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What is ur defination about perfect relationship? I always had been struggle with my relationship and I know not all relationship are perfect so I want to know your defination of perfect relationship and how u make it possible :)
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my advice is just this if you find yourself doubting try to talk it out if that doesn't work leave i have been married 4 times and i am engaged to the man i love but we both feel this we are permanetly engaged neither of us want to be married again and that way if either of you want to leave you can do so without any hassles of getting divorsed and i will tell you this it is the best relationship you could ever want we have been together going on 8 yrs never had a fight or disagreement it is great so good luck with your situation :thumbsup: :heart: :star:
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communication between two peoples.frist of all communication is important.and frequntly meet the peoples.sharing fellings.and arragne partys.
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Someone who is welling to listen. But it seems that we all are wanting to have it be all about ourselves. We can be such a selfcenter people.
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There is no such thing as a perfect relationship. Every relationship is a work in progress.
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Just my opinions
for the perfect relationship:
1) Dont try to change your mate 2) Dont get married remain friends 3) live common law 4) Dont have any kids 5) Dont have joint property or accounts 5) Communicate daily 6) Express love and affection 7) Compromise
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What is ur defination about perfect relationship? I always had been struggle with my relationship and I know not all relationship are perfect so I want to know your defination of perfect relationship and how u make it possible :)
The perfect relationship in one word is TRUST!
When my husband was alive, our trust was so strong that even when I was away from him I could feel his very soul be near me. I've never felt that kind of loving joy & peace before. Not even with my blood relatives. And now that he's gone, I don't think anything like that will ever come my way again. So, if you find someone that you can trust, grab him & don't ever let go! :thumbsup:
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People are not perfect. Neither are relationships.
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[/quote] The perfect relationship in one word is TRUST!
When my husband was alive, our trust was so strong that even when I was away from him I could feel his very soul be near me. I've never felt that kind of loving joy & peace before. Not even with my blood relatives. And now that he's gone, I don't think anything like that will ever come my way again. So, if you find someone that you can trust, grab him & don't ever let go! :thumbsup:
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Im very very sorry about ur husband. i know sometime in life we never respect what we have and especially for young girl they always wanted more. what u said is very truth. when u lost something u truly love u might never get it back again even if u start over the feeling of what u had is still with u no matter what right?
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I agree that trust is the most important aspect of a relationship. I've not had that in a lot of my past relationships and it is a big strain.
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Trust and Communication are key to having any healthy relationship in your life.
As for the perfect committed relationship, you will know when it is right. For me it was when I could look at him and not have to say a word and we just knew. Or he would come to pick me up and we'd be wearing very similar outfits. Or finishing each others sentences. *Oh and when they kiss you!* I know all of that seems really corny and unfortunately due to an untimely death in his family that we didn't recover from as a couple I honestly think if we were together now we'd still be like that. I've never found that with anyone else but that is just my definition of perfection, you'll find your own. :wave:
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My defination of a perfect relationship is this To be perfect one has to be without fault. This goes with beening perfect, loving ,caring ,giving, all the positive quailty of one's behavior has to be employed. To be in perfect relationship begative behavior has to be eliminated.
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My definition of a perfect relationship is when you give your 100 % dedication, love , support, loyalty ,trust to a special person and receive the same in return. :thumbsup:
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i dont believe there is a perfect relationship and communication and honesty is the top 2 things to make it work but love is another big thing i just miss i could find somebody to love
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I totally agree with you. Communication and honesty ARE the top two factors that you need to maintain a relationship.
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One of the hardest questions to answer because I think everyone's definition would differ and in major ways. Even though I'm a guy, I appreciate things like hugging, kissing, snuggling,etc.
I do believe honesty is very important,however, and that all starts from the beginning. Tell your potential mate what you are looking for. If they tell you that they are able to "work" with you, be careful. If they're looking for something similar, go for it. I have been in many relationships where my mate has "written a check that their behind can't/won't cash". Never get involved if you don't have similar viewpoints on a relationship. I am currently with someone whom I was friends with for three or four years, she knew me as well as anybody possibly could've, knew was I was looking for & figured she could bluff her way through it. As you might suspect, we are not doing too good right now. This has shown a lack of honesty and with the way the human mind can work sometimes thinking your mate as being a dishonest person makes you wonder about things especially when things get sour.
Long story short: keep it real.
:peace: & :heart:
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It's all about timing. You have to learn to take things slow. Let them progress and build in a natural companionate, gradual manner. Learning to truly care for another will bring about a feeling of cherishing this person which will in turn allow them to fully admire and appreciate you, eventually leading to them cherishing you as well. :peace:
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No perfect relationships, just progress relationships. I have someone who is self-centered and self-righteous and it is very hard to deal with him. I have been married to him for over 7 years and I want out! I try to communicate, but if its not about him or his job, we don't talk. They say if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all. Well I seem to be mum and just don't talk anymore.
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A perfect relationship is one that doesn't exist. You cannot have or will ever find a relationship that's perfect. If it is, then you're lying to yourself; there's something bad hidden between the people.
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Just my opinions
for the perfect relationship:
1) Dont try to change your mate 2) Dont get married remain friends 3) live common law 4) Dont have any kids 5) Dont have joint property or accounts 5) Communicate daily 6) Express love and affection 7) Compromise
I have to disagree with 2,3,4,and 5. What is your point of having any kind of relationship? :angry7: It sounds like "be with someone, just not too close". How can you ever truly love someone you don't let into your heart? Plus, children are gifts of love and God and to have them is the greatest joy. Loving someone is sharing and becoming ONE with that person.
I think a perfect relationship is real. I experience it everyday. Most people go their whole lives and never truly fall in love or find their soul mate. I thank God everyday that I have. Feeling your spouse when you are apart, as if they are right next to you, is the greatest feeling. Before I met my husband, life was cold and useless. I become selfish and rude. When you find someone who truly loves you, you change and look at life in a whole different perceptive. It is great to have someone that you know will never leave your side.
If you have found your soul mate, then you have found the perfect relationship...in the common sense that your spirit and soul soars to unknown places of pure love that you have never experienced in life before. :angel11: :heart:
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My definition of the perfect relationship is to be happy. It's so easy to get mad and to cling to that emotion, but it feels so much better to laugh. Whenever the hubs and I start to have an argument, if one of us laughs at something silly about the argument it turns the whole thing around. We're able to giggle, and then calmly sort out the problem and move on - happily!
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My definition of the perfect relationship is to be happy. It's so easy to get mad and to cling to that emotion, but it feels so much better to laugh. Whenever the hubs and I start to have an argument, if one of us laughs at something silly about the argument it turns the whole thing around. We're able to giggle, and then calmly sort out the problem and move on - happily!
I like that! Could you imagine if everyone had your point of view? I love to laugh.....and the world should always be filled with happiness and love. :heart:
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My idea of a perfect relationship is, "DON'T ASK AND DON'T TELL".
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The perfect relationship doesn't exist! However a couple can come real close. Respect is one of the key components to it. You would find when there is mutual respect everything `else falls into place like communication & trust.
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There is no such thing as a perfect relationship. Every relationship is a work in progress.
Took the words right out of my mouth. :thumbsup:
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No relationship is perfect.
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Quit watching soap operas - There are a lot of great, meaningful, relationships - not perfect ones.
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There is no such thing as a perfect relationship, but after being married 33 years, it takes work on both people. Honesty and communication is of the utmost importance. It has taken us many years to get to this point as we were both 19 years old when we married.
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There is NO perfect relationship and if you are looking for one you will always be dissapointed... people are not perfect and if they think they are, YOU DO NOT WANT TO BE INVOLVED WITH THEM... THEY WOULD BE TERRIBLY HARD TO LIVE WITH!!!