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aggie49

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so numb and can not cry no more
« on: May 04, 2012, 01:19:34 pm »
it has been a ruff day can not understand why my loved ones are dying at early age first my mom now my sister beena up all night crying so i will go on but just like to know why but i guess i will never know


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Re: so numb and can not cry no more
« Reply #1 on: May 04, 2012, 02:04:48 pm »
there's no way to understand why anyone passes.  i'm so sorry for your losses, just know that they are in a better place and will always be with you as long as you keep them in your heart and mind.

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Re: so numb and can not cry no more
« Reply #2 on: May 04, 2012, 02:46:01 pm »
sorry to hear you troubles but crying is all you can do right now. i remember my cousin died of breast cancer when she was 37 how can that be so young. right now take all the time you need  talk to friends or family members that may help

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Re: so numb and can not cry no more
« Reply #3 on: May 04, 2012, 02:51:36 pm »
it has been a ruff day can not understand why my loved ones are dying at early age first my mom now my sister beena up all night crying so i will go on but just like to know why but i guess i will never know

Everything that lives eventually dies.  Whether that event occurs early or later in the cycle of life, it remains an inflexible truth no matter how disheartening.
One can lead a horse to water however, if one holds the horse's head under, that horse will drown.

             

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Re: so numb and can not cry no more
« Reply #4 on: May 04, 2012, 08:39:53 pm »
it has been a ruff day can not understand why my loved ones are dying at early age first my mom now my sister beena up all night crying so i will go on but just like to know why but i guess i will never know
My sympathy for your losses. Sometimes a "why" can't be answered but the question is part of the grieving process. I hope you can find some comfort soon.

Everything that lives eventually dies.  Whether that event occurs early or later in the cycle of life, it remains an inflexible truth no matter how disheartening.
Very true, my dear falcon9. My tears do flow tonight as well. Today is also the anniversary of my son's passing at the age of 17.

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Re: so numb and can not cry no more
« Reply #5 on: May 04, 2012, 08:49:18 pm »
My condolences for your loss. Sometimes you can't explain or know why things happen. My thoughts and prayers are with you. :crybaby2:

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Re: so numb and can not cry no more
« Reply #6 on: May 04, 2012, 09:19:08 pm »
It will be o. Just rememb er that they are gone to a better place and they will always be with you! :wave:

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Re: so numb and can not cry no more
« Reply #7 on: May 04, 2012, 09:24:05 pm »
My condolences to you, that Is a very hard thing for you or anybody to go thru.

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Re: so numb and can not cry no more
« Reply #8 on: May 04, 2012, 11:19:46 pm »
Everything that lives eventually dies.  Whether that event occurs early or later in the cycle of life, it remains an inflexible truth no matter how disheartening.

Very true, my dear falcon9. My tears do flow tonight as well. Today is also the anniversary of my son's passing at the age of 17.

This is a hard truth; one that some cannot bear to face.  I've faced it in combat and civilian life and I'm not saying it's an easy thing by any means.  It's merely how the cycle works, like it or not.
One can lead a horse to water however, if one holds the horse's head under, that horse will drown.

             

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Re: so numb and can not cry no more
« Reply #9 on: May 05, 2012, 04:57:53 am »
My heart goes out to you and your family.  I am very sorry for your loss and I know exactly how you feel right as i have lost 3 kids at young age of 8,6 and 5. As time goes by things will get better and you will heal from this.  Keep them in your heart and thoughts and never forget them. 

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Re: so numb and can not cry no more
« Reply #10 on: May 05, 2012, 05:11:40 am »
I am sorry for your loss.  Although I have never lost anyone close to me, this type of thing has been on my mind a lot lately.  I keep hearing about people dying young it seems at an alarming rate lately.

I honestly don't know how some people find the strength to pull themselves together and go on after some of the losses they have to endure, but the strength of some people is truly amazing.

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Re: so numb and can not cry no more
« Reply #11 on: May 05, 2012, 05:22:36 am »
it has been a ruff day can not understand why my loved ones are dying at early age first my mom now my sister beena up all night crying so i will go on but just like to know why but i guess i will never know

most of the time we can never really understand why our loved ones are taken away from us. I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
I pray that you will be able to find peace and eventually be able to celebrate your loved ones lives.
Be grateful for what you have and you will receive more than you ever expected

If you believe it you can achieve it.

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Re: so numb and can not cry no more
« Reply #12 on: May 05, 2012, 09:12:02 am »
My Condolences

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Re: so numb and can not cry no more
« Reply #13 on: May 05, 2012, 01:35:19 pm »
i am so sorry for your loss and i am with u on that i have lost so many these last 3 years 3 kids and 2 of my best friends but just think of it this way god know who u are and know that u are sad but they are not in any more pain and they are happy. i am more jeoles of them then they are of me because i wish my day would come i didnt have to live in this evil world. i hope all gose well for u and that u will be ok i will pray for u and your family. :heart:

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Re: so numb and can not cry no more
« Reply #14 on: May 05, 2012, 01:39:29 pm »
I am so sorry for your loss, when my brother passed away I didnt think I would ever feel normal again.

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