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ajamimajida

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Prayers are desperately needed
« on: May 06, 2017, 10:45:19 pm »
This morning I received a call that no parent should ever have to receive.  My only Daughter at age 28 passed away this morning.  She was in jail on stupid stuff that she did.  She went to court yesterday and did not get good news.  She did not take it too well and decided death was a better alternative.

Please if you or anyone you know is suicidal get some help.  There is nothing in this world that is so bad that you believe the best alternative is death.  You are leaving behind loved ones that cannot and will never understand why you felt that way.  There is help out there, talk to someone, whether it is a friend, a family or even complete stranger.  Bad things are not permanent and they can be fixed and/or will get better.  Never feel you are alone in this world.  Someone will always love you no matter what.  Give your kids an extra hug tonight and never forget to tell them that you love them.  May God Bless everyone.  Thank you everyone in advance for your prayers and support.

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Re: Prayers are desperately needed
« Reply #1 on: May 07, 2017, 05:12:40 am »
I have never had children so it'd hard for me to say anything, but my thoughts and a ton of prayers for you and what ever other family and friends while you try to sort this out......

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Re: Prayers are desperately needed
« Reply #2 on: May 07, 2017, 05:42:07 am »
Sorry to hear that.  I don't understand why people do it but will keep you and your family in my prayers.

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Re: Prayers are desperately needed
« Reply #3 on: May 07, 2017, 06:50:30 am »
Oh, my dear, (if I may call you that), I am thinking of you and your pain.  I don't even know what to say as I can't imagine what you may be feeling and the depth of it.  I have two grown daughters and if I lost one I am not sure what I could do to relieve the resulting emotions.  I think I might have to get some therapy. Although this is a walk you have to take alone, reach out to anyone who will listen and offer any kind of support.  Maybe a support group!

Remember this:  Grief is like an earthquake.  The first one hits you and the world falls apart.  Even after you put the world back together again there are aftershocks, and you will never really know when those will come.  Also, grief never ends...but it changes.  It's a passage, not a place to stay.  Grief is not a sign of weakness, nor a lack of faith...it is the price of love.

I have these inspirational quotes at hand because I, too, am having grief in my life at this time.  Peace to you!

ajamimajida

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« Reply #4 on: May 07, 2017, 07:04:24 am »
Thank you everyone.  Sadly she is my third child and I have lost all them.  My other 2 passed away at age 5 and 8 years old due illnesses and an accident.    Been down this road too many times and It does not get any easier no matter how much time passes.  Please love your kids and hold them tighter and never forget to say "I love you" and not just your kids but anyone that you care about.  Tomorrow is not given.

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Re: Prayers are desperately needed
« Reply #5 on: May 07, 2017, 07:10:28 am »
So sorry for your loss

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Re: Prayers are desperately needed
« Reply #6 on: May 07, 2017, 07:34:44 am »
I'm sorry for your loss.

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Re: Prayers are desperately needed
« Reply #7 on: May 07, 2017, 08:16:29 am »
Please accept my condolences and wishes that happy memories will help you  over the unbelievable sadness you must be feeling.   There are no words.   I cannot imagine anything more difficult than what you have gone through.   Will keep healing thoughts for your soul.

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« Reply #8 on: May 07, 2017, 08:59:33 am »
I can't imagine what that pain must feel like my prayers are for you and family

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Re: Prayers are desperately needed
« Reply #9 on: May 07, 2017, 09:24:36 am »
Oh so very sorry, many prayers for you and your family

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Re: Prayers are desperately needed
« Reply #10 on: May 07, 2017, 10:03:13 am »
ajamimajida, I am so sorry!  I cannot imagine the depth of your grief.  I pray for comfort for you. 
I know won't be easy.  I lost a brother many years ago when he felt it better to leave the world, than stay.

Hugs, prayers to you and your family.
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Re: Prayers are desperately needed
« Reply #11 on: May 07, 2017, 10:54:36 am »
Wow... I have no words... it must be so hard and a real nightmare for you right now.... I don't even know how you got the strength and went immediately online to share that with all of us..... and thank you for sharing... you are not alone in your pain... we will pray for you.

It is horrible, I can't even imagine that.... you said a lot of right things. Help is always needed.

*Strong virtual hug* There is so much more I would love to say.... but I don't even know where to start. SO, I'll end it this way.

God bless you. Hope your family will support you in these difficult days.

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Re: Prayers are desperately needed
« Reply #12 on: May 07, 2017, 10:58:22 am »
Oh no, I'm so sorry for your loss.

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Re: Prayers are desperately needed
« Reply #13 on: May 07, 2017, 11:12:59 am »
Condolences... Much/many prayers for strength..
Cannot even imagine...I have a 25 yr old daughter.

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Re: Prayers are desperately needed
« Reply #14 on: May 07, 2017, 11:45:29 am »
I have been through death of a child but not through suicide but prayer goes out to the family
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