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ladycasshmere

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Breaking up
« on: March 21, 2011, 04:58:45 pm »
What is the best way to break up with a girlfriend/boyfriend ?

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Re: Breaking up
« Reply #1 on: March 21, 2011, 06:12:54 pm »
always be real with them and let them know whats up

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Re: Breaking up
« Reply #2 on: March 23, 2011, 03:09:09 am »
Be honest and give them and yourself closer. It's the only way to move on. I divorced my Ex over 2 yrs. ago and he still doesn't get it. I've been honest with him but he's in denial...STILL!

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Re: Breaking up
« Reply #3 on: March 24, 2011, 09:46:54 am »
I would say honesty and, depending on the situation (assuming no abuse or anything like that), doing it in person, rather than through text or phone message.

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Re: Breaking up
« Reply #4 on: March 24, 2011, 10:42:46 am »
It's not going to be easy for either of the two people involved, but be honest and respectful of the other person. And I agree to do it in person not in a text or email or some other way.

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Re: Breaking up
« Reply #5 on: March 24, 2011, 01:32:21 pm »
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say its not you its me lol

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Re: Breaking up
« Reply #6 on: March 24, 2011, 07:47:02 pm »
do it in person and be honest with them. Don't give them some excuse that you and them know is a lie, being honest might at least salvage some kinda friendship because you never know what they are thinking or feeling.

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Re: Breaking up
« Reply #7 on: March 24, 2011, 10:59:24 pm »
do it in person and be honest with them. Don't give them some excuse that you and them know is a lie, being honest might at least salvage some kinda friendship because you never know what they are thinking or feeling.

I agree, but I also think telling them in public ( like a restaurant) is a good idea. They are less likely to freak out and make a scene.

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Re: Breaking up
« Reply #8 on: March 25, 2011, 07:10:52 am »
Be honest with them, why are you breaking up with them.  Was it because someone else is showing more interest in you, or have they changed.  just try to be honest.

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Re: Breaking up
« Reply #9 on: March 25, 2011, 08:30:58 pm »
Yes, be honest with them because that is the most important thing. And also doing it face to face somewhere where it is just the two of you so it won't be any distractions.
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