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gaby_ro_2004

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Re: Do you keep secrets from your spouse?
« Reply #15 on: February 02, 2017, 07:41:51 am »
No,i don't keep secrets.In 10yrs of marriage i never had a secret.

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Re: Do you keep secrets from your spouse?
« Reply #16 on: February 02, 2017, 07:42:24 am »
We are all human sometimes you just have to keep a secret here and there it does not mean anything.

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Re: Do you keep secrets from your spouse?
« Reply #17 on: February 04, 2017, 09:00:54 am »
Of course I keep secrets!  And before all the "holier than thou" types jump all over me - how many of YOU have been happily married for almost 50 years?

Just because you're married doesn't mean you stop being an individual.  I think one of the great things is this:  we give each other space.  We love each other very much but we are still individuals with our own interests.  NO ONE PERSON CAN FULFIL ANOTHER 100%
And I'm not talking about sex.

We have been faithful to each other for all this time.  At least where it counts.  Doesn't mean we gave up flirting and having good friends of the opposite sex.

But I give him space to pursue interests that he enjoys and he does the same.  And this involves overnight trips sometimes.  But that's not a problem in this household.  Because we trust each other implicitly.

And I daresay we are closer than most couples.  And we have a very full happy life together.

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Re: Do you keep secrets from your spouse?
« Reply #18 on: February 04, 2017, 10:06:53 am »
It sounds as though they may have an agreement that he pays the bills and she keeps much of her money to do as she wishes.  It's hard to know what a couple has agreed upon.  Maybe he has significantly more income than she does and he is fine with paying the bills.  Who knows?!

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