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klvcaudillo

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Re: Which one do you prefer being married or being single?
« Reply #30 on: March 10, 2010, 01:17:10 pm »
I am married with kids.  I would not like to be single now and still have my kids to support as a single mom.  It's just too hard.  I would have liked to be single before but it can be kinda lonely.  If you have a good partner then being married is not so bad but when you don't being single is sometimes a great idea.  Keep in mind the grass is always greener on the other side.  Are we ever happy?


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Re: Which one do you prefer being married or being single?
« Reply #31 on: March 10, 2010, 01:25:04 pm »
bing married is what the lord want's us too be married between men and women only way it too be :dog: :dog: :angel12: :heart:

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Re: Which one do you prefer being married or being single?
« Reply #32 on: March 10, 2010, 03:46:21 pm »
i am nt married but we live like we are and i love it. i hate being single.

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Re: Which one do you prefer being married or being single?
« Reply #33 on: March 10, 2010, 10:30:18 pm »
i hated being single, i seemed to always be getting into trouble, at least now when i get in trouble there is someone else there in trouble with me!

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Re: Which one do you prefer being married or being single?
« Reply #34 on: March 10, 2010, 11:14:27 pm »
 :BangHead: :BangHead: :BangHead: :BangHead:  I tried it .. HATED it!!! {WITH SOMEONE}... I hate always having to fix myself up for a man.. I love going without makeup, hair unbrushed, in an old nightgown tooo much to change for a man!!!! hahahah

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Re: Which one do you prefer being married or being single?
« Reply #35 on: March 11, 2010, 11:34:26 am »
I would prefer to be single without kids like now. I only have to worry about myself, and I can concentrate on what I am doing without the distractions of kids.

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Re: Which one do you prefer being married or being single?
« Reply #36 on: March 11, 2010, 12:25:10 pm »
         :BangHead:    Being married is a total mistake...but I am and Im dealing with it becaus eI do love my husband...things change wayyy to much when you get married!! I miss the old days!

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Re: Which one do you prefer being married or being single?
« Reply #37 on: March 11, 2010, 12:26:45 pm »
I perfer being single was married for 14 years horriable split. Marriage is just too much stress and work. Being Single I am free to do whatevr I want without having to consult a spouse. I will not marry again.

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Re: Which one do you prefer being married or being single?
« Reply #38 on: March 11, 2010, 05:23:46 pm »
I'm not married but I live with my sons father like we are and I would much rather be single. Even though being single would make me a single mom I don't really mind. A relationship is way to much work and much more trouble than its worth.
~It's just my opinion...don't be mad at me~

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Re: Which one do you prefer being married or being single?
« Reply #39 on: March 12, 2010, 02:05:11 pm »
I'm not married yet, but if the question were rephrased in my case, being in a relationship or single, I'd actually have to say SINGLE. For the first time in 5 years, I'm actually single, and have been for a few months. I have an awful fear of being alone, so this is a huge step for me.

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Re: Which one do you prefer being married or being single?
« Reply #40 on: March 13, 2010, 11:27:24 am »
I prefer being single... or in a relationship. But I think now a days people feel that it's a requirement to eventually get married. You don't have to get married if you don't want. Just because that's the tradition, doesn't mean you have to follow it. If you love each other and you're perfectly happy the way you are, you shouldn't feel the need to push your relationship further. Marriage seems to ruin a lot of people anyway. I would never want a joint bank account or any of that.

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Re: Which one do you prefer being married or being single?
« Reply #41 on: March 13, 2010, 11:39:00 am »
 :'(
SAD BUT TRUE, but, I have to agree with most of the people's comments on here...I have been married 3 times now:
#1) Lasted only 3 yrs, but I had just turned 18 and should have listened to my mother.
#2) Lasted 15 yrs, and was great, until I found out that I was wife #6, and he had already bought a new home for wife 7!!!
#3) Was just a HUGE mistake...I was still sick over my last divorce, and my father has JUST died THAT week of cancer... I was not thinking too well..

But, now that I am old, (46 yrs old) I can tell you, its better to just be by yourself than to settle for someone just because you dont want to be alone..my new AND LAST husband has taken me to the bank and is just the most selfish person that I have ever known, (& I knew him for 27 yrs before marring him, but I thought that he had grew up, or changed...a leapord dont change its spots, that is soooo true!)

So, I think, and its only my own personal opinion, but..its better to just be by yourself instead of accepting someone because you dont want to be alone...I am alone anyways, so I lost almost everything because I didnt want to be alone? It's no ones but my own fault for being so blind...
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