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JustShowMez

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When Should Children Have Sex
« on: March 30, 2010, 06:12:05 am »
I don't think before there married so they can have freedom
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Re: When Should Children Have Sex
« Reply #1 on: March 30, 2010, 12:25:38 pm »
So many people have had sex before they were really ready, when children (someone not full grown or an adult) encounter physical intimacy I think it bothers them mentally in the long run.  If a girl at 14 (just through out an age) begins what would others think, her parents, older men - it will affect her one way or another, but more likely negative (maybe never getting married and going to one man after another)

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« Reply #2 on: March 30, 2010, 06:25:16 pm »
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Re: When Should Children Have Sex
« Reply #3 on: March 30, 2010, 06:47:41 pm »
I think everyone is different.  Some people are still "children" well into their 20's, while others are mature before 18.  I believe the age to have sex/lose virginity is a very personal thing that should be dealt with maturely, not as a "you're not old enough" thing. 

My two oldest nephews came to me once they began experimenting at the preteen to early teen years, and I handed them a condom and a banana.  I then explained that if they were too embarrassed to learn how to protect themselves then they were not ready. 

I've seen many divorced parents living with a bf/gf telling their kids not to have sex before marriage, and I believe that is the wrong message.  Each person is different.



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Re: When Should Children Have Sex
« Reply #4 on: March 30, 2010, 07:32:13 pm »
I don't think before there married so they can have freedom
no anytime they are so kids,have going to the school enstead

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Re: When Should Children Have Sex
« Reply #5 on: April 02, 2010, 01:32:24 pm »
Children,, hmmm. Im hoping with all my might that when my children are OLDER more mature and hopefully married. But its their choice, all I can do is try to guide them in the right direction.

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Re: When Should Children Have Sex
« Reply #6 on: April 05, 2010, 04:57:38 pm »
i think any young person would agree to have sex when your ready. if you are 100 percent sure without any questioning and you are with someone you feel comfortable with there is nothing wrong with it.

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Re: When Should Children Have Sex
« Reply #7 on: April 05, 2010, 06:43:51 pm »
Never!!!

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Re: When Should Children Have Sex
« Reply #8 on: April 06, 2010, 10:49:50 pm »
After the male can track a grizzly and fight it to death with a hunting knife. Then he is ready.

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Re: When Should Children Have Sex
« Reply #9 on: April 08, 2010, 06:29:12 pm »
I agree with waiting until marriage... Sex should never be a definition for any relationship.

Falconer02 you are totally and awesomely hilarious... and I agree.

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Re: When Should Children Have Sex
« Reply #10 on: April 08, 2010, 06:33:24 pm »
Well, they are not going to wait until marriage... we can quit living in that fantasy!  Girls and boys are going to be VERY different... Boys are going to have sex as soon as they can and girls will have sex as soon as they "need" to.  They won't "need" to until they are given a reason - usually a lack of attention (love in their eyes)...

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Re: When Should Children Have Sex
« Reply #11 on: April 12, 2010, 07:03:06 pm »
the Question doesnt mean anything......... how cud children have SEX........... Only when Children become BOYS or GIRLS as others say it disturbs them mentally......... They will start in some way or the other to overcome that

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Re: When Should Children Have Sex
« Reply #12 on: April 14, 2010, 08:13:02 am »
I don't think before there married so they can have freedom
never and ever no ones children is crazy

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Re: When Should Children Have Sex
« Reply #13 on: April 19, 2010, 02:43:15 pm »
waiting until you're married is crap...in MY opinion. Would you buy a used car with out test driving it first? i think not. No matter how campatable you are in every other aspect of your relationship if you dont click sexually you are going to have problems.
I have 2 daughters and a son and to be perfectly honest...and hypocritical...i hope they wait until they are out of college and have thier carreers up and running successfully before they have sex so there are no surprises that might change the life plan i have set out for them  ;) 
In reality i know that we are getting to that point...my oldest is 14 now...and i just hope that ive taught them enough that they come to me so we can get them the protection they need (and maybe i can talk them out of it!) 

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Re: When Should Children Have Sex
« Reply #14 on: April 21, 2010, 10:49:12 am »
Children shouldn't be having sex period.

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