I want to start off with, I will be there for ANYONE if needed. I have this neighbor who is 61 years of age and I know he can do for him self. he calls me just about every day sometimes 5-7 times a day. he'll say "Ginny can you bring me down a peanut butter and jelly sandwhich", or sometime he'll ask me to bring him food....over this past weekend he called me and sad "Ginny I dont feel good I think I took to many pills" I said how many dd you take, he said 10...now mind you he sounded fine to me. so I said "I will call 911" he said NO...so I got off the phone and I called his sister who lives out of state...we talked and she didn know what to do because he has pulled this so many times...anyways while on the phone with her my other phone rings and it's him again...he said "Ginny I feel so much better now" I said "wow that was quick what did you do" he said " I drank allot of water" I relay back to his sister what he said and she was like "see one never knows with him" hr's later I get a call from his sister saying that he called her and saying "I took 15 pills" so she gets off the phone and calls 911...the fire department,ambulance came and took him to the hospital...the next day he calls me from the hospital saying " oh Ginny I dont know what to do I just want to die"........this man is making me physicaly sick, i'm abunch of nerves. I screen my calls now and I feel like i'm a prisoner in my own home.....God forbid if anything happens to him should I feel guilty?...I mean he leans on me for allot and I feel if I dont jump or something REALLY happens i'll be wondering, what could have I done?...my other neighbors tell me he's not my problem and so does my family BUT ....... he counts on me so much, I dont know what more to do......I will help anyone but when all I hear from him is I want to die, a part of me just wants to say just do it and get it over with...then I feel even more guilty for even thinking of saying that.....HELP!!...........what would you do?........1 of my neighbors even said he feels bad for me because this guy seems to be playing head games with me....he is sooooo stressing me out!!!!!!!!!!!!