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Re: Cheating.
« Reply #15 on: November 16, 2015, 11:51:36 pm »
Why do people go cheat on their partner?
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« Reply #16 on: November 17, 2015, 03:18:51 am »
Sadly people cheat because they are looking for that 20% that is missing from their relationship. It's sad because none of us are a perfect 100 and most times when a relationship ends because that person moves on to the 20%, they don't end up happier.

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« Reply #17 on: November 17, 2015, 07:39:40 am »
I agree I am not sure why, I can tell you that a lot of times the person might not feel like his/her partner love them, or they are treated badly, mental abuse is as bad as physical, and they see an outlet, but other times is just plain stupidity and wrong, it hurts everyone around and the self steam of the person that got cheated goes to the floor.  But there is really not good answer to your questions
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Re: Cheating.
« Reply #18 on: November 17, 2015, 09:29:11 am »
do you think the cheater will be lived happily ever after?

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Re: Cheating.
« Reply #19 on: November 17, 2015, 11:41:46 am »
I don't know, maybe because they would like to have their cake and eat it too!  I am so fortunate to have not been cheated on with my husband (as far as I know) because you never REALLY know, but no other woman have called my house and he does not goes out along, so I'm safe to said I have not been cheated on.  Sometimes men and WOMEN are looking for something they are not getting at home so my advice is to make sure you keep the romance in your marriage and whatever you did to get them keep doing the same thing.

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Re: Cheating.
« Reply #20 on: November 17, 2015, 02:35:57 pm »
Some people are just scumbags,I guess.

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Re: Cheating.
« Reply #21 on: November 18, 2015, 04:48:11 am »
It's the world we live in.  There are no reasons.  It's what people do.  And society as a whole accepts it.

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« Reply #22 on: November 18, 2015, 12:28:37 pm »
I don't know why people do that.  It only hurts themselves in the end.

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« Reply #23 on: November 18, 2015, 02:15:20 pm »
People should take their wedding vows serious. Agreed..... cheating is wrong!

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« Reply #24 on: November 18, 2015, 02:36:25 pm »
Just human nature.

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« Reply #25 on: November 18, 2015, 03:04:27 pm »
King David lusted for Bathsheba and committed adultry with her and covered it up by having her husband killed in war.How bad were those sins?

God punished him even tho he forgave him because he saw in his heart he was truly sorry.

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« Reply #26 on: November 28, 2015, 03:50:37 pm »
Wish i knew the answer to that question.  There may be a few reasons why bu i think that they should just tell the person they are with.  I was in a 5 year relationship in which he cheated for 3-4 years.  When asked why, he said he didn't know but it wasn't me.   :confused1:

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Re: Cheating.
« Reply #27 on: November 28, 2015, 04:17:15 pm »
Cheaters don't realized what they have until it gone.

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« Reply #28 on: November 28, 2015, 05:02:19 pm »
Cheating is quite common and the reasons are multiple. Rather than reviewing the many reasons people cheat, I'm going to focus on one of the main one -- self-abandonment. Self-abandonment leads to an inner emptiness that results in a person seeking to be filled up externally.

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« Reply #29 on: November 28, 2015, 05:05:54 pm »
We are going through this with my now ex-brother-in-law.  He cheated on my sister multiple times.  She finally divorced him after he got one of his clients (who went to school with his daughter!!) pregnant.  And to beat it all ~ he contested the divorce and has tried to drag it out as long as possible.  He's living with his girlfriend, her daughter and their new baby but still wants to control my sister's life!  I have faith that someone will take care of him eventually!  If not on this earth, then the Lord will take care of him when he has to face Jesus to account for his actions.

Wow, he sounds like a narcissistic psychopath.
I feel so bad for her, one because she needs to go "no contact" to heal from him.   I was reading that those in relationships with such people are sometimes treated for PTSD.  Some people are just so awful as human beings.   

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