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aggiebaldaino

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Why is it hard to find love?
« on: June 27, 2011, 01:20:39 pm »
I am looking for love I think too much sometimes but as long as I have god everything else would fall into place I guess


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Re: Why is it hard to find love?
« Reply #1 on: June 27, 2011, 01:24:44 pm »
I am looking for love I think too much sometimes but as long as I have god everything else would fall into place I guess
You never look for love.  That sounds like you are going to a store to shop.  Love is all around you and it will come to you when you spread love(not lust) to others.

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Re: Why is it hard to find love?
« Reply #2 on: June 27, 2011, 01:25:17 pm »
HAHAHAHAHAH

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Re: Why is it hard to find love?
« Reply #3 on: June 27, 2011, 01:28:49 pm »
hehehe ???

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Re: Why is it hard to find love?
« Reply #4 on: June 27, 2011, 01:44:30 pm »
I believe God does everything for a reason, so be patient and see what the future holds.

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Re: Why is it hard to find love?
« Reply #5 on: June 27, 2011, 03:17:46 pm »
I spent most of my life looking for love.   I know what you are talking about!  Finally at age 39 I met her.   Age 41 we married.  Age 45, still married.  I know one thing, it came when I thought it wouldn't.  I have learned one thing in life, it is that there are certain things that you cannot force.  Love is one of them!  Hang in there and learn to like yourself first.  Everything else will fall into place!   :heart:

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Re: Why is it hard to find love?
« Reply #6 on: June 27, 2011, 04:13:33 pm »
I am looking for love I think too much sometimes but as long as I have god everything else would fall into place I guess
I don't know what you been through but I think you working too hard in your life to find what ever try to find peace in yourself.  Just love yourself first.  I think love will come to you as you love yourself.  best of wish to you. :)

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Re: Why is it hard to find love?
« Reply #7 on: June 28, 2011, 12:01:37 am »
Don't look for love! It comes when it's least expected. I tried looking and searching, and then I gave up. That's when love found me :)

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Re: Why is it hard to find love?
« Reply #8 on: June 28, 2011, 01:10:47 am »
You don't find "IT"......... "IT" finds YOU!! :dontknow:

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Re: Why is it hard to find love?
« Reply #9 on: June 28, 2011, 04:01:34 am »
a man doesnt want to settle down they are scared they would lose their high ego of being a ladies man

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Re: Why is it hard to find love?
« Reply #10 on: June 28, 2011, 05:40:14 am »
a man doesnt want to settle down they are scared they would lose their high ego of being a ladies man


Yesssssssssss ! This was my man LOL !!!! I waited for him 11yrs. Finally gave in and we been happily married 15 yrs.

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Re: Why is it hard to find love?
« Reply #11 on: June 28, 2011, 07:08:29 am »
Finding love is harder for some. But it's better to be alone and miserable than with someone you don't love and miserable.

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Re: Why is it hard to find love?
« Reply #12 on: June 28, 2011, 08:31:14 am »
Maybe because most people are not mature enough to know what love really is. They have unreasonable expectations such as always having the being "in love" feeling with the other person and when they find it isn't that way they decide they were mistaken.

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Re: Why is it hard to find love?
« Reply #13 on: August 25, 2011, 11:24:44 am »
I believe God does everything for a reason, so be patient and see what the future holds.

I completely agree! I love this response because I have always applied this mentality to every aspect of life. It keeps me from sinking into any depression caused from being discouraged by expectations that have not been met.

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Re: Why is it hard to find love?
« Reply #14 on: August 25, 2011, 01:21:31 pm »
its not hard for me to find love

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