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Title: Having a hard time
Post by: premar16 on November 25, 2011, 02:54:53 pm

 :'( SO my best friend is dealing with depression but wont admit it.She is also going through a rough divorce with her abusive ex husband and her kid is at a wierd age where she is blaming all on her and if that doesnt work she tell people that I made her family break up.ughhhhhhhhhh its getting really to stay afloat with all these extra bills and since im disabled I cant work aghhh i just need to get that out.anyway bye i guess

Title: Re: Having a hard time
Post by: kfarnan1990 on November 25, 2011, 06:24:43 pm

I WISH YOU THE BEST ;D

Title: Re: Having a hard time
Post by: kilophkadamas on November 27, 2011, 08:06:14 am

Not sue if this helps or not, but just remember that there is always someone worst off than yourself, & that you have many things to be thankful for (like still having the ability to use the internet for example). Concentrate on the positives as dwelling on the negatives will solve nothing.

Title: Re: Having a hard time
Post by: SherylsShado on November 27, 2011, 01:32:27 pm

  Everyone hits a rough patch or two during their life's journey...it's only temporary because nothing ever stays the same, life is all about changes.  Being thankful for what you have and being there to bless others will make the rough patches seem less stressful, prayer can take care of the rest.

Title: Re: Having a hard time
Post by: premar16 on November 27, 2011, 02:47:03 pm

thanks for the kind words unfortunatley my life is not of those where you have rough patches it seems like one long rough patch with a few happy times sprinkled in and im started to get discouraged that it may never change cause it hasnt yet

Title: Re: Having a hard time
Post by: quietpal on November 27, 2011, 08:49:58 pm

All I can tell you is don't give up. Although I may not be in the same predicament you're in, I am going through some things. Hope is what keeps me going. Believing (and imagining) that it's going to get better. Hold on to hope.

Title: Re: Having a hard time
Post by: footemama on November 27, 2011, 11:53:10 pm

The problem with memories is that they are always colored by what you feel now AND when you are remembering things you tend to remember good things or bad things depending on your mood. One of the reasons that depression can be so strong is that you have a much harder time pulling up memories that make you happy.

HUGE HUGS!

I hope that you are on an uptick soon!