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Title: How does one shut down their feelings
Post by: cateyes1 on September 12, 2011, 05:25:02 am

If you really love or care for someone and they did you wrong, but you still love and care for them, how does one shut down feelings for that person  :dontknow:...I dont get how someone can do that especially if you still love or care for them...can anyone explaine this please  :sad1:

Title: Re: How does one shut down their feelings
Post by: veronica773 on September 12, 2011, 05:47:25 am

They need to learn the Power of Forgiveness.  No matter what my family has done to me I will never turn my back on them

Title: Re: How does one shut down their feelings
Post by: noirlupe on September 12, 2011, 05:52:21 am

I believe it a matter of hurt feelings.  I am watching it in my family and I see how one person is hurt beyond words and they have cut their mother out of their life totally.  I have tried to talk to this person about forgiving the mother but they will not budge.    Forgiveness is not something they are willing to give at the moment, but I am sure they will in time.

Title: Re: How does one shut down their feelings
Post by: Phx0808 on September 12, 2011, 06:33:09 am

They say, "Time heals all wounds." Plug ahead the best you can. Talk about your old flame and the feelings involved when you need to and get used to the idea that this person will be a part of your in a different way. Every day that goes by will make it easier to realize this.

Hang in there and keep your chin.

Title: Re: How does one shut down their feelings
Post by: margaret0524 on September 12, 2011, 06:36:35 am

Shut down feelings can make you very sick.   The healthiest thing to do is to iron out your differences - talk out your feelings and move on.  Emotions are energy: if you bottle them up inside you they make you very sick!