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batmobile

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« on: July 30, 2015, 05:41:26 pm »
why do men stare & flirt... but do not ask you out?  either you are interested or you are not... that is annoying.... women like dynamic dudes who are brave enough to be a "man" & make a move.  it is disappointing...

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« Reply #1 on: July 30, 2015, 05:51:11 pm »
Maybe you intimidate them?  I know I always have!

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« Reply #2 on: July 30, 2015, 07:21:54 pm »
Most men don't want a serious relationship. They don't ask you out because they don't want you to expect another date.

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« Reply #3 on: July 30, 2015, 07:48:31 pm »
Because we don't want to get rejected immediately, so flirtation may help the initiation.

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« Reply #4 on: July 30, 2015, 08:47:06 pm »
Maybe those men are not brave enough?

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« Reply #5 on: July 30, 2015, 10:32:41 pm »
People flirt for different reasons.  Maybe their intentions weren't to ask you out but to be playful.  If you want them then go for it don't wait for them to approach you.

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« Reply #6 on: July 30, 2015, 11:07:28 pm »
Most men that stare or flirt are probably already married or have serious girlfriend!

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« Reply #7 on: July 31, 2015, 05:56:32 am »
men like to look at what they dont have or the possibility of what are out there per my husband.  it doesnt really bother me as long as they are only looking.

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« Reply #8 on: July 31, 2015, 07:22:25 am »
 

I'm pretty sure there are alot of reasons why men flirt instead of ask a girl out... The same reasons a girl will probably flirt with a man and not ask them out....

I am pretty sure some big reasons are.. To shy, Afraid of rejection,  and intimidation...
Although i'm pretty sure there are many more out there...

I personally do not think it's annoying.. I think flirting is harmless and sometimes it can be rather cute...

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« Reply #9 on: August 02, 2015, 08:50:58 am »
Flirting to me is harmless it is like doing the mating dance lol.

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« Reply #10 on: August 02, 2015, 09:27:31 am »
It's the nature of the beast I'm afraid!

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« Reply #11 on: August 02, 2015, 09:38:02 am »
why do men stare & flirt... but do not ask you out?  either you are interested or you are not... that is annoying.... women like dynamic dudes who are brave enough to be a "man" & make a move.  it is disappointing...

Why do women stare and flirt???  Maybe he is married or unavailable but wants to flirt a little?  Maybe he thinks you are not interested.  I am not sure what a "dynamic dude" is but I never wanted anything flashy or that everyone else was also after so that it is a constant competition to keep him from dating other women at the same time.

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« Reply #12 on: August 02, 2015, 10:08:15 am »
It's the 2000's! Women can Make the first move now! Don't be afraid! Just do it yourself!

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« Reply #13 on: August 02, 2015, 10:31:33 am »
I don't know an answer to this one - I was married for 34 years and my husband let me know he was interested and aske me out.  Now he has been dead for three years and I started up a profile on a dating site and you would think at our age men would be different but they are not.  I am about to the point where I think I will just be alone for the remainder of my life.  Oh well !

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« Reply #14 on: August 02, 2015, 12:11:55 pm »
Coming from a man's point of view: women are terrifying-lol. Men and women are two completely different creatures and I do not understand how they get together to begin with. Women will say ten to 100 words to a man's one word. Women seem to be constantly suspicious of a man's motive. Men are always on guard because questions asked by women are never really direct-I think that they come in a three part series that allow men to hang themselves...kind of like a cross examination. Women never seem to trust men and, for the most part, for good reason. Men can ignore friends for ten years and get beck together as if no time had passed at all. Men are quick to forgive (most likely because they have forgotten)-women never forget...men need to stay on their toes.

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