Marriage

[livefree03]

Will u marry a person who owes child support, been married 3xs, blames the opposite sex for every thing? 

[Azanne07]

My boyfriend does not owe child support but I would be his 5th wife. He doesnt blame women for everything but he seems to think the world works around him. I love him with all my heart and can not wait to marry him but hes really full of himself. Hes getting a little better thou. I can see why he has been divorced so many times thou.

[livefree03]

Well I hope it works out 4 ya, I can't see myself marrying a guy who has been married already unless he's widowed but to each to own

[ULuvCeCe]

I have dated previously married guys but baggage can be a pain.  None of them owed child support but if they did it would make me wonder if they would support me and/or any children we had in the future or if he'd do the same

[livefree03]

yeah me 2, i'm on lock down wit child bearing no more 4 me!!!

[halokitty]

If they cant support their children I would wonder how I could start a family with someone like that, plus being divorced that many times would make me have second thoughts

[cakestripe]

Marriage is so archaic... What's the point anymore, especially with divorce being so simple??
I see something lovely in the contract - the idea of these two people coming together to merge their income, savings, debt, and everything else about everything, but it's become such a "show" now...

[missijl]

If they blame the opposite sex for everything, that would put you on the losing end, correct? (Unless you're a same-sex couple.) I wouldn't want to live every day feeling as though I was the cause of my spouse's never-ending grief!

[dreamyxo]

I won't even date a person with kids so heck no.  This person sounds like a real winner.  Run don't walk.

[brendy1990]

absoulutley NOT

[mrisha]

With all this guys faults and you know he is an A** hole, and being married that many times, what makes you think he will not divorce you?  The guy is selfish and yet you want to marry him.  Truly amazing.  But to each his own and I hope you will be happy.

[missijl]

People who have been married a ton of times seem to be unwilling to work through problems as well as they should. I'm married, and let me tell you, we've had our share of battles (literally when he was deployed)! It HAS to be 50/50 compromise on everything and no other way. If both partners aren't willing to put in the effort, the marriage will fail.

[makedoughonline]

No way. I love myself enough, and refuse to subject myself to such person.