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« Reply #735 on: December 22, 2012, 08:33:55 pm »
Hey all,


Man It's been a long time since I've posted. I just recently got Internet back. A lot has happened since I last posted. I am now a single mom ( daughter's father abandoned her ).  It's been a few weeks since my ex has seen his daughter. He doesn't pay child support ( I met with someone about It and he hasn't even been served yet ) so I lost net/cable. My daughter also started preschool early ( she's 3 ) and back In August found out mentally she's only a year old and may be that way forever. Took her to see a specialist who thinks because she was born so early her brain may not have developed fully. She has a neurologist appointment In April so hoping I can find out something then. Going to cut this short. Have not slept yet and I am exhausted.

It's so nice to see you again!  I'm sorry to hear about your daughter's father abandoning her - I hope they can catch up with him and make him pay child support - you need that help.

I hope and pray your daughter will not have to be like that forever.  I do hope you will be able to her the help she will need, and hopefully many of these helps will be covered for any special needs that she may need.

I'm glad you have your internet back.  Hope you catch up with your rest - take care of yourself, too.  {{{Hugs}}}

I'm just going to take him to court. Let him explain to a judge why he's doing her the way he Is. So far she's okay and Is doing great In school. Therapy Is even going well.

Going to cut this short, got a sick kid here at the moment. Hope you're doing well and I'll check back on here later. Merry Christmas {{ Hugs }}

Merry Christmas to you, too!  :)

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« Reply #736 on: December 26, 2012, 09:48:26 am »
Hello Florezitta.... It is a pleasure to see the enthusiasm in this forum.... I have a little technical question that you might be able to help me out with.  Oh.... first.... Happy Holidays... and I hope you had a wonderful Christmas.  Now... my problem is... since I have upgraded my system to Window 8... I have not been able to access any FC surveys.  I keep getting a msg stating that I am trying to access the surveys from a system out of the country...  I am still here in the good ole USA... "God Bless America".... but I cannot for the life of me figure out what is wrong...  I have missed out on some very good surveys because of this..  I have requested assistance from "Support".. but to no avail.. I have yet to receive a response.  I hope that you may be able to assist me with the matter...  God Bless... and thank you...  I shall remain....

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« Reply #737 on: December 26, 2012, 10:10:33 am »
This is a really sweet idea.

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« Reply #738 on: January 07, 2013, 05:02:36 pm »
Hi all,


Been a while since I posted and a lot has happened since then. Took my daughter to the doctor and found out she has RSV. Trying to get her better since her doctor will NOT admit her to the hospital due to her only having a medical card, yeah my town is so crappy... add to that her father was called the day i found out about the RSV and he didn't even care nor has even came to see her. I'm struggling just to keep it together on very little sleep, 3 hours if i'm lucky. every day i wake up and want to cry. i'm at a loss on what to do anymore. it's hard to understand how a father can just turn his back on his daughter. he has no plans to ever see her again.


My health is also getting worse. i did a google search and discovered going a long period of time with what little sleep i get can have really horrible consequences ( internal organs can stop working ). so stressed about that and not really eating much either. i'm a complete wreck and sadly nobody in my own family seem to care. i'm 100% on my own..... going to cut this short, can't hardly see to type.

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« Reply #739 on: January 08, 2013, 04:01:30 am »
hi tainted lust i know how it feels for your own family to not care or come around during the difficult times my wiffes family and my family is both like that so over the years it has been very hard but doing it all on your own must be really difficult for you try to grab a minute here and there   my wife alwaysaid ok i got to stop and breath and she did she would go into an empty room sit for one minute and seriously breath i think it was her way of energizing quickly.  just remember things will get better soon.

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« Reply #740 on: January 08, 2013, 09:51:42 pm »
Hi all,


Been a while since I posted and a lot has happened since then. Took my daughter to the doctor and found out she has RSV. Trying to get her better since her doctor will NOT admit her to the hospital due to her only having a medical card, yeah my town is so crappy... add to that her father was called the day i found out about the RSV and he didn't even care nor has even came to see her. I'm struggling just to keep it together on very little sleep, 3 hours if i'm lucky. every day i wake up and want to cry. i'm at a loss on what to do anymore. it's hard to understand how a father can just turn his back on his daughter. he has no plans to ever see her again.


My health is also getting worse. i did a google search and discovered going a long period of time with what little sleep i get can have really horrible consequences ( internal organs can stop working ). so stressed about that and not really eating much either. i'm a complete wreck and sadly nobody in my own family seem to care. i'm 100% on my own..... going to cut this short, can't hardly see to type.

I'm so sorry you have so much to struggle with.  It's sad and unfortunate when family won't stand by or help, especially when we need it, and when there are children involved.  I'm going through a situation with my older son, his wife, and her mom. 

You have been an amazing mom - don't you forget that, okay?  You have been positive with a great attitude even with your health issues.  Which I can relate to.

I sincerely hope things will get better soon - with your daughter's RSV and with your own health issues.  I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.  Please let us know how your daughter and you are both doing, okay?  {{{Hugs}}} to you.

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« Reply #741 on: January 17, 2013, 06:41:41 pm »
She's majoring in Forensic Psychology :) She is really excited about it too. I have been doing much better thank god. I haven't had a dizzy spell in a very long time and hope to god it continues to be this way. Thanks for asking. How have you been?
 
HI there where is everyone at? How is everyone doing? I have been doing good with all the Ups and downs of life trying to stay afloat. Daughter Graduated highschool a few months ago, and has since started College. Youngest started 11th grade and is doing pretty good. I am still making sock monkeys and anything else I can think of. It is so hard being a parent to 2 teenagers but would not trade it for anything in the world. I am finding my self bored more now so I guess I need to find something new that I am passionate about. Well hope Ya'll will stop by and say hello soon. :)

Congratulations on your daughter graduating!  I hope she is enjoying college.  Best wishes for both daughters beginning a new year of school and of college.  That's great you are still making sock monkeys!  You'll have to stop by here more often - we miss you and so many when everyone is busy going about their schedules and business.  I hope you have been feeling okay, too.  Hope to see you again soon!  :)
Wow it seems like it has been forever seen I been here. Yes she is loving it first semester is over and she has signed up for new classes already. Time goes by to fast.

Time sure does fly by, a little too fast at times!  I'm glad your daughter is loving college.  What is she majoring in?  I hope you have been doing well health-wise.  :)
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« Reply #742 on: January 17, 2013, 06:45:19 pm »
Hello Florezitta.... It is a pleasure to see the enthusiasm in this forum.... I have a little technical question that you might be able to help me out with.  Oh.... first.... Happy Holidays... and I hope you had a wonderful Christmas.  Now... my problem is... since I have upgraded my system to Window 8... I have not been able to access any FC surveys.  I keep getting a msg stating that I am trying to access the surveys from a system out of the country...  I am still here in the good ole USA... "God Bless America".... but I cannot for the life of me figure out what is wrong...  I have missed out on some very good surveys because of this..  I have requested assistance from "Support".. but to no avail.. I have yet to receive a response.  I hope that you may be able to assist me with the matter...  God Bless... and thank you...  I shall remain....

Hello thanks for stopping bye and sorry it took this long to get back to you. Could it be your firewall? Maybe? I have never used windows 8 But I have had a similar problem with pages that require to be able to track your cookies. Check your browser settings maybe update it while your there. I wonder why they have not gotten back to you FC is usally very prompt with their replies could it be that their email went un noticed in your spam folder? Hope some of this helps you fix the problem. :)
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« Reply #743 on: January 18, 2013, 05:24:50 pm »
She's majoring in Forensic Psychology :) She is really excited about it too. I have been doing much better thank god. I haven't had a dizzy spell in a very long time and hope to god it continues to be this way. Thanks for asking. How have you been?
 
HI there where is everyone at? How is everyone doing? I have been doing good with all the Ups and downs of life trying to stay afloat. Daughter Graduated highschool a few months ago, and has since started College. Youngest started 11th grade and is doing pretty good. I am still making sock monkeys and anything else I can think of. It is so hard being a parent to 2 teenagers but would not trade it for anything in the world. I am finding my self bored more now so I guess I need to find something new that I am passionate about. Well hope Ya'll will stop by and say hello soon. :)

Congratulations on your daughter graduating!  I hope she is enjoying college.  Best wishes for both daughters beginning a new year of school and of college.  That's great you are still making sock monkeys!  You'll have to stop by here more often - we miss you and so many when everyone is busy going about their schedules and business.  I hope you have been feeling okay, too.  Hope to see you again soon!  :)
Wow it seems like it has been forever seen I been here. Yes she is loving it first semester is over and she has signed up for new classes already. Time goes by to fast.

Time sure does fly by, a little too fast at times!  I'm glad your daughter is loving college.  What is she majoring in?  I hope you have been doing well health-wise.  :)

Forensic Psychology sounds like a really interesting field.  I hope she continues to do well and enjoy what she's doing!
I'm so glad you are doing better with those dizzy spells!  That's wonderful news!
I'm still struggling with some issues with the asthma, reflux, and chronic bronchitis.  They've improved a little, but now where I should be.  But we keep working on it!
Take care and I hope you keep feeling better!  :)

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« Reply #744 on: January 20, 2013, 07:14:12 pm »
Hi all,


thought I'd drop In and post.

This Is going to be a long post. dealing with a lot right now. I received a text from my ex letting me know he no longer ever wants to see his daughter again. I also got a letter about child support, seems my ex lied to a sheriff to try and get out of being served. I spoke to my worker and she asked did I have a picture of him and I did so I took the picture/his cell number/his girlfriends name in and she's going to pass it along to a sheriff. I was informed i cannot get a court date if he does not get served.. to top all of that off my family has turned their backs on me and it's a struggle just to do simple things like go buy milk. I'm also dealing with a friend who gets mad every single time i speak to another guy. I've informed him that due to him getting so emo about it the chances of him and i dating is slim to none. I just cannot understand why every single thing has to be so difficult. I am struggling so much to raise my daughter alone and i can never catch a break. i've been going without sleep ( 1-2 hours a night ) and am rarely eating. i'm under so much stress that i'm afraid i'm going to end up collapsing and the sad thing is my daughter would end up being placed in a home because her father wouldn't be around and my family wouldn't step up either. Anyway, this Is just a look at what I've been dealing with and why I haven't posted much.

Hope everyone Is doing well.

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« Reply #745 on: January 20, 2013, 07:29:00 pm »
Hi all,


thought I'd drop In and post.

This Is going to be a long post. dealing with a lot right now. I received a text from my ex letting me know he no longer ever wants to see his daughter again. I also got a letter about child support, seems my ex lied to a sheriff to try and get out of being served. I spoke to my worker and she asked did I have a picture of him and I did so I took the picture/his cell number/his girlfriends name in and she's going to pass it along to a sheriff. I was informed i cannot get a court date if he does not get served.. to top all of that off my family has turned their backs on me and it's a struggle just to do simple things like go buy milk. I'm also dealing with a friend who gets mad every single time i speak to another guy. I've informed him that due to him getting so emo about it the chances of him and i dating is slim to none. I just cannot understand why every single thing has to be so difficult. I am struggling so much to raise my daughter alone and i can never catch a break. i've been going without sleep ( 1-2 hours a night ) and am rarely eating. i'm under so much stress that i'm afraid i'm going to end up collapsing and the sad thing is my daughter would end up being placed in a home because her father wouldn't be around and my family wouldn't step up either. Anyway, this Is just a look at what I've been dealing with and why I haven't posted much.

Hope everyone Is doing well.

I am so sorry you are having to deal with so much.  That's just awful about ex not helping your little one - I hope they get him and hold him accountable for helping with her expenses.

That's a real shame and disappointing that your family has turned their back on you - that should never happen like that.  For the sake of your daughter, they should be helping to make sure she's taken care of.  (By the way, our family is dealing with a similar thing - because of our dtr-in-law and her mom, our son has nothing to do with our/his whole family.  Plus they have a newborn daughter, and he never told us - I had to see it on Facebook.)

You sound wise about the friend is is jealous of you speaking with other men.  You don't need that on you, with everything else on you.

I sure hope you can start getting some rest - you need it.  Have you ever heard of WIC?  Here is the link - they help women with children up to age 5 with food and supplements.  I have a friend who gets help from them for her 2 year old.  She's in a similar type situation, too, except the ex hurts her and Defax helped to get her a separate place away from him, plus she has a Restraining Order against him.  But WIC has been a very big help for her and her little one.  Let me know if it's something that can help you:

http://www.fns.usda.gov/wic/

Hugs!

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« Reply #746 on: January 22, 2013, 01:46:10 pm »
Hi all,


thought I'd drop In and post.

This Is going to be a long post. dealing with a lot right now. I received a text from my ex letting me know he no longer ever wants to see his daughter again. I also got a letter about child support, seems my ex lied to a sheriff to try and get out of being served. I spoke to my worker and she asked did I have a picture of him and I did so I took the picture/his cell number/his girlfriends name in and she's going to pass it along to a sheriff. I was informed i cannot get a court date if he does not get served.. to top all of that off my family has turned their backs on me and it's a struggle just to do simple things like go buy milk. I'm also dealing with a friend who gets mad every single time i speak to another guy. I've informed him that due to him getting so emo about it the chances of him and i dating is slim to none. I just cannot understand why every single thing has to be so difficult. I am struggling so much to raise my daughter alone and i can never catch a break. i've been going without sleep ( 1-2 hours a night ) and am rarely eating. i'm under so much stress that i'm afraid i'm going to end up collapsing and the sad thing is my daughter would end up being placed in a home because her father wouldn't be around and my family wouldn't step up either. Anyway, this Is just a look at what I've been dealing with and why I haven't posted much.

Hope everyone Is doing well.

I am so sorry you are having to deal with so much.  That's just awful about ex not helping your little one - I hope they get him and hold him accountable for helping with her expenses.

That's a real shame and disappointing that your family has turned their back on you - that should never happen like that.  For the sake of your daughter, they should be helping to make sure she's taken care of.  (By the way, our family is dealing with a similar thing - because of our dtr-in-law and her mom, our son has nothing to do with our/his whole family.  Plus they have a newborn daughter, and he never told us - I had to see it on Facebook.)

You sound wise about the friend is is jealous of you speaking with other men.  You don't need that on you, with everything else on you.

I sure hope you can start getting some rest - you need it.  Have you ever heard of WIC?  Here is the link - they help women with children up to age 5 with food and supplements.  I have a friend who gets help from them for her 2 year old.  She's in a similar type situation, too, except the ex hurts her and Defax helped to get her a separate place away from him, plus she has a Restraining Order against him.  But WIC has been a very big help for her and her little one.  Let me know if it's something that can help you:

http://www.fns.usda.gov/wic/

Hugs!
Yeah I'm hoping with me taking the stuff Into my child support worker that he'll get served soon. As for the WIC, I was getting It but missed an appointment so I've got to go back In and get It set up again. My mom has been helping but she's not 100% reliable though and sometimes makes up excuses on why she won't come over. Going to be a short post, need to make munchkin something to eat. Hope you're doing well, Hugs back!

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« Reply #747 on: January 22, 2013, 03:33:50 pm »
Hi all,


thought I'd drop In and post.

This Is going to be a long post. dealing with a lot right now. I received a text from my ex letting me know he no longer ever wants to see his daughter again. I also got a letter about child support, seems my ex lied to a sheriff to try and get out of being served. I spoke to my worker and she asked did I have a picture of him and I did so I took the picture/his cell number/his girlfriends name in and she's going to pass it along to a sheriff. I was informed i cannot get a court date if he does not get served.. to top all of that off my family has turned their backs on me and it's a struggle just to do simple things like go buy milk. I'm also dealing with a friend who gets mad every single time i speak to another guy. I've informed him that due to him getting so emo about it the chances of him and i dating is slim to none. I just cannot understand why every single thing has to be so difficult. I am struggling so much to raise my daughter alone and i can never catch a break. i've been going without sleep ( 1-2 hours a night ) and am rarely eating. i'm under so much stress that i'm afraid i'm going to end up collapsing and the sad thing is my daughter would end up being placed in a home because her father wouldn't be around and my family wouldn't step up either. Anyway, this Is just a look at what I've been dealing with and why I haven't posted much.

Hope everyone Is doing well.

I am so sorry you are having to deal with so much.  That's just awful about ex not helping your little one - I hope they get him and hold him accountable for helping with her expenses.

That's a real shame and disappointing that your family has turned their back on you - that should never happen like that.  For the sake of your daughter, they should be helping to make sure she's taken care of.  (By the way, our family is dealing with a similar thing - because of our dtr-in-law and her mom, our son has nothing to do with our/his whole family.  Plus they have a newborn daughter, and he never told us - I had to see it on Facebook.)

You sound wise about the friend is is jealous of you speaking with other men.  You don't need that on you, with everything else on you.

I sure hope you can start getting some rest - you need it.  Have you ever heard of WIC?  Here is the link - they help women with children up to age 5 with food and supplements.  I have a friend who gets help from them for her 2 year old.  She's in a similar type situation, too, except the ex hurts her and Defax helped to get her a separate place away from him, plus she has a Restraining Order against him.  But WIC has been a very big help for her and her little one.  Let me know if it's something that can help you:

http://www.fns.usda.gov/wic/

Hugs!
Yeah I'm hoping with me taking the stuff Into my child support worker that he'll get served soon. As for the WIC, I was getting It but missed an appointment so I've got to go back In and get It set up again. My mom has been helping but she's not 100% reliable though and sometimes makes up excuses on why she won't come over. Going to be a short post, need to make munchkin something to eat. Hope you're doing well, Hugs back!
I hope you can get the WIC going again.  Possibly food stamps, too?  Anything that can help you and your daughter is well worth it during your rough time.  Keep that pretty chin up and hang in there.  I'm thinking of you.

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« Reply #748 on: January 22, 2013, 05:43:28 pm »
Hi all,


thought I'd drop In and post.

This Is going to be a long post. dealing with a lot right now. I received a text from my ex letting me know he no longer ever wants to see his daughter again. I also got a letter about child support, seems my ex lied to a sheriff to try and get out of being served. I spoke to my worker and she asked did I have a picture of him and I did so I took the picture/his cell number/his girlfriends name in and she's going to pass it along to a sheriff. I was informed i cannot get a court date if he does not get served.. to top all of that off my family has turned their backs on me and it's a struggle just to do simple things like go buy milk. I'm also dealing with a friend who gets mad every single time i speak to another guy. I've informed him that due to him getting so emo about it the chances of him and i dating is slim to none. I just cannot understand why every single thing has to be so difficult. I am struggling so much to raise my daughter alone and i can never catch a break. i've been going without sleep ( 1-2 hours a night ) and am rarely eating. i'm under so much stress that i'm afraid i'm going to end up collapsing and the sad thing is my daughter would end up being placed in a home because her father wouldn't be around and my family wouldn't step up either. Anyway, this Is just a look at what I've been dealing with and why I haven't posted much.

Hope everyone Is doing well.

I am so sorry you are having to deal with so much.  That's just awful about ex not helping your little one - I hope they get him and hold him accountable for helping with her expenses.

That's a real shame and disappointing that your family has turned their back on you - that should never happen like that.  For the sake of your daughter, they should be helping to make sure she's taken care of.  (By the way, our family is dealing with a similar thing - because of our dtr-in-law and her mom, our son has nothing to do with our/his whole family.  Plus they have a newborn daughter, and he never told us - I had to see it on Facebook.)

You sound wise about the friend is is jealous of you speaking with other men.  You don't need that on you, with everything else on you.

I sure hope you can start getting some rest - you need it.  Have you ever heard of WIC?  Here is the link - they help women with children up to age 5 with food and supplements.  I have a friend who gets help from them for her 2 year old.  She's in a similar type situation, too, except the ex hurts her and Defax helped to get her a separate place away from him, plus she has a Restraining Order against him.  But WIC has been a very big help for her and her little one.  Let me know if it's something that can help you:

http://www.fns.usda.gov/wic/

Hugs!
Yeah I'm hoping with me taking the stuff Into my child support worker that he'll get served soon. As for the WIC, I was getting It but missed an appointment so I've got to go back In and get It set up again. My mom has been helping but she's not 100% reliable though and sometimes makes up excuses on why she won't come over. Going to be a short post, need to make munchkin something to eat. Hope you're doing well, Hugs back!
I hope you can get the WIC going again.  Possibly food stamps, too?  Anything that can help you and your daughter is well worth it during your rough time.  Keep that pretty chin up and hang in there.  I'm thinking of you.
My worker messed up and cut my food stamps and K-Tap and my daughter's medical card. I'm going to try and re-sign back up for food stamps and hopefully get them back.

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« Reply #749 on: January 23, 2013, 11:48:39 pm »
Hi all,


thought I'd drop In and post.

This Is going to be a long post. dealing with a lot right now. I received a text from my ex letting me know he no longer ever wants to see his daughter again. I also got a letter about child support, seems my ex lied to a sheriff to try and get out of being served. I spoke to my worker and she asked did I have a picture of him and I did so I took the picture/his cell number/his girlfriends name in and she's going to pass it along to a sheriff. I was informed i cannot get a court date if he does not get served.. to top all of that off my family has turned their backs on me and it's a struggle just to do simple things like go buy milk. I'm also dealing with a friend who gets mad every single time i speak to another guy. I've informed him that due to him getting so emo about it the chances of him and i dating is slim to none. I just cannot understand why every single thing has to be so difficult. I am struggling so much to raise my daughter alone and i can never catch a break. i've been going without sleep ( 1-2 hours a night ) and am rarely eating. i'm under so much stress that i'm afraid i'm going to end up collapsing and the sad thing is my daughter would end up being placed in a home because her father wouldn't be around and my family wouldn't step up either. Anyway, this Is just a look at what I've been dealing with and why I haven't posted much.

Hope everyone Is doing well.

I am so sorry you are having to deal with so much.  That's just awful about ex not helping your little one - I hope they get him and hold him accountable for helping with her expenses.

That's a real shame and disappointing that your family has turned their back on you - that should never happen like that.  For the sake of your daughter, they should be helping to make sure she's taken care of.  (By the way, our family is dealing with a similar thing - because of our dtr-in-law and her mom, our son has nothing to do with our/his whole family.  Plus they have a newborn daughter, and he never told us - I had to see it on Facebook.)

You sound wise about the friend is is jealous of you speaking with other men.  You don't need that on you, with everything else on you.

I sure hope you can start getting some rest - you need it.  Have you ever heard of WIC?  Here is the link - they help women with children up to age 5 with food and supplements.  I have a friend who gets help from them for her 2 year old.  She's in a similar type situation, too, except the ex hurts her and Defax helped to get her a separate place away from him, plus she has a Restraining Order against him.  But WIC has been a very big help for her and her little one.  Let me know if it's something that can help you:

http://www.fns.usda.gov/wic/

Hugs!
Yeah I'm hoping with me taking the stuff Into my child support worker that he'll get served soon. As for the WIC, I was getting It but missed an appointment so I've got to go back In and get It set up again. My mom has been helping but she's not 100% reliable though and sometimes makes up excuses on why she won't come over. Going to be a short post, need to make munchkin something to eat. Hope you're doing well, Hugs back!
I hope you can get the WIC going again.  Possibly food stamps, too?  Anything that can help you and your daughter is well worth it during your rough time.  Keep that pretty chin up and hang in there.  I'm thinking of you.
My worker messed up and cut my food stamps and K-Tap and my daughter's medical card. I'm going to try and re-sign back up for food stamps and hopefully get them back.
I hope you are able to get them back!  :)

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