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babypolotb

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HOW DO YOU TELL SOMEONE YOU DONT LIKE THEM?
« on: September 10, 2009, 02:39:55 pm »
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Re: HOW DO YOU TELL SOMEONE YOU DONT LIKE THEM?
« Reply #1 on: September 10, 2009, 07:14:20 pm »
You don't, just go away.

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Re: HOW DO YOU TELL SOMEONE YOU DONT LIKE THEM?
« Reply #2 on: September 10, 2009, 07:27:20 pm »
Be upfront about it and say "Look, you're a great friend. (Even though they may not be. xD) But, I'm not really interested in you. I'm flattered however I don't think that it would really work out."

May be a bit awkward to say but it will get your message out. That should be the most important thing.  :D

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Re: HOW DO YOU TELL SOMEONE YOU DONT LIKE THEM?
« Reply #3 on: September 10, 2009, 09:55:27 pm »
You don't, just go away.

I agree! I'm so poor in confrontations.

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Re: HOW DO YOU TELL SOMEONE YOU DONT LIKE THEM?
« Reply #4 on: September 10, 2009, 10:23:51 pm »
You do not say anything...ignore him and walk away...avoid him if you can!

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Re: HOW DO YOU TELL SOMEONE YOU DONT LIKE THEM?
« Reply #5 on: September 11, 2009, 01:13:25 am »
I don't like you.  Sounds harsh, but not as harsh as a person you just confessed to avoid you.  Scenario:  You liked someone and finally gathered the courage to confess.  After your confession the person runs away from you every time they see you or has an expression that tells them they're no longer wanted or that they are an idiot for confessing at all.

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Re: HOW DO YOU TELL SOMEONE YOU DONT LIKE THEM?
« Reply #6 on: September 11, 2009, 03:30:11 am »
I'm not even clear on what kind of "like" you mean. You mean a friend of a friend that thinks you're a friend too?
The annoying person at work that keeps trying to talk to you even though you're clearly not interested.
The person pursuing you romantically, that you may even like as a person, but not romantically?

I have no idea what your problem even is, and an answer is impossible with this amount of info.

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Re: HOW DO YOU TELL SOMEONE YOU DONT LIKE THEM?
« Reply #7 on: September 11, 2009, 03:37:38 am »
Be honest and just tell them you don't like them and why.

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Re: HOW DO YOU TELL SOMEONE YOU DONT LIKE THEM?
« Reply #8 on: September 11, 2009, 05:59:36 am »
I'm not even clear on what kind of "like" you mean. You mean a friend of a friend that thinks you're a friend too?
The annoying person at work that keeps trying to talk to you even though you're clearly not interested.
The person pursuing you romantically, that you may even like as a person, but not romantically?

I have no idea what your problem even is, and an answer is impossible with this amount of info.

Yes, I was thinking the same thing.  It really depends on the person/situation.  Perhaps the OP could provide some general details?  You have to ask the right question with more detail provided to get more meaningful opinions.

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Re: HOW DO YOU TELL SOMEONE YOU DONT LIKE THEM?
« Reply #9 on: September 11, 2009, 08:21:05 am »
Hey, are you trying to tell me something??? ::)

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Re: HOW DO YOU TELL SOMEONE YOU DONT LIKE THEM?
« Reply #10 on: September 11, 2009, 08:22:48 am »
Avoid them, they will get the hint.

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Re: HOW DO YOU TELL SOMEONE YOU DONT LIKE THEM?
« Reply #11 on: September 11, 2009, 09:24:28 am »
Plain and simple you say im sorry but I really do not like you.
If your not good in that situation I agree that you should just avoid them, they are bound to take the hint and leave you alone.

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Re: HOW DO YOU TELL SOMEONE YOU DONT LIKE THEM?
« Reply #12 on: January 24, 2010, 08:20:25 am »
Why tell anyone you don't like them ? Just move on.

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Re: HOW DO YOU TELL SOMEONE YOU DONT LIKE THEM?
« Reply #13 on: January 24, 2010, 08:25:44 am »
Avoid them, they will get the hint.
You just be straight and to the point.  Do not waist time.


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Re: HOW DO YOU TELL SOMEONE YOU DONT LIKE THEM?
« Reply #14 on: January 24, 2010, 09:03:46 am »
Just go ahead,  tell me you dont like me. I can take it   :'(  but please tell me why i can change,     I swear i can  

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