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Re: FLOREZITTA'S CHAT ROOM
« Reply #510 on: May 20, 2011, 10:03:20 pm »
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« Reply #511 on: May 21, 2011, 01:47:55 am »
Hi all,


Just thought I'd post again. So today started out okay. Sold some baby stuff at a rummage sale then came home and now my daughter Is screaming her head off. She's become more clingy than usual. She screams for her daddy non-stop. Last night she stayed up until 1 AM. On top of all that, I got dumped and to make It even worse he Informed me he wants to sleep with other people while we take a " break ". I told him flat out that If that happens It will be over with us and that he needs to choose. He says he loves me but he has to decide If sleeping with someone else Is worth losing me. I refuse to sit here taking care of our daughter while he's out sleeping with some female. I'm at a loss on what to do and I wish my daughter would play with her toys lol. I feel like I'm close to having a nervous breakdown. Not sure how much more I can take.


Anyway, that was my little rant. Going to sit here and hope my little munchkin goes to sleep at a decent hour tonight.
I'm so sorry you have to deal with this.  Your little girl probably feels your tension and emotions plus missing her daddy.  I hope this gets resolved quickly for yours and your daughter's sake.  That's just not right.  You hang in there and know that there are people out here who may not know you personally but do care about you and what you are going through.  Do you have a friend or family member who can help with your daughter for a few hours or at least give you some hugs and encouragement?  I am saying a special prayer for you tonight, too.  Take care and I hope it gets better for you.   :heart:
this all came at a really bad time because my munchkin Is cutting a few teeth ( we found out last night ). I'm starting to have some really messed up dreams now since all this happened. I'm planning on talking to him about this soon. I can feel a nervous breakdown coming on and hopefully I can get some time for myself. As for someone to take her for a few hours, there are only 1 person who would but she just got married and Is dealing with her own problems.

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« Reply #512 on: May 21, 2011, 11:46:12 am »
TaintedLust,
If I lived near you, I would try and help you out.  I feel helpless and feel your frustration.  Try not to let it break you down, even though that is easier said than actually done.  At least you can vent on here a little and in here, I've noticed there are a lot of fine people who care.  I hope your daughter's teething will ease up, too.  Hang in there, okay?   :heart:

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« Reply #513 on: May 21, 2011, 12:50:24 pm »
TaintedLust,
If I lived near you, I would try and help you out.  I feel helpless and feel your frustration.  Try not to let it break you down, even though that is easier said than actually done.  At least you can vent on here a little and in here, I've noticed there are a lot of fine people who care.  I hope your daughter's teething will ease up, too.  Hang in there, okay?   :heart:
I snapped this morning and stormed outside to smoke a cigarette and while I was outside he sat here and thought about everything I said. As soon as I came back In he told me he was sorry about everything he said and he wants to do whatever It takes to work things out. It took me telling him that I was at my breaking point for him to realize how stupid he was for saying what he did to me. We're going to go to see a counselor ( hope I spelled that right lol ). We're going to do couples and then I'm going to go by myself since I have a lot of Issues. My biggest problem Is I've been hurt so many times that I'm always on edge expecting that to happen and It's not fair to him. This Is the best relationship I've ever been In. He's never hit me or cheated or anything and he's the greatest dad. He does all kinds of things for me and our munchkin. This was a big change for both of us. We went from talking ( on-line ) then about 6 months later he came here from NJ and stayed for a month then about 2 months later he moved here. I got pregnant and things just snowballed and neither of us expected things to go this fast so we've had to adjust.

Anyway, as for my daughter. She's getting a few teeth In and so far today has been pretty good. She's napping right now which Is good. She'll wake up In a good mood.

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« Reply #514 on: May 21, 2011, 02:41:44 pm »
TaintedLust,

I am glad to hear of his turn-around.  I genuinely hope it works out for you and him.  Counseling sounds like a great idea.  Talk to you later! :)

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« Reply #515 on: May 21, 2011, 03:11:27 pm »
TaintedLust,

I am glad to hear of his turn-around.  I genuinely hope it works out for you and him.  Counseling sounds like a great idea.  Talk to you later! :)
yeah I think that's exactly what we both need. I have Issues stemming from past relationships and I take a lot of It out on him by accusing him of cheating when deep down I know he's not like that. I know he loves me and I love him more than anything. He understands that this Is a bigger change for me. I'm not used to being treated good and that's all he's ever done. I take him for granted a lot and I need to stop before I push him away.


This Is why I posted In here. It's helps a lot to have someone I can talk too about stuff like this. I don't really have any friends here In my town so coming on-line and talking to people Is great. Thanks for listening and being supportive.

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« Reply #516 on: May 23, 2011, 09:11:34 pm »
TaintedLust,
You're welcome.  My heart goes out to people who are suffering or going through something.  I know what that's like and really feel for them.  I'm glad you could at least get it off your chest, somewhat.  And above all, I really hope things work out for the very best with you both.  It does sound like he's trying to understand what you have dealt with and are dealing with.  Communication is so important so you are doing the right thing letting him know what you're thinking.  I hope your little one is feeling better with the teething.  Have a better week this week!!  Talk to you soon, I hope! :)

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« Reply #517 on: May 23, 2011, 09:14:35 pm »
 :BangHead: i  cant believe the thunder let the mavs come back

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« Reply #518 on: May 23, 2011, 09:40:30 pm »
Hello Florezitta my name is Tasha I just wanted to come by and say hi! How are you doing? I'm doing well this forum topic is a really good idea to get to know memebers here I hope to be a friend of yours soon! :bunny:

This is me You don't like too bad!

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« Reply #519 on: May 24, 2011, 10:21:25 am »
TaintedLust,
You're welcome.  My heart goes out to people who are suffering or going through something.  I know what that's like and really feel for them.  I'm glad you could at least get it off your chest, somewhat.  And above all, I really hope things work out for the very best with you both.  It does sound like he's trying to understand what you have dealt with and are dealing with.  Communication is so important so you are doing the right thing letting him know what you're thinking.  I hope your little one is feeling better with the teething.  Have a better week this week!!  Talk to you soon, I hope! :)
Things have gotten better. I snapped and told him I wanted to move out and went downstairs to smoke and when I came back up he wanted to talk and said he was sorry for everything and that he wanted to do whatever It took to fix things. I was having the hardest time dealing with that plus our daughter Is getting a few teeth In so It was horrible timing but It helped so much that I vented. I refused to hold It all In. We're still planning on seeing someone so we can once and for all get over all of our Issues.

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« Reply #520 on: May 24, 2011, 02:30:51 pm »
TaintedLust,

That's great that both of you agree to see someone about the issues at hand.  Sometimes one or the other is willing and that makes it harder to deal with.  I'll be praying for your family and you know I'm pulling for you.  I want this to work out for you.  Enjoy time with your little one - they are precious and grow up way too fast.  :)

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« Reply #521 on: May 26, 2011, 06:54:24 am »
Hey all  :wave:

its been awhile since I have been here, I am slacking on my Fusion Cash posts, Been busy with the family, gonna try to get back into the FusionCash routine.

Hope everyone is well and have a nice day


@workmama I wanted to see how you were doing I know that you are close to where that tornado hit, I hope you and your family are ok  :angel11:

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« Reply #522 on: May 26, 2011, 08:08:48 am »
Surveydad,
It's great to see you again!  I trust your family is doing well.  Hope you are having a great week!  :)

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« Reply #523 on: May 26, 2011, 11:36:21 am »
Hey all  :wave:

its been awhile since I have been here, I am slacking on my Fusion Cash posts, Been busy with the family, gonna try to get back into the FusionCash routine.

Hope everyone is well and have a nice day


@workmama I wanted to see how you were doing I know that you are close to where that tornado hit, I hope you and your family are ok  :angel11:

@ Surveydad~ I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for thinking of me.  :angel11:  I am not doing so great. Barely could bring myself to go through my daily normal routine. I just found out today, some people I knew from Joplin lost their lives. I was in Joplin less than 24 hours before that tornado hit. I ate at the Pizza Hut where a girl I knew lost her life. I was in the Wal-Mart also getting my tires balanced and rotated. I still think I am dreaming. Joplin looks like a war zone.  :angry7: Just 3 years ago, I about lost my life in the Picher, OK tornado, so I know exactly how these people feel. It is getting too much to take. The last few days, there have been times when I broke down and cried.  :crybaby2:
I lived in Joplin for almost 10 years up until 2007 when I met my husband. It's hard to explain in words the hurt and frustration. To make matters worse, this "Anti Pro" or whatever group which has signs up already protesting how they thank God that 125 people died in Joplin are coming to Joplin on Sunday. My friends have asked me to go to the rally, but I don't want to get caught in the middle of a fight because Joplin was and still is so close to my heart.
I will be attending a Memorial Service on Sunday. President Obama is supposed to appear. I don't understand why it takes him 8 days to arrive here while I hear he is in England sipping tea with the Queen...pisses me off......sorry. Letting out some frustration is helpful in this time of sorrow around this area. I only live 30 minutes away from Joplin, considering I take the Freeway, which I hardly do because it freaks me out.
Well, anyways, if you could say a prayer for Joplin and the victims, myself and my friends, I would really appreciate it.
God Bless You!
~workmama~ :peace::heart:
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« Reply #524 on: May 27, 2011, 03:51:05 am »
My heartfelt prayers go out to the people of Joplin. 

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