This topic is locked, no replies allowed. Inaccurate or out-of-date info may be present.

  • Print

Topic: I Hate Other People's Kids  (Read 7581 times)

BK_Adores_Chase

    US flag
    View Profile
  • Silver Member
  • *******
  • Posts: 1014 (since 2010)
  • Thanked: 2x
I Hate Other People's Kids
« on: April 09, 2011, 06:42:15 pm »
 :peace:
« Last Edit: August 05, 2011, 07:02:21 am by BK_Adores_Chase »

Azanne07

    US flag
    View Profile
  • Gold Member
  • ********
  • Posts: 2154 (since 2009)
  • Thanked: 14x
Re: I Hate Other People's Kids
« Reply #1 on: April 09, 2011, 07:49:52 pm »
hate is a feeling that is just as strong as love.

monasiers

    US flag
    View Profile
  • Jr. Member
  • **
  • Posts: 72 (since 2011)
  • Thanked: 0x
Re: I Hate Other People's Kids
« Reply #2 on: April 09, 2011, 08:29:18 pm »
LOL.. no alot of peopl dislike kids. like my friends she says the same thing but she has 2 of her own and she loves them dearly.

devideddi

    US flag
    View Profile
  • Silver Member
  • *******
  • Posts: 1860 (since 2009)
  • Thanked: 19x
Re: I Hate Other People's Kids
« Reply #3 on: April 09, 2011, 10:06:08 pm »
I used to feel like that...sorta.  It just seemed like they never behaved or were rude.  Now not so much.  Maybe I have softened but I think about how maybe they dont got somebody that cares enough to teach them manners and how to behave and what not to say and such.  Or maybe they don't get enough attention at home or something like that and I end up feeling kinda sorry for them.

lynnc35

    US flag
    View Profile
  • Gold Member
  • ********
  • Posts: 2651 (since 2009)
  • Thanked: 20x
Re: I Hate Other People's Kids
« Reply #4 on: April 10, 2011, 12:00:39 pm »
I like other peoples kids, cuz they go home, haha. But I love my own.

tantricia44

    US flag
    View Profile
  • Gold Member
  • ********
  • Posts: 3590 (since 2010)
  • Thanked: 83x
Re: I Hate Other People's Kids
« Reply #5 on: April 10, 2011, 06:23:35 pm »
but love my own - is this horrible?

1. Why do you hate other people's kids?
2. I hate other people's kids esp. at movies, & eating out places. I want to enjoy a meal or a movie without noisy kids everywhere. This is why they invented the baby sitting services.
3. Possible main reason people end up in divorce. They never have any time alone since the kids were born.
4. I think we should petition for a KIDS FREE ZONEs/ESTABLISHMENTs. Wouldn't you enjoy your dinner out better without somebody else's kids screaming & fighting in the back ground? Worse the parent are doing nothing but talking on her cell phone as her brats scream *bleep* murder. This happened to me & my husband in Olive Garden. The 2 brats were fighting/screaming. Other dinners were trying to ignore the noise. I of course, happily gave the 2 women the evil eye look. Finally when they got up to leave, the fat one spits out, as they pass by our table; this is a family establishment. My husband yells out; not if you don't control your screaming brats while others are trying to enjoy their dinner in a public place. 
5. I love all my nieces & nephews but whenever, they start acting up in public my brother/sister-in law take action & remove the kid out of the places. They don't just sit there & pretend there isn't a screaming brat in the room.
6. We decided against having kids a long time ago. So, please don't inflict your brats on me when I'm trying to enjoy a KIDS FREE dinner! :wave:

sadie524

    US flag
    View Profile
  • Full Member
  • ***
  • Posts: 133 (since 2009)
  • Thanked: 0x
Re: I Hate Other People's Kids
« Reply #6 on: April 10, 2011, 07:01:49 pm »
I don't think it's horrible. I dislike most kids, but that's probably because I don't think a lot of parents do a good job of raising them. Some kids are such brats and just whine until they get their way. I always think that when I have kids, there are so many things I'll do differently than a lot of the parents I know. I know it's easier said than done, but a parent needs to be in control of their kids rather than the other way around.

shernajwine

    US flag
    View Profile
  • Silver Member
  • *******
  • Posts: 1299 (since 2010)
  • Thanked: 0x
Re: I Hate Other People's Kids
« Reply #7 on: April 10, 2011, 07:18:56 pm »
It is so funny that I just saw this thread and just the other day I was looking through another blog about this same thing.

I agree with you. I have three kids but I actually didn't ever want to have children. I'm not very patient and my kids probably drive me nuts a little faster than some other parents. But I LOVE my children LOVE LOVE LOVE them and I can't imagine nor want to imagine my life without them.

But when it comes to other people's kids. They seem more gross, more annoying, and less cute than my own. All my sisters have babies and I babysit constantly and I hate it. I love my nieces and nephews, it's not that I hate them I am just extremely less tolerant with them.

For example, I can change my own kids diapers, no problem. I nearly always gag and vomit when I have to change other children's poopy diapers. I can wipe my kids nose, don't even think twice about it. Wiping another kids nose....makes me gag.

As for kids that are not related at all? Forget it, I actually find some of them to be appalling. If they are good and calm and sweet, then I am okay with them. But a screaming rotten child that has no relation to me?  :BangHead:

I COMPLETELY relate to you. And it's good to know I'm not the only one. I felt horrible for a long time that I felt this way. I'm just not a kid "person". Even though I have children of my own, kids are not my thang lol.


willow80834

    US flag
    View Profile
  • Full Member
  • ***
  • Posts: 242 (since 2010)
  • Thanked: 0x
Re: I Hate Other People's Kids
« Reply #8 on: April 10, 2011, 09:15:58 pm »
i dont hate other peoples kids  but i get rather irritated when u go out and someone has a screaming kid or one that runs around being rude and disrespectful...    GEEE     I read in a artical we are raising a generation of psychopaths...   I spanked my kids and they turned out to be AWESOME members of our society, respectful, polite, and care deeply for others....   I say bring back the spanking !!!    I live in that town where the 12 year old murdered his parents and tried to brutally kill his brother and sister... the parents was against spanking as a punishment....     Things that make u go  HUMMMM

Elizabethar

    US flag
    View Profile
  • Elite Member
  • ******
  • Posts: 981 (since 2007)
  • Thanked: 1x
Re: I Hate Other People's Kids
« Reply #9 on: April 11, 2011, 06:37:22 am »
I don't hate other people's kid's I just hate the mom or dad who don't take time out to show their kids wrong from right. I have two kid's of my own.

texaswhiterose

    US flag
    View Profile
  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 258 (since 2010)
  • Thanked: 0x
Re: I Hate Other People's Kids
« Reply #10 on: April 11, 2011, 07:54:29 am »
Most kids today are rude and disrespectful and don't know how to behave at a restaurant. Or anywhere for that matter. When I was a kid I sat at the table and talked quietly with my family. I sat still in my chair and I ate what was in front of me with my mouth closed. If I didn't my mom would remove me from the establishment. My brothers and I were TAUGHT to behave in public. Now adays parents don't teach kids manners. And in a lot of cases when a parent tries to discipline a child in public by giving them a swat on the butt someone calls the authorities for child abuse. News flash for all you parents out there taking pictures of junior at 2 pouring spaghetti on his head, it isn't so funny when he does it at 5 in the middle of a busy restaurant.

tjshorty

    US flag
    View Profile
  • Silver Member
  • *******
  • Posts: 1580 (since 2010)
  • Thanked: 34x
Re: I Hate Other People's Kids
« Reply #11 on: April 11, 2011, 08:14:31 am »
It must be normal.  Everyone I know is like that.  I do know you will get over it.  At least I did.  I think it because I know I don't have to be around them for to long.  But some peoples kids are just brats esp when they are away from their own parents.

sommap

    US flag
    View Profile
  • Silver Member
  • *******
  • Posts: 1223 (since 2010)
  • Thanked: 0x
Re: I Hate Other People's Kids
« Reply #12 on: April 11, 2011, 09:49:32 am »
Don't care for bratty kids.  If they are well-behaved, I am okay with them.

tuyetmai

    US flag
    View Profile
  • Gold Member
  • ********
  • Posts: 2233 (since 2008)
  • Thanked: 18x
Re: I Hate Other People's Kids
« Reply #13 on: April 11, 2011, 10:48:23 am »
but love my own - is this horrible?
I think most people feel like that.  I sometime feel that too when I see them not behave well.  But other than that they are cute to me :)

shernajwine

    US flag
    View Profile
  • Silver Member
  • *******
  • Posts: 1299 (since 2010)
  • Thanked: 0x
Re: I Hate Other People's Kids
« Reply #14 on: April 11, 2011, 11:42:21 am »
Yeah, like I've always been a crappy babysitter because the kids would behave rottenly for me - the other day my son's cousin came over and I'm pretty positive he told my son to tell me to "shut the h*** up mommy," because my 3 year old would never come up with something like that on his own.  I thought of a good comeback the more I thought about it - "Darren, if you don't stop swearing Kayden needs to go home instead of spending the night" That would teach the little brat - but by the time I thought of that the moment had passed.  I was proud of myself because I told his mom she needed to talk to him about it when usually I would just let the situation slide but I've realized that if I'm going to be a good Mom I need to stand up for my kids.  Last time his cousin came over he made a huge mess that took me 2 hours to clean up and broke 2 of my sons toys, a race car he just got for Christmas and his playstation --- and when I told his mom she blammed it on his ADHD and said it was normal --- if that's normal behavior I don't want the kid in my house.  I never offer for him to come over, she always just asks --- I feel like she just pawns him off on me.

This could be me typing this! My niece came over and pulled my son's dvd player off the t.v. My sister was actually here and she didn't do anything but tell her child "Don't do that". If my child had done that, he would have gotten a spanking! And if I had been babysitting, I would have spanked her. But I don't discipline other people's kids if their parents are there. I find that disrespectful.

Thankfully the dvd player didn't break but what if it had? My sister lives at home with our parents and has no job. She would not have been able to replace it! My son would have been out a dvd player and I would have had to buy another one! I was really upset about this whole thing.

Like I said, I love my nieces and nephews but their behavior seems much more annoying than my own kids behavior


  • Print
 

Related Topics

  Subject / Started by Replies Last post
48 Replies
8881 Views
Last post October 13, 2010, 01:08:14 pm
by kunesunny
16 Replies
3106 Views
Last post September 29, 2011, 03:15:06 pm
by tjshorty
37 Replies
5776 Views
Last post March 21, 2012, 06:05:28 pm
by jaymz462
9 Replies
1852 Views
Last post July 22, 2014, 10:46:38 pm
by VampyreVixen
22 Replies
1119 Views
Last post June 07, 2019, 02:32:13 pm
by vickysue