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Title: What can be the biggest mistake(s) women make...
Post by: Stealth3si on August 16, 2011, 03:18:32 pm
...when trying to make (their) men do what they want (for them)?
Title: Re: What can be the biggest mistake(s) women make...
Post by: MollyAlice1 on August 18, 2011, 10:45:04 am
(1) NOT PUTTING THEIR KIDS FIRST IN EVERYTHING THEY DO (2)Being a fool for a man who can care less about them.  (3) NOT LOVING THEIRSELVES FIRST ANYBODY, Because how can you love someone when you dont even know how to love yourself first.  I live by that everyday, and thats why I can say I am a strong black woman, and I come in peace to help every woman, if she needs it. :heart: :peace: :wave: :thumbsup:
Title: Re: What can be the biggest mistake(s) women make...
Post by: freepcmoney on August 19, 2011, 04:38:28 am
  :crybaby2: Thinking that IF your date wants to have sex with you-----This means that he loves you------THEN----you end up pregnant-----and discover that it was ONLY HIS HORMONES and he DOES NOT CARE ANYTHING ABOUT YOU OR THE BABY----and you have to either KILL YOUR BABY-----GIVE YOUR BABY AWAY----OR TRY TO RAISE IT ALL BY YOURSELF!!!!!! :crybaby2: :crybaby2: :crybaby2: :crybaby2:
Title: Re: What can be the biggest mistake(s) women make...
Post by: noirlupe on August 19, 2011, 05:08:24 am
Believing everything a man tells them.  Putting trust in them without that person earning your trust in the first place. 

I read a book Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment by Steve Harvey.   I recommend this book to all Women, I understand some men better.  Its on 4shared if you dont want to buy it.
Title: Re: What can be the biggest mistake(s) women make...
Post by: healthfreedom on August 19, 2011, 10:45:28 am
Trusting and giving themselves to a man before marriage.
Title: Re: What can be the biggest mistake(s) women make...
Post by: articx on August 19, 2011, 10:52:25 am
The mistake is thinking you can make them do what you want them to. Try calmly asking them to do something.
Title: Re: What can be the biggest mistake(s) women make...
Post by: dwg300 on August 19, 2011, 11:03:13 am
As a man, I think the biggest mistake that woman make is thinking that the can change their man. 
Title: Re: What can be the biggest mistake(s) women make...
Post by: queenofnines on August 19, 2011, 01:35:48 pm
Taking advantage of their boyfriend/husband and not respecting him.  Seriously.
Title: Re: What can be the biggest mistake(s) women make...
Post by: MollyAlice1 on August 19, 2011, 06:33:57 pm
As a man, I think the biggest mistake that woman make is thinking that the can change their man. 
I TRULY AGREE TO A POINT, BECUZ MAN WILL ALWAYS DO WHAT THEY  WHAT NO MATTER WHAT...
Title: Re: What can be the biggest mistake(s) women make...
Post by: jordandog on August 20, 2011, 07:43:57 am
  :crybaby2: Thinking that IF your date wants to have sex with you-----This means that he loves you------THEN----you end up pregnant-----and discover that it was ONLY HIS HORMONES and he DOES NOT CARE ANYTHING ABOUT YOU OR THE BABY----and you have to either KILL YOUR BABY-----GIVE YOUR BABY AWAY----OR TRY TO RAISE IT ALL BY YOURSELF!!!!!! :crybaby2: :crybaby2: :crybaby2: :crybaby2:

That is not a 'mistake', that is out and out idiocy. I guess you have never heard of self control.....or birth control.

I don't care if you are male or female, you cannnot and will not 'make' another person do anything unless you are willing to settle for less. Less respect, less compassion, less honesty, and eventually that less will turn into more - as in more room for you because you will be on your own. ;)
Title: Re: What can be the biggest mistake(s) women make...
Post by: handllucas on November 02, 2011, 05:31:18 pm
The worst mistake a woman can make is thinking that they HAVE to be with a man to survive.

Come on girls, remember we fought to free ourselves from this stereotype.
Title: Re: What can be the biggest mistake(s) women make...
Post by: mardukblood2009 on November 02, 2011, 05:40:11 pm
That they think that they are better than what they really are.
Title: Re: What can be the biggest mistake(s) women make...
Post by: teflonfanatic on November 02, 2011, 06:47:34 pm
  :crybaby2: Thinking that IF your date wants to have sex with you-----This means that he loves you------THEN----you end up pregnant-----and discover that it was ONLY HIS HORMONES and he DOES NOT CARE ANYTHING ABOUT YOU OR THE BABY----and you have to either KILL YOUR BABY-----GIVE YOUR BABY AWAY----OR TRY TO RAISE IT ALL BY YOURSELF!!!!!! :crybaby2: :crybaby2: :crybaby2: :crybaby2:

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Title: Re: What can be the biggest mistake(s) women make...
Post by: jokialma78 on November 03, 2011, 11:13:26 am
Not realizing when they have a good man!
Title: Re: What can be the biggest mistake(s) women make...
Post by: Abrupt on November 03, 2011, 11:19:20 am
Believing that we can actually change our nature without deliberately wishing to and not realizing that coerced or persuaded change will require consistent upkeep and can very likely generate animosity towards the one applying such persuasion in the long run.
Title: Re: What can be the biggest mistake(s) women make...
Post by: falcon9 on November 03, 2011, 02:49:37 pm
Believing that we can actually change our nature without deliberately wishing to and not realizing that coerced or persuaded change will require consistent upkeep and can very likely generate animosity towards the one applying such persuasion in the long run.



'A Buddhist monk, visiting New York City for the first time in twenty years, walked up to a hot dog vendor, handed him a twenty dollar bill, and said, "Make me one with everything."

The vendor pocketed the money, and handed the Buddhist monk his hot dog. The monk, after waiting for a moment, asked for his change. The vendor looked at him and said, "Change comes from within." With a wistful smile, the monk walked away.'
Title: Re: What can be the biggest mistake(s) women make...
Post by: Getinonthis on November 03, 2011, 07:23:03 pm
The biggest mistakes women make is expecting men to be Mind readers.
Create the right atmosphere, give him a little appreciation and a bit of peace of mind then as simple as possible just say what you want.
Title: Re: What can be the biggest mistake(s) women make...
Post by: falcon9 on November 03, 2011, 11:16:40 pm
The biggest mistakes women make is expecting men to be Mind readers.
Create the right atmosphere, give him a little appreciation and a bit of peace of mind then as simple as possible just say what you want. 


Yeah, like that's going to happen very often.
Title: Re: What can be the biggest mistake(s) women make...
Post by: gemini0314 on November 04, 2011, 07:18:25 pm
Giving up everything you have for a man who doesnt give up anything for you and you realize it way too late.
Title: Re: What can be the biggest mistake(s) women make...
Post by: annettefayeroach on November 14, 2011, 02:50:13 am
(1) NOT PUTTING THEIR KIDS FIRST IN EVERYTHING THEY DO (2)Being a fool for a man who can care less about them.  (3) NOT LOVING THEIRSELVES . I have been guilty of all three I am sorry to say, but never again.