friendship

[charmaine56]

 
The test of friendship.
Can you stay with friends and still remain friends. This is a test of friendship but a guaranteed way to find out who is a friend.

what I found out in the world today is that many people can not share for real. they think they can but they cant. 2 reasons I say this. For one friend I stayed with I paid 300 a month rent. She was an only child and really needed some turkey medicine big time. She had the idea that she had gone out of her way to share. I cleaned for her. I did piles of dishes. I even got a job for her when I could have just paid another 2 months rent and let things naturally unfold as they were unfolding. She let her religious friends have a say on one hand then on the other hand a past lover who was a drug addict and a lawyer. She let her make judgements. And what chance to you have when you got the church and a drug addicted bisexual lawyer making decisions for someone who you thought was a good friend. Well time stood the test. And it seemed that the problems were not me that caused her anx. She now knows that both the past lover and the younger religious woman were both self righteous and both intended to break up a friendship that stood the test of time. But do they all stand the test of time. I guess only time will tell.

Do you have a friendship story to tell? and no