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Title: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: hotmamma24 on September 17, 2011, 01:23:04 pm
me i dont care i love black guys and woman i thinking about dating this guy that is black love him but i know alot of ppl have there own oppine :heart:
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: keith74 on September 17, 2011, 01:58:28 pm
I don't care people are people itdonesn't matter there color. To me we where all meant to get along. I recently found out that we all have the same common stuff in us its just that some of more of one thing than othes that is what gives us our race, that is what make each of us different.
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: ajann1983 on September 17, 2011, 02:03:24 pm
Everyone will have their opinions about it. Me being a black female find it funny when black guys will date outside their race but if a black female dates outsider her race it becomes an issue and they have smart remarks about it. it doesn't matter what race you are to me. If you love me for me and respect me, then that's more important than color.
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: hawkeye3210 on September 17, 2011, 02:38:09 pm
Doesn't matter to me at all.
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: ancmetro on September 17, 2011, 02:59:26 pm
         Personally, I do not like salt and pepper together. It is a matter of personal choice.
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: sdecaro558 on September 17, 2011, 07:25:48 pm
Doesn't matter to me.  I've never dated outside my own race (white), but I also haven't dated much and I'm not opposed to doing so.  Never really had the opportunity to do so yet.
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: cassandras08 on September 17, 2011, 08:32:36 pm
what ever makes them happy
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: ROBERT3093 on September 17, 2011, 08:54:51 pm
me i dont care i love black guys and woman i thinking about dating this guy that is black love him but i know alot of ppl have there own oppine :heart:
EVERYONE IS HUMAN, SO IT DOESNT MATTER
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: anubabs on September 17, 2011, 11:12:12 pm
it what you feel that matters not what others think.....if u realy like or love him, i'd say go for it......u'll make some cute babies by the way.
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: raven1114 on September 17, 2011, 11:34:49 pm
honestly i don't really think about it. people should date/marry a person who loves them and that they love and will make each other happy. i could care less what color they are.
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: BK_Adores_Chase on September 18, 2011, 07:23:23 am
who cares lol I think it's pretty accepted - if not, people are silly.
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: jorhea on September 18, 2011, 07:28:48 am
I think the main thing is that both people are happy and in love with each other. Color should not matter. But I know in this world to alot of people it does and they will make a big deal out of it. If you are happy together, you will need to create a "shell" and let the remarks roll off of you and not take it personally.
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: Boise40 on September 18, 2011, 08:49:12 am
I don't have any issues with people dating outside of their race. I'm white and I hope to have the opportunity to date a black woman. Maybe, I will get a chance since I'm single :)
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: dreamyxo on September 18, 2011, 08:50:32 am
I don't care what anyone else chooses to do with their life. 
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: sommap on September 18, 2011, 08:55:07 am
I really don't care.  It seems to be more and more accepted, and should be.
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: AMBERTAYLOR31 on September 18, 2011, 12:47:53 pm
i am a white woman married to a black man and we have 2 children together.  life is great!!  he is so good to me.  we don't think about color at all.  i never even really notice a persons color.  i just love people, whoever they are.  everyone should be able to get along.  if you don't like someone for being a certain color, then you have major issues.  god made us all an telle us to love one another as he loves us. 
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: patycake56 on September 18, 2011, 02:35:27 pm
everybodys the same they just have a darker tan but seriously what does it matter we were all made the same in Gods eyes.
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: MessiahMews on September 18, 2011, 02:51:52 pm
My spouse and I are definitely different colors.  As different as night and day.  lol
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: jmtalboo on September 18, 2011, 03:02:06 pm
me i dont care i love black guys and woman i thinking about dating this guy that is black love him but i know alot of ppl have there own oppine :heart:
EVERYONE IS HUMAN, SO IT DOESNT MATTER

True, if aliens landed tomorrow I wouldn't care if people started dating them either. Better stuff to worry about.
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: hotmamma24 on September 18, 2011, 05:06:51 pm
thanks everybody i love them all yes we love each n maybe get married sometime hopeful but we been dating a month now am so happy with him it so great to heard every body oppine thanks it make s me so happy here in ark ppl seems to make  a deal about it but i dont listen as long we love each other thats all it matters  :heart:
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: lvstephanie on September 19, 2011, 07:38:30 am
It doesn't really matter to me... Growing up my sister's best friend lived in a mixed household, but as kids I don't think we really thought about it. I even was thinking of dating someone outside my race, but it was senior year of college and I was planning to move to the east coast for grad. school and she was moving to Cali for her grad school.

I think it is fine, as long as the reasons is about love and respect for each other. I have noticed that some women feel insecure about themselves and so will date men in a lower class (whether it be white or black) because they feel they are too heavy, old, etc. to pick up a guy with standards. And the guys will sometimes prey on that, seeing the women as being vulnerable and therefore easier to hook up with. I think those types of relationships are damaging; the women would rather settle for someone that doesn't truly love them just to be with someone, and the guy is only dating the women because he senses her insecurities and uses that to get into her pants. BTW, I'm making this case not because I think black people (or other minorities) are innately a lower class person, but rather that the "gangsta" culture (ie the guys that wear their pants mid-thigh and have dirty wife beaters on) is of a lower class and unfortunately tend to have more black people associated with them (although there are plenty of white guys that act the same way and conversely I know of black professionals like doctors and lawyers, so it is not a racial statement but more of an income statement).
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: acurtsinger2 on September 19, 2011, 07:56:31 am
i don't care one way or another...people need to be with someone they love and care for....i am white with a white boyfriend, but it's my choice
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: mrstina08 on September 19, 2011, 08:04:08 am
People are people. Just love one another. I love evrybody
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: webmasterdn on September 19, 2011, 08:09:26 am
Black people mostly came from Caribbean countries. And in most Caribbean countries they act like they're in the jungle. That's what makes the differences between black and white.

But if a black guy is smart, and has education and/or a career he could get any girl he can. Even if you are the only white person that don't like his color, many others will like his intelligence.
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: ashleyisrad on September 19, 2011, 09:52:14 am
Love is love no matter what. I don't think the color of your skin should determine whether your love is worthy or not.
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: reesymay on September 19, 2011, 09:54:03 am
I honestly believe that it should not matter what other people think or say...As long as the person is truely happy and wants to be with you or you with them then skin color should not bother you...Love comes in all kinds of forms and I believe that humans are not ment to stay with there own skin color...If that was the case then we would all be the same
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: chel3179 on September 19, 2011, 09:56:02 am
Whatever makes the person happy. People should be more worried about finding a man/woman that respects them and makes them happy rather than worry about the color of someone's skin and whether or not people will accept it.
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: LDAVROX on September 19, 2011, 10:38:42 am
Its not for me, but thats my opinion.
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: lavenderallen89 on September 19, 2011, 10:40:12 am
I think that shouldn't even be a question.. Why would you ask that? We're all the same..
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: ricky981 on September 19, 2011, 11:32:33 am
me i dont care i love black guys and woman i thinking about dating this guy that is black love him but i know alot of ppl have there own oppine :heart:
  once apont of time in 1776 to1963 you had to keep your eyes straight ahead of you but as times goes on things change and people change through the eyes of god there is no color or race just humans.
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: catherinedwhite on September 19, 2011, 11:50:34 am
Isn't it sad that there is still a debate about this subject.

Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: yellowrose11 on September 19, 2011, 01:43:34 pm
Personally i don't think there should be a problem with that. however, i am unfortunately surrounded by ppl who would most certainly frown upon it and some that would 'disown' me (or at least they say they would .. lol but  i bet i could change their mind ;-) )
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: KristieBum on September 19, 2011, 03:32:03 pm
We all bleed the same don't we? We all breathe the same! There is no difference between black or white!! I dont know why people have to be racist!
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: LenoraMinogue on September 19, 2011, 05:26:17 pm
It's hard to believe in this day and age that it even matters. It's laughable, especially given all the other real issues we have to deal with in life. Besides foolish prejudices, the only problem I see is the problem you might have with any two people coming from different backgrounds. What's fun and exciting because you're in a relationship with someone so different, may not give you enough common ground in the long run to help keep a relationship afloat. But then maybe the couple just happens to be different races and has a lot more in common than some people might think. Who knows. It's tricky enough to maintain any decent relationship, regardless on background too. I say everyone should just butt out, and let love be love. There's enough hate in the world.
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: handllucas on September 19, 2011, 05:27:04 pm
I see nothing wrong with it. We are all God's children. I believe that eventually we will all be a beautiful shade of brown.  
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: AdamH1978 on September 20, 2011, 07:53:57 am
Not an issue for me.  It's incredible that ignorance and hate continues to be perpetuated regarding how we view our fellow man.  Up until 1967 it was illegal to marry out of one's "race" in Virginia.  Hard to believe.       
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: bretay on September 20, 2011, 08:06:20 am
I don't agree with it,but to each his own.
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: mom21b on September 20, 2011, 08:12:01 am
it don't matter to me. it's their choice.i don't judge other's. as long as they're happy.
Title: Re: how does everyone feel about black ppl being w white ppl
Post by: elysee24 on September 20, 2011, 10:57:38 am
I don't care. I married to someone not my race and it turnes out to be alright.