Sex Is Not Suppose To Be A Chore In A Marriage

[ghamalian]

Sex feels good. Doesn't matter if it's in marriage or not. The day sex becomes a chore for me is the day I leave this world and become an astronaut that devotes his life to studying outer space!!!

[BLACKMON96]

Maybe this is true before children. However once children is in the picture a couple is lucky if they can still a kiss. Another thing is when women get home from a long work day, they come home to another job of cooking laundry children. Once they are finish with their second job, they are usually dog tired

[jamieknupp]

i would gladly think of it as a chore if my fiance ever wanted to get around to it. honey-do list? ME! lol

[linnbast1985]

It can become routine which makes it boring if it is the same thing over and over again. There does need to be some zing and surprise in this aspect of marriage.

[mdanielek]

When sex is done right, it feels toooo good to be a chore, but when you have children and a job and housework, I understand being too tired for it.  My hubby and I believe that its quality not the quantity of sex that matters.

[ghunter]

Sex is not a chore and whoever think that it is something is wrong in your marriage and you should get out of it.  Sex is a lovely thing between a husband and a wife and should be very enjoyable, I know mind is

[masked_brown_guy]

I bet it is if your partner is lazy and doesn't "give back".

[abdyer2001]

There is no way that it should be viewed as a chore, if it seems like a chore. i would suggest counceling or divorce

[sherryinutah]

If it is a chore, I will try to do my chores at least 3 or 4 times a week!! 

That is funny.  Gotta love the sense of humor. 

If sex is a chore in a monogamous relationship it's because one partner feels obligated to accommodate the other.  For some folks it's a trade-off.  The husband might pay the bills where the wife takes care of her responsibilities in bed.  For some people it is about reproduction so...if they don't want more children...they're not motivated to 'get it on'. Ideally...two people would be sexual with each other because they BOTH enjoy time spent together in the bedroom, on the kitchen counter, etc.   

[ayerla41]

Bad sex normally points to a lack of intimacy or something else wrong with the marriage. Check into what's happening - are you not communicating about what you want during sex? That's a problem that affects all parts of a relationship.