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Title: custody
Post by: batmobile on October 25, 2012, 12:42:45 pm
why is it so hard to get full custody ? if the other parent is an abusive jackass why is it so hard to get a protective order or surpervised visitation?  do people not care or what?  and cps false allegations from other parent why cant they see the problem here and investigate the other parent ????  the system is run backwards :BangHead: 
Title: Re: custody
Post by: tuscarorarain on October 25, 2012, 01:51:29 pm
It would be hard for me to give you advice without knowing both sides of the full situation. Sorry about that. Will be praying for you. Hope it works out. Just love those children and be there for him the best that you can.
Title: Re: custody
Post by: batmobile on October 25, 2012, 01:57:13 pm
It would be hard for me to give you advice without knowing both sides of the full situation. Sorry about that. Will be praying for you. Hope it works out. Just love those children and be there for him the best that you can.
thank you so much and we should pray for "Falcon 9" too dudes got issues. lol
Title: Re: custody
Post by: delladidit on October 25, 2012, 02:47:53 pm
...My ex was arrested 4xs while we were married.  He has more weekend time with our kids than I do. 
...Overall. friend of the court is just that.  They are not looking out for child or parent with their head on straight.  It is not a user friendly program.
...All you can do is be there for your child and learn to forgive.   
Title: Re: custody
Post by: falcon9 on October 25, 2012, 05:31:05 pm
...we should pray for "Falcon 9" too dudes got issues. lol

Anyone who claims to have used FC 'ignore button' but, continues to gossip about the member they're supposedly ignoring clearly doesn't understand the concept.  It may be that such persons have pressed the 'ostrich button' instead, so that they could not-ignore by gossiping.
Title: Re: custody
Post by: hitch0403 on October 25, 2012, 05:34:39 pm
Radishes here too
Title: Re: custody
Post by: tuscarorarain on October 26, 2012, 02:20:26 pm
It would be hard for me to give you advice without knowing both sides of the full situation. Sorry about that. Will be praying for you. Hope it works out. Just love those children and be there for him the best that you can.
thank you so much and we should pray for "Falcon 9" too dudes got issues. lol

Im trying to just get away from that guy. The constant debate and calling people names and just trying to hurt feelings is not worth the time. I have spoken my peace and thats it. He continued to be rude so I pushed the delete button. He thinks he knows the hearts and minds of everyone, but he cant see.
Title: Re: custody
Post by: kcoleman2 on October 26, 2012, 02:25:29 pm
I've never been in that situation so i'm not aware of the laws for it. Keep be the good parent that you are and love and take care of those babies. Keep praying and let GOD work it out! :angel11:
Title: Re: custody
Post by: falcon9 on October 26, 2012, 02:40:47 pm
we should pray for "Falcon 9" too dudes got issues. lol

Im trying to just get away from that guy.

Gossipying about someone you're "trying to get away from" is hypocritically-ignorant.

The constant debate ...

No one is required to read or participate in debates and you certainly are not 'debating' by making superstitious religious pronouncements based upon blind faith.
 
and calling people names and just trying to hurt feelings is not worth the time.

Apparently, it's worth the time you spend gossipying about someone you supposedly have on 'ignore.

I have spoken my peace and thats it.

If so, why are you still gossipying about someone you're not ignoring by continuing to mention that you're ignoring them?  That's unambiguous ignorance.

He continued to be rude so I pushed the delete button.

There is no "delete button"; there's only an "ignore button" and that doesn't delete anyone's posts, it only blocks those posts from the view of the 'ostrich' who misuses the ignore function to gossip about whom they're not ignoring.  That's rude and ignorant, hypocrite.
Title: Re: custody
Post by: vp44 on October 26, 2012, 03:21:16 pm
HUHN! I think I clicked the wrong thread. My apologies you people go one with your conversation.
Title: Re: custody
Post by: Tresbn00 on October 26, 2012, 06:42:23 pm
My father was a divorce attorney so ninety five percent of the marriages that I saw failed miserably.  Joint custody is hard to stop for a few reasons: the decision maker isn't always able to see the bad behavior that one parent may exhibit in private.  Children also need to know both parents and make the decision not to see one parent or other at a later point.  They need to know that they are the product of Wonder Woman and Superman and it is devastating to them when one parent bad mouthes the other one because than they think that they are flawed.
Title: Re: custody
Post by: lackeyk on October 26, 2012, 07:00:13 pm
I live in cincinnati ohio, snd I know the system is dumb. CPS listen's to any one who call them. There are many factors a judge will consider in determining who should have custody. Each case is unique and you should consult a family lawyer to see what your options are. I hate the system thats why I stay far from them. They are the illuminati. :BangHead:
Title: Re: custody
Post by: falcon9 on October 26, 2012, 07:04:44 pm
They are the illuminati.

"There is no illuminiti."
-- not the illuminati
Title: Re: custody
Post by: hitch0403 on October 26, 2012, 09:24:06 pm
It would be hard for me to give you advice without knowing both sides of the full situation. Sorry about that. Will be praying for you. Hope it works out. Just love those children and be there for him the best that you can.
thank you so much and we should pray for "Falcon 9" too dudes got issues. lol

Im trying to just get away from that guy. The constant debate and calling people names and just trying to hurt feelings is not worth the time. I have spoken my peace and thats it. He continued to be rude so I pushed the delete button. He thinks he knows the hearts and minds of everyone, but he cant see.
Keep the faith Tus...im workin on it!!
Title: Re: custody
Post by: falcon9 on October 26, 2012, 09:28:59 pm
Keep the faith Tus...im workin on it!!

Such self-delusion is apparently typical of religious zealot-trolls.  It's  faith-blinded  :bs:  of course.
Title: Re: custody
Post by: tzs on October 27, 2012, 05:22:52 am
No matter what, you always have to be the better parent, with everything. That includes your public and private life, and your social networking life as well. The more negative you are about the custody situation, even if the other parent is a complete jackass, it will not work out smoothly at all. Remember, someone is always watching you..... :heart:
Title: Re: custody
Post by: tuscarorarain on October 27, 2012, 01:48:04 pm
It would be hard for me to give you advice without knowing both sides of the full situation. Sorry about that. Will be praying for you. Hope it works out. Just love those children and be there for him the best that you can.
thank you so much and we should pray for "Falcon 9" too dudes got issues. lol

Im trying to just get away from that guy. The constant debate and calling people names and just trying to hurt feelings is not worth the time. I have spoken my peace and thats it. He continued to be rude so I pushed the delete button. He thinks he knows the hearts and minds of everyone, but he cant see.

I wanted to get on here and see if there was any update on the situation and if you wanted me to put you on my church's prayer list. Also, just be careful what you do. Social workers are very crafty at sneaking peaks into your home and that sort. I have never had to deal with them at all, but I see them doing it to other people around my apartment complex it seems. How old are your children?
Keep the faith Tus...im workin on it!!
Title: Re: custody
Post by: sammywantsya on October 28, 2012, 11:22:11 am
hopefull it gets better by the day :( dang it must been that hard
Title: Re: custody
Post by: tuscarorarain on October 28, 2012, 12:43:34 pm
hopefull it gets better by the day :( dang it must been that hard

I couldn't imagine how hard it must be not to see your children. I love both of mine. I have a three year old little girl and a three month old baby. I love it when my three year old goes over to the basenet and says, "good morning baby sissy." It is sooo adorable.  :heart:
Title: Re: custody
Post by: cowgirl2116 on October 28, 2012, 02:00:07 pm
Sometimes, you have to get a good lawyer to help with this type of case.