend is in the same boat but the wife knows about the girlfriend and they get along or have to get along. the wife had 3 kids with the dude and my friend has 2 and my be pregnant again by him. she told me today that he wont get a divorse and she has been with him for like 5 years now. the wife doesnt live in the same house but the kids are other there all the time. and my friend is living with the dude. i hope she leaves him.. i really hope she does. she should have known better then to be with a married man. i told her time and time again.."what were u thinking? u know he;s not gonna get divorced i'm just telling u the truth."

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Re: Sleeping with a married man? Who is at fault husband or mistress.
« Reply #38 on: February 28, 2010, 07:22:07 pm »
Cheating is one of the most horrible things you can do to someone. If you really say this person is your friend, then you should be doing what you can top stop her from cheating. I mean, just imagine if you were in her husband's place. How would you feel?

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« Reply #39 on: February 28, 2010, 07:40:17 pm »

I will say is both faults!!... it's so common now in our reality and unacceptable... but for me the only excuse possible will be if both are real in love to each other... otherwise both are unfaithful and disgrace people.



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Re: Sleeping with a married man? Who is at fault husband or mistress.
« Reply #40 on: February 28, 2010, 08:20:32 pm »
Both they both knew what it was and either one of em tried to turn into something more than what it is and that's sex for comfort ....been going since man and wife began

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« Reply #41 on: February 28, 2010, 09:35:23 pm »
Both their faults. More the mans fault though if hes newely married thats low.

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Re: Sleeping with a married man? Who is at fault husband or mistress.
« Reply #42 on: February 28, 2010, 09:42:50 pm »
When you get married you say words to that person and some of that means to respect one another.  There is the expectation that neither of you will cheat. So my thought is that the one who is married and cheats is at fault becase you should just walk away from that temptation.

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Re: Sleeping with a married man? Who is at fault husband or mistress.
« Reply #43 on: March 02, 2010, 09:02:48 am »
Both are seriously wrong for their deeds! Why should she ask advice HE'S A MARRIED MAN!!!

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Re: Sleeping with a married man? Who is at fault husband or mistress.
« Reply #44 on: March 02, 2010, 09:14:03 am »
Say nothing unless she asks for advice. 

I agree 100%. If this woman's bad behavior disturbs you, maybe you should back off from the friendship until she comes to her senses.

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