How men deal with Ex-wives

[dwiley11]

I have been divorced since 2002.  And every time I make any extra to get ahead it seems the ex has her hand out.  She has a good job and owns a resterant.  But shes allowed by our government to take from me.  How do other men deal with this kind of greed

[girlswin2]

Do you mean alimony?  Unless you have kids with her and paying child support you shouldn't have to be giving her money all the time.  Sounds like she is taking you for a ride.  There is one easy way to deal with this there is a word called NO.  If your ordered to pay a certain amout then pay just that amount and thats it.  Any time she comes it hand out after you paid what you have to keep wallet closed and tell her you don't have it to give.  Read over you divorce papers and see just what your responsible for and whatever it says then your responsible for.  Other wise go back to a lawyer to see what can be done.  Sorry your going through this but at some point you have to say NO!  Merry Christmas.