Guys- just because we girls are friendly doesnt mean we like you!!

[pattersondebra]

No it's not just you, not only do they think you're flirting but the people around think the same. I have brothers and get along with them so have no problems comunicating with guys, why does that have to be an ugly thing?

[sigmapi1501]

Man, WOMEN BE SHOPPIN'!

[dodgers16]

   "just because we girls are friendly doesnt mean we like you!!" that is one hard lesson to learn 

[falcon9]

   "just because we girls are friendly doesnt mean we like you!!" that is one hard lesson to learn 

Strangely enough, just because those same girls seem to be unfriendly, it doesn't mean they aren't playing some obscure game of feigned aloofness in some arcane tactic of coming on to a guy, (under the aforementioned arcane idea of not seeming "too forward").  Bottomline; you can never tell because such a process is not amiable to logic.

[smithjcsdfw]

So if a girl is friendly that means we don't like you or because a girl is friendly has no indication about whether she like you or not.  Dayum no wonder I stay confused.

[falcon9]

So if a girl is friendly that means we don't like you or because a girl is friendly has no indication about whether she like you or not.  Dayum no wonder I stay confused.

Generally-speaking, there are more girls/woman who employ a vague variation of logic to 'mating rituals' which isn't technically logical.  Once it's understood that there really isn't much logic involved in such ritual 'dances', one can lead, follow or get the hel out of the way.

[vicogden]

No tashamjoy, it isn't just you.  We guys can be pretty shallow at times and certainly take generic things and make them more "sexual" than they should be... (or maybe it's just me  !)

[masked_brown_guy]

even though it is perfectly normal to be friendly with the opposite sex, some of you need to take in consideration your pheromones. Did you workout or something before you found yourself in such a situation? Also where are you? if you talking to someone who is working and just happens to be attractive, then chances are that person is just being nice because it is expected.  Party situations just call for flirtation but keep in mind if people dance or are intoxicated then let it be. Also smelling good is going to attract attention, you do not have to smell terrible but smelling too good is going to give certain people certain ideas. if that doesn't work for ya, then just make garlic an integral part of your daily diet, you'll smell like those who eat it and chances are they are not going to bother you.

[falcon9]

... if that doesn't work for ya, then just make garlic an integral part of your daily diet, you'll smell like those who eat it and chances are they are not going to bother you.

Although that's a common myth about 'vampires', they may nevertheless invite their 'prey' out for a "steak" through the heart, (a cross or 'holy water' isn't likely to stop some persistent people either ... "Baby, you've got ticks?  No problem, I have matches - let's go!").

[mzzsarah12]

I find this so hard because I joke around not even about anything flirty or anything just normal stuff and guys always think u r flirting or is this just me?

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I agree completely some guys take it way to far. Your just being social and they get all gross on you. I get so sick of that "how are you doing today" doesn't mean "jump in my pants"

[sigmapi1501]

I find this so hard because I joke around not even about anything flirty or anything just normal stuff and guys always think u r flirting or is this just me?

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I agree completely some guys take it way to far. Your just being social and they get all gross on you. I get so sick of that "how are you doing today" doesn't mean "jump in my pants"

Jeez, you want men to be confidant and aggressive or not?  So indecisive.

[falcon9]

I find this so hard because I joke around not even about anything flirty or anything just normal stuff and guys always think u r flirting or is this just me?

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I agree completely some guys take it way to far. Your just being social and they get all gross on you. I get so sick of that "how are you doing today" doesn't mean "jump in my pants"

Jeez, you want men to be confidant and aggressive or not?  So indecisive.

Consider this and you may be able to determine why logic doesn't apply when it comes to some women; they don't want 'every' guy hitting on them, they only want specific guys to do so.  Much the same methods are employed in such womens' "ritual mating dances" as with purely non-flirtatious 'social interactions' as in flirting, (although they may sometimes throw in the giggling/hair-toss/asking-inane-questions thing or not to emphasize that they're in flirt-mode).  The guy is supposed to recognize the subtle differences and act accordingly.  This methodology is intended to 'make sense' to such women whether it does or not to men.
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