Have you ever been beaten by your husband?

[Dynamite2013]

My first husband used to beat me all the time then I finally divorced him after I became of age which was 21 at that time. My second husband used to corner me and rape me constantly until all I wanted to do is commit suicide. well now I have a wonder husband and we have been married 25 years. I wouldn't trade him for all the money in the world.

[fjaz1]

Is this really an appropriate topic for discussion on this kind of site, wow why would you tell people your personal problems like that?  If someone had actually asked you that in real life you would probably say none of your business huh?

[nannycoe1]

Maybe you should talk to a professional

[ghunter]

No, I have never and I am sorry you had to go thur something like that, but by the grace of God you are still here, so keep on keeping on and may God continue to bless you.

[loulizlee]

To those who feel the need to tell this lady that this is an inappropriate subject:  This is exactly where subjects like this can be discussed.  After all, it is called Off-Topic (General Discussion Board). It also seems to me that she has confronted what has happened to her and has gotten past it, considering she has been happily married for 25 years.  I, too, am sorry you were so badly treated, but I'm glad you are now happy.  BTW, I have never been beaten by my husband of 52 years.  We have been very blessed. 

[Dynamite2013]

I just wanted to give hope to someone who is in this kind of situation.

[bretay]

no i will be married for 38 yrs in march..my husband has never hit me...never physically or mentally..i grew up in that enviroment..my mother was mentally abused by my father and physically abused by her other 3 husbands and other boyfriends..i was physically abused by my mother and abused by a step uncle...i got married at 15 and have had 3 daughters and i have 2 granddaughter..wouldn't change nothing...glad you got out of that enviroment..it's not healthy..it does more to you than what people think..it really messes with your mind..it messed with mind and its something that i have to deal with,but my husband is very understanding.

[BlackSheepNY]

I just wanted to give hope to someone who is in this kind of situation.

I'm so very glad for you that you are no longer in those relationships.  More over, I'm happy for you that you are now very happy with a man that truly loves you.  I've never been beaten by any man.  What I can say is that if any man ever raised a hand to me he'd better make it good because he'd be coming with me.  I'd beat him right back.  I hope none of the things said here in any of these posts made you feel bad in any way.  It is, for certain, a thing that many people would rather not hear or talk about.  It makes people uncomfortable.  God bless you and yours and may you have many more years of happiness to come.

[hitch0403]

NOOO......i have a wife

[oldbuddy]

NOOO......i have a wife

Me too (for 43 years) and she has never beaten me (yet).

[hitch0403]

NOOO......i have a wife

Me too (for 43 years) and she has never beaten me (yet).

You have me beat Old Buddy.Im married since 1979 met wife in 1973.We are fortunate.I wanted to add a little humor to a depressing topic...hopefully i didnt insult anyone.

[Nancy5]

I'm sorry you were abused by your former husbands.  I am happy you are in a good, non-abusive relationship.  To answer your question, no my husband has never been physically or verbally abusive to me, or to our kids.  And I have never been physically or verbally abusive to him.

[vp44]

So sorry for your bad encounters with your husbands. Good for you that you are not in that situation any more.

[ancmetro]

   Never! I would never allow it!

[lywb2168]

I have been married for 26 years and my husband has never lift a hand to me, it was at some point where he kind of did some verbal abuse but I did not take it for long and told him that either he stops or moves out, I will not tolerate that and he knows that the day he would hit me is the day he and his clothes will go to outside of my house to never return.