I prefer to listen to chatting, but if someone talks to me I don't walk away. Sometime someone is going through a rough time and may need to unload or just visit. I have always been the quite one, my sister was always the know it all and I did not or could not get a word in. But after years of working with the public it comes easier for me and of course she lives a long ways off and rarely comes home. Since I retired I found myself closing off too people, so went out and volunteered at a charity and now find myself opening up to people again. Feels kind of good too, besides doing good for the community.