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SweetApril74

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Re: 4 Good Reasons For A Man To Hit A Woman
« Reply #15 on: September 18, 2014, 10:40:44 pm »
on the ring only, LOL :) may be we and our spouse learn about martial art together :)

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Re: 4 Good Reasons For A Man To Hit A Woman
« Reply #16 on: September 18, 2014, 11:00:56 pm »
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Absent the presence of fire, spiders, choking or trains, dad taught us boys there is never, ever, ever, ever, ever a justifiable reason for a man to strike a woman. Period.
How about, men and women should keep their hands to themselves?


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I call upon my brothers-in-manhood everywhere to join with me in ZERO TOLERANCE for violence against women.
How about zero tolerance for real-life violence (against all)?


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Always remind yourself when you witness violence on a woman- that is somebody’s mother, daughter or sister.
If it's a man, that is somebody's father, son, or brother. We cannot have gender equality if we only focus on women. Men are human too.


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Lastly, a note to the abused women of the world- do not take one more punch, slap or kick from any man. There is NOTHING that makes it okay. Stop making excuses for him. He is a broken man and needs to be repaired before he is worthy of spending another second in your presence. Insist on it.
Nobody should stay in an abusive relationship, physical or mental.

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Re: 4 Good Reasons For A Man To Hit A Woman
« Reply #17 on: September 19, 2014, 01:51:23 am »
She comes at you with a knife or gun then ya that's about it.

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Re: 4 Good Reasons For A Man To Hit A Woman
« Reply #18 on: September 19, 2014, 04:12:14 am »
Wow that was great....your dad was a great man and it seems like he raised great children who will raise great children....

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Re: 4 Good Reasons For A Man To Hit A Woman
« Reply #19 on: September 19, 2014, 05:14:36 am »
I wasn't raise to hit women I respect women to much to do that I rather leave or get another female to fight her even though I wouldn't do that

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Re: 4 Good Reasons For A Man To Hit A Woman
« Reply #20 on: September 19, 2014, 06:07:54 am »
I AGREE 100% with everything you said, I grew with the phrase "You do not hit a woman not even with a rose petal" and I stand by it.  My daughter was talking to me the other day and she asked me "Mommy what would you have done if daddy ever hit you" so I told her the truth "His clothes would be packed and he would be sleeping in the park within the next 3 minutes of that ever happening" you don't let anybody hit you ever not matter what.  but your reason are all sound. 
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Re: 4 Good Reasons For A Man To Hit A Woman
« Reply #21 on: September 19, 2014, 08:18:35 am »
This is a bit of a delicate subject because I have been taught growing up that it is never okay to hit a woman. So I teach my sons the same thing. However when my oldest son comes home saying he is being bullied by a girl in his class, and clearly I want my son to be able to stand up for himself, I find it difficult to know what to say. I find myself contradicting everything I ever knew about hitting a woman/girl. So I resign myself to the perspective of don't ever be the first to lash out. You can lash out to defend yourself, but don't ever be the first!

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Re: 4 Good Reasons For A Man To Hit A Woman
« Reply #22 on: September 19, 2014, 08:31:48 am »
I agree with what you said, but please Woman also keep your hand to yourself, some woman these days go for bad and think they can beat on a man and not get hit back, but being a woman myself I know how we can be sometimes, so also teach your daugthers not to hit a man.

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Re: 4 Good Reasons For A Man To Hit A Woman
« Reply #23 on: September 19, 2014, 08:48:32 am »
For those who never learned, women is plural. Woman is singular. Same as man is singular and men is plural.

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Re: 4 Good Reasons For A Man To Hit A Woman
« Reply #24 on: September 19, 2014, 09:04:52 am »
My first response was never, never, never and never.  Then I read your article.  Very well written and well thought out.  Thank you

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Re: 4 Good Reasons For A Man To Hit A Woman
« Reply #25 on: September 19, 2014, 09:08:21 am »
This is well thought out and if just makes me sad that someone has to actually give this explanation. I don't care for violent at all.

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Re: 4 Good Reasons For A Man To Hit A Woman
« Reply #26 on: September 19, 2014, 09:52:42 am »
Very good reasons! Especially the spider!

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Re: 4 Good Reasons For A Man To Hit A Woman
« Reply #27 on: September 19, 2014, 11:48:27 am »
Mental and verbal abuse is almost as bad as physical.  Those wounds and scars are hard to see from the outside.
Have a wonderful day!

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Re: 4 Good Reasons For A Man To Hit A Woman
« Reply #28 on: September 19, 2014, 01:58:05 pm »
Thanks for sharing!
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Re: 4 Good Reasons For A Man To Hit A Woman
« Reply #29 on: September 19, 2014, 02:14:48 pm »
I agree that you've basically named all of the exceptions... As others have stated, self-defense is another exception. One last one: If she asks for it. No, I don't mean she did something bad and was "askin' for it"... I mean at night in bed, you're both feeling frisky and she wants the man to spank her ;) But yes, other than hitting her in order to protect her (eg Train, Spiders, etc.), hitting in self-defense (and then, only enough to actually defend yourself and get away), or playfully in a consensual situation, a man should not hit a woman (and vice versus).

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