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snuggleycutejc

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« on: September 08, 2015, 08:50:35 am »
You can use this day because September 8 is Pardon Day. I hope you can forgive easy, that's good for you. I hope you have a happy day  :present:

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Re: Manners
« Reply #1 on: September 08, 2015, 02:01:52 pm »
You bet, I forgive easy. It's not worth the hassle and unrest and probably wouldn't make any difference to hold on to your personal commitments when they interfere with life itself. So I forgive you for making this controversial post.

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« Reply #2 on: September 08, 2015, 03:42:49 pm »
Forgiving might be easy but forgetting is not!!

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« Reply #3 on: September 08, 2015, 09:06:42 pm »

   I think it is not possible to forgive certain actions. Do not forgive instead forget all that really hurts...and move on.

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« Reply #4 on: September 08, 2015, 09:32:36 pm »
Interesting....I think life is too short not to forgive!

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« Reply #5 on: September 08, 2015, 11:02:53 pm »
Yup. Forgiving is the easy part, forgetting is always what eats away at me. I'll forgive anyone. I may never speak to you again, but you are forgiven!  :D

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« Reply #6 on: September 09, 2015, 04:02:32 am »
I try to use every day as my pardon day. It's hard at times but if you truly forgive with your heart then the rest will follow. You will never forget but don't let that memory taint your forgiveness. :)
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« Reply #7 on: September 09, 2015, 05:33:37 am »
Nope I forgive those who have asked for it and honestly are sorry for what they did wrong. I see no reason to forgive someone who doesn't want my forgiveness. I just simply put the person out of my mind and to me they no longer exist  as part of my world.

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« Reply #8 on: September 09, 2015, 05:44:25 am »
i really dont believe in holding grudges..it keeps you angry and gives you a different outlook on everything...so once i say what i have to say its pretty much over...
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Re: Manners
« Reply #9 on: September 09, 2015, 11:42:36 am »
I'm less forgive-and-forget and more forgive-but-remember-forever-because-I-can't-help-it, haha.

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« Reply #10 on: September 09, 2015, 11:46:04 am »
Manners is a good thing to have so use them Pretty Please Thank You  :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:
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« Reply #11 on: September 09, 2015, 12:28:58 pm »
really don't think there should be a pardon for bad manners.  i was raised, and have raised my son...that if you don't have manners you don't get respect that is deserved. 

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Re: Manners
« Reply #12 on: September 09, 2015, 01:09:52 pm »
Life is too short.  As for me, I forgive and forget.  Have a wonderful day!
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« Reply #13 on: September 09, 2015, 03:59:46 pm »
I think I recall reading in the bible that we should be slow to get angry and quick to forgive. I sometimes find it difficult to forgive. I find myself acting the part of someone who forgives, until I am able to forgive. I find if I act it, I become it!

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Re: Manners
« Reply #14 on: September 09, 2015, 08:38:37 pm »
Forgiving is reasonable if people learn from their mistakes.  It's also possible to forgive if you no longer deal with the person who makes the same mistake over and over and over.

If you're stuck in a situation with someone who doesn't learn.....

It's best to move on so you can forgive....

from a distance.   :heart:
Have a great day!

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