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moonangel

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wifes in a wheelchair now life is getting harder
« on: October 28, 2014, 07:57:07 pm »
she cant walk anymore i have to leave to go to work so i try to leave her food and drink in a cooler thru the day she is alone and says it is not easy for her she needs daily help but we cant afford it for her dont know what to do

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Re: wifes in a wheelchair now life is getting harder
« Reply #1 on: October 28, 2014, 08:04:39 pm »
Your health care provider should have social workers who can direct you to services which will allow a care giver to come to your home, either paid for by your health insurance or by the government.   

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Re: wifes in a wheelchair now life is getting harder
« Reply #2 on: October 29, 2014, 05:29:04 am »
Your health care provider should have social workers who can direct you to services which will allow a care giver to come to your home, either paid for by your health insurance or by the government.   

This is a good idea. Other than that, you could hire part-time help only since that would be cheaper, or have a relative or friend come by and help her during the day? Good luck. :)

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Re: wifes in a wheelchair now life is getting harder
« Reply #3 on: October 29, 2014, 05:36:03 am »
I don't know how old she is, but if 65 or older try calling Area on Aging or any thing you can find in the yellow pages under human services.  You might also call your social security office for ideas.  I know home health care can be very expensive.  If you belong to a church maybe you can find a volunteer for even a few hours to help her.  Good luck!
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Re: wifes in a wheelchair now life is getting harder
« Reply #4 on: October 29, 2014, 12:01:38 pm »
Like someone mentioned, maybe a neighbor or relative can come by and check on her...best of luck!!

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Re: wifes in a wheelchair now life is getting harder
« Reply #5 on: October 29, 2014, 05:16:33 pm »
 :'( so sorry. I wish I knew who could help you. I have no experience in that section.

My prayers for both of you. Hope you find help soon.  :heart:  :angel11:

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Re: wifes in a wheelchair now life is getting harder
« Reply #6 on: October 29, 2014, 05:23:06 pm »
I certainly understand because my husband became ill like that and in a wheelchair - we didn't have much luck then but maybe you can get some help.  I hope so.  Is your wife on medicare?  If so I would call them and see what they suggest.  Best of luck to you.

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Re: wifes in a wheelchair now life is getting harder
« Reply #7 on: October 29, 2014, 07:19:44 pm »
I think there are several gov. or charitable organizations that help in a situation like that.  Maybe if you ask a local minister or someone like the Red Cross or something?  There may be help out there that you are unaware of.  It never hurts to ask around!  Best of luck to you!

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Re: wifes in a wheelchair now life is getting harder
« Reply #8 on: October 29, 2014, 08:48:51 pm »
I am sorry that your wife is in a wheelchair.  Why not try Social Services to get help during the day.

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Re: wifes in a wheelchair now life is getting harder
« Reply #9 on: October 29, 2014, 09:11:03 pm »
so sorry to hear that. hopefully you will find a solution or be blessed with some help

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Re: wifes in a wheelchair now life is getting harder
« Reply #10 on: October 29, 2014, 09:41:10 pm »
Contact Social Services and ask them what programs they have they could help.

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Re: wifes in a wheelchair now life is getting harder
« Reply #11 on: October 30, 2014, 05:17:51 am »
she cant walk anymore i have to leave to go to work so i try to leave her food and drink in a cooler thru the day she is alone and says it is not easy for her she needs daily help but we cant afford it for her dont know what to do
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Re: wifes in a wheelchair now life is getting harder
« Reply #12 on: October 30, 2014, 09:33:14 am »
I know in California there's assistance for people who can't take care of their daily needs ie. can't cook, bathe, shop for themselves. It's though our healthcare agency so it's government assistance. You may want to look into something like that for her.
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Re: wifes in a wheelchair now life is getting harder
« Reply #13 on: October 30, 2014, 11:06:12 pm »
There should be health aide care around your area in which u can get assistance. Also, ask if you're neighbors can keep a look out on your wife while ur at work. Most importantly keep the communication w/your wife & you open. Not only will she be struggling at home but also, it will be long hours of loneliness & feelings of helpless for her. When you're at your lowest remember your vows & promises to each other....for better &, for worst, in sickness & in health!

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Re: wifes in a wheelchair now life is getting harder
« Reply #14 on: October 31, 2014, 05:04:39 am »
I know a few people that needed help with a family member.  There's alot of people looking for a little extra income and would be happy to keep someone company, do dishes/light housework & run errands at a very reasonable price.  Relatives, neighbors, college students (especially those going into the medical profession),  someone from church or even someone retired needing some extra cash.  (Don't hire a complete stranger that you know nothing about....try to keep it someone you know.)  It's worked out really great for the ones I know that did this.

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