how can you tell when your spouse is cheating

[lvstephanie]

Well, the easiest way is to see if there has been a change in behavior. MOST people act differently. Start working late; have reasons to go "out" all the time. But, you can always check the phone records and see if calls have been made to the same number.... Just some thoughts...

Although maybe he's just calling Jake from State Farm:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CYxz6cluskQ

 

Seriously though, usually when someone cheats, it is because they feel like they are missing something in their current relationship. You could try to have a more neutral conversation by asking him if he's happy and what his fantasies / desires are. Maybe he just wants a little excitement, and by talking with him about this (and later acting on it) you might be able to turn his eyes back to you. Instead of laying blame or adding guilt, you may be able to show him that he's already got it great and doesn't need to look elsewhere.

[surveysmillenium]

Check the cell phone bill. Look for trends. Make sure that if you go this sleuth route, you are prepared for what you will find. Don't confront your spouse without evidence, but I do suggest having a conversation about the status of your relationship. People get comfortable in relationships. Find ways to spice things up. Good book is called the 5 love languages. Check it out.

[joyroos18]

if you are worried then something is wrong in your marriage, you should talk to him about and listen dont just argue, i use to be sooooo jealous when i was younger now i just wish somebody would come take him lol