My daughter

[levettepough]

What advice will you give a child of yours who has slept with a man and became impregnated twice by him and while on the first baby he goes out with his xwife twice and get two more babies while on your daughters first.They have been together 7yrs he has not worked and will not work. My daughter has gotten 5 apartments and lost them
all because she was trying to handle everything on her own while he lays up. So she has to move back in with my mother each time and he has gone back to his mom. They buried his mother this past saturday. What will be the best advice to give my daughter to keep her form moving out again and making the same mistakes once again? The guy is living with his stepfather who does not want him there because he can't bring anything to the table. The stepfather still works at 70 with prostate cancer.

[lbeery]

I don't think any amount of advice will help this child.  No doubt she has been told.  Bad decisions end up being a trap.  I will pray for her and hope that she can find a better way and one that lets her be more self sufficient. Life is so hard for so many.

[dmahoney]

Im sorry that your daughter and family are going thru this. It sounds like she made need some counseling if you can get her to go. This "man" will surely bring her further heartbreak and lower self esteem is she continues in this relationship. She must think of what this shows her child first and foremost and what this does to them.

[vickysue]

He is not worth it. There are plenty of men out there that will treat her and her kisd with respect. She needs to get help and stay a way from that creep.