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mlainez

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Re: is it possible to love 2 people??
« Reply #15 on: June 01, 2009, 05:01:27 pm »
You can love 2 people if its a brother or sister etc.  But impossible to be IN LOVE with 2 people at the same time.  Someone in that relationship is not getting what they deserve from that person and its not fair to them because too much is divided. :wave:
I definitely agree withyou on this one!


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Re: is it possible to love 2 people??
« Reply #16 on: June 01, 2009, 05:39:44 pm »
i think that ultimately one will outweigh the other. you can't have the exact same amount of feelings for two people. you could, perhaps, be torn between which is more of what you want. but i don't believe you can truly be in love with two people at the same time, no.

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Re: is it possible to love 2 people??
« Reply #17 on: June 02, 2009, 06:47:57 am »
Totally possible.  I've been there.  Usually one is love, and one leans a little more towards lust.  Go with the one that is there for you emotionally, the physical thing isn't nearly as satisfying in the long run.

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Re: is it possible to love 2 people??
« Reply #18 on: June 02, 2009, 09:11:45 am »
yes, being in love with more than one person is possible because we are different people and there would be characteristics that we love in each person. For example one man might be nurturing to her needs, but isn't "manly" enough for her. while the other man is "manly" but is not very nurturing.

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Re: is it possible to love 2 people??
« Reply #19 on: June 02, 2009, 11:44:14 am »
Fairly pointless discussion until you define "love" and "in love."  Everybody has very different definitions.

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Re: is it possible to love 2 people??
« Reply #20 on: June 02, 2009, 02:03:59 pm »
Everybody has very different definitions.
I think almost everybody has very different definitions of many things that's been discussed in the FC forum in an "uninteractive discourse."

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Re: is it possible to love 2 people??
« Reply #21 on: June 02, 2009, 03:20:20 pm »
Everybody has very different definitions.
I think almost everybody has very different definitions of many things that's been discussed in the FC forum in an "uninteractive discourse."

agreed, agreed.

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Re: is it possible to love 2 people??
« Reply #22 on: June 04, 2009, 04:09:32 pm »
Somebody wrote a song about this:  Torn between 2 lovers, feeling like a fool.  Loving both of them is breaking all the rules. Torn between 2 lovers, feeling like a fool. Loving them both, is breaking all the rules.  (Such a good line it's worth saying 2x). Don't be greedy.  Choose. Then again, rules are ment to be broken huh?  How about this, what if the shoe was on the other foot? Put yourself in their shoes.  Could you cope or would you want a choice made?

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Re: is it possible to love 2 people??
« Reply #23 on: June 04, 2009, 05:03:56 pm »
i THINK THAT IS ONLY POSSIBLE TO love ONE (soulmate) and to LUST another (Marie Osmond)(LoL)  :bootyshake:

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Re: is it possible to love 2 people??
« Reply #24 on: June 04, 2009, 06:50:38 pm »
You can love 2 people if its a brother or sister etc.  But impossible to be IN LOVE with 2 people at the same time.  Someone in that relationship is not getting what they deserve from that person and its not fair to them because too much is divided. :wave:
I definitely agree withyou on this one!
Im going to agree with you x2.....
I've loved two people before, But than at the end, Its a tough choice to pick the "Right One"

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Re: is it possible to love 2 people??
« Reply #25 on: June 14, 2009, 09:09:33 pm »
Personally, I think you can love and be in love with many different people.  I think we love different people for different reasons.  Maybe one person is giving her one thing, comfort..intellectual stimulation..physicality..etc. and the other gives her something differently that she equally needs.  I don't believe you can find that one perfect person for you.  I believe my husband is 'the one' for me but is he perfect for me?  Like, if I put down all my 'qualifications' in a man would he fit every single one?  No but I still love him and can't see myself without him.  I know that sounds harsh, maybe I'm just jaded but I believe in love.  I believe it's completely possible to be in love with two people..yes.

I agree!!!!  I think that she may just be in love with both of them for different reasons.  That is a great idea too!!!!  Tell her to write down her qualifications in a man.  Next to each qualification, she should write down the name of the one that fits that qualification best.  She should tally up the results and the one that matches up to the most qualifications is the one she should pick.  If here is a tie between the two, then she needs to figure out which qualifications she can live without and eliminate those and recheck the score.  Just a suggestion of course.

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Re: is it possible to love 2 people??
« Reply #26 on: June 14, 2009, 09:17:04 pm »
I love everyone!   :wave:   lol 

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Re: is it possible to love 2 people??
« Reply #27 on: June 15, 2009, 05:19:25 am »
every person has one puzzle piece to complete them. One. You can give your love to several people however there will never be anyone that even gets close to the one.

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Re: is it possible to love 2 people??
« Reply #28 on: August 04, 2009, 07:47:07 pm »
I believe you can love two people but I believe it's nearly impossible to love them both equally.

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Re: is it possible to love 2 people??
« Reply #29 on: August 05, 2009, 10:11:30 pm »
sounds young, confused, and one that loves attention

but no you cannot honeslty be in love with 2 people at the same time.
true love requires you to put in your all, and if you are giving somone your all, you cannot give anyone else anything
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