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Discussion Boards => Off-Topic => Topic started by: amberbainer on November 10, 2011, 04:39:52 pm
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I have had 6 pregnancies and 3 out them had made it. To me I felt that i lost bits and pieces of me each time and i can not heal from it.
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I have had two miscarriages. Both very difficult, but yes I do believe I am healed. I don't believe I'll ever be the same as they were profound moments in my life, but my faith in God is what brought me healing.
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WHEN I WAS 19, I LOST A SET OF TWIN BOYS...ONE LIVED 24 HOURS AND ONE LIVED 2 DAYS. IT'S BEEN OVER 23 YEARS AND I STILL WONDER WHAT THEY WOULD HAVE BEEN LIKE. I HAVE 2 HEALTHY GROWN CHILDREN AND 5 GRANDKIDS AND I JUST DON'T HAVE THE PRECIOUS TIME TO BE SAD. I JUST REMIND MYSELF EVERYDAY THAT GOD MUST HAVE NEEDED THEM MORE :angel11:
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:'( I feel just to have a child and they get hurt or sick is hard on a parent, sooo i could just think what it may feel like for you to have had miscarriages!! I wish you the best! :sad1:
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:'( I feel just to have a child and they get hurt or sick is hard on a parent, sooo i could just think what it may feel like for you to have had miscarriages!! I wish you the best! :sad1:
Thank you it is very hard my first misscarraged i seen it in a sonno and next thing i know they told me that it was dead. my other ones i did not get the chance to see them
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never forget the baby but always heal and move forward. make some kind of memorial garden and it will be easier to go forward.
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You never truly stop loving the baby but you eventually learn to live without it
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My wife just went through a pregnancy and at one point we thought we might lose the baby. One of the scariest times of my life. My friend has also lost a child. This was years ago and she has trouble with it. I honestly don't know what I would do if I lost my son, before or after birth.
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I think the human mind is capable of more than people give it credit for. I definitely think it is possible to overcome this type of thing. Obviously, though it is tougher for some than others.
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God heals us when we are brokenhearted.
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Pray and have faith things happen for a reason. God Bless :angel11:
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I don't know if I could heal losing a baby because even years passed by I still thought about them from time to time and feel sad especially now I am getting old and most likely won't have any kid.
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I think you never heal you move on and live with it but lose is something you never get over. My dear brother died 22 years ago and I still cry over it at times.
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Sorry about your loss. Personally I don't think you can, I hope people can heal after something so hartbreaking
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i think it is hard dealing with a loss whether a baby or a pet. Everybody heals differently. I think the emotional tie will always there
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i had a still birth on dec 08..still hurts, but its made me appreciate life and kids more..i swore i wouldnt have another, and i now have a healthy 10 month old son who was planned..i see that as healing. waking up each day, i feel like its part of healing. not crying when i see his picture, its healing. saying his name, without crying, its healing. so yes, i believe we heal.
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Yes you can heal after a loss. You might not forget but you can go on with life and have happiness. Everything happens for a reason and death and loss is a part of life. It is what it is and we have to accept that and realize life goes on. Losing loved ones is tough but you can get through it.
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YES THEY CAN LIFE STILL GOES ON AND ITS A SIN IF YOU KILL YOURSELF THE BABY WOULD BE GOING TO HEAVEN AND THEN YOU GO TO HELL YOU GOT WHAT I'M SAYING
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thats terrible. i feel so bad! its gotta be hard to deal with that. but im sure eventually you'll heal hon
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Sorry for your loss....I couldn't imagine the pain but I hope that you can find hope and heal soon!!! Good luck!! :heart:
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I have had 6 pregnancies and 3 out them had made it. To me I felt that i lost bits and pieces of me each time and i can not heal from it.
No i believe loosing a baby scars u for life
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My heart goes out to you. I think that there is no way someone can ever recover from something like that emotionally.
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Forget.....never......Heal with the help of God's comfort and strength.
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I think you can heal, but you will always remember and have an emotional tie with that child. I believe you can heal from anything. Time heals all wounds.
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Depending on the person, healing will come but not overnight. Losing a baby takes a lot out of you and it never returns. For some it affects them mentally and there is no coming back from the lost of a child.
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Well, I had one miscarriage that was documented. I am sure I had more. One of my miscarried babies would have been 5 right around Christmas. The baby had a due date of Christmas Eve. I've since had 3 successful pregnancies. However, I feel that there is a sense of loss still there today. It isn't all consuming, but I do think about it at this time of year and at the time of year when I miscarried.
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Sorry about your loss, but the memory will always be there I guess it's about the way in which you view it.
Does it lead you to appreciate the fact that you could have gone to but you're alive giving you the possibility to
give it another shot. Or even the greater love or appreciation you develop for the ones you were able to conceive.
Physical hurt heals on the outside, mental pains will fester if it's not replaced by optimism, remember as a man thinketh
so is he or so he'll later become.