Adult kids

[ghunter]

I am happy to said, my adult kids are always around.  They never ignore us and they always ask for advice (when needed).  I raised them to always stand on their own two feet, but sometimes they still need our help.  I thank God everyday for them and watch them raise their own kids to do the same.  I am so happy we are close and that's the way it is suppose to be.  Pray for your children always.

[cateyes1]

If I were in your shoes (and it's always easier to say than do) I would find something else to focus on.  The ignore method taken to a 2nd degree.  Move on.  Find other things to do and keep you busy.  Not all relationships are going to be the same.. What you had with your parents was yours.  So the relationship you have with your daughter will (and should) be different. For whatever reason she isn't interested in staying in touch. That's her choice.  Accept it (which it seems you have) Accept the hurt that comes with it (Which is seems you have) Ultimately there is one person you need to answer to.  So if you know you've done what you could to open your arms and communicate...accept it.  The situation is only temporary.

Thank you, it has been since Aug17th is when I last reached out to her. This has been going on now for close to 3 years, she is so stubborn so I don't see an end to this in my life time. People who know me all say that it's her loss.....i'm DONE !!....you are so right on Sak4Kat

[dogsleash]

Our relationship has changed I make time for my adult kids and we see each other 2x a month.