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Title: Dirty Laundry
Post by: kimberlymgiles on October 28, 2013, 06:09:57 pm
How many friends would you truly have if all of your thoughts were visible to others? Do you think that people would still want to know you after you were forced to share your deepest, darkest secrets with them.......
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Post by: ladycasshmere on October 28, 2013, 08:06:00 pm
Heck no  that would be terrible which is why I don't share my business with everyone I know
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Post by: misi49 on October 28, 2013, 08:15:56 pm
I would never tell my friends everything about me.  I would never even tell my family my deepest, darkest secrets. 
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Post by: nmbrown863 on October 28, 2013, 08:25:08 pm
I used to bad about telling people certain things about me. I have finally learned to keep my mouth shut.
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Post by: countrygirl12 on October 29, 2013, 05:32:57 pm
lol. Probably not.  Life would probably be easier if I kept more things to myself.  ;D
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Post by: CHANEYLAKEGIRL on October 29, 2013, 05:34:33 pm
I was thinking of the 80's song.
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Post by: countrygirl12 on October 29, 2013, 05:47:43 pm
I just thought of the poster I saw on Pinterest.  If people could read my mind...I'd get punched in the face a lot.
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Post by: Penwoir on October 29, 2013, 07:28:04 pm
Oh my goodness, what an awful thought!  I already find that I put my foot in my mouth quite often without even trying!  How terrible would it be if people could read my mind and what I was actually thinking.  To make us feel a bit better about ourselves I think we should consider how much social etiquette we have learnt over the years because, is essence, we don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. Surely that's considerate isn't it?
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Post by: jcalexis on October 29, 2013, 07:39:52 pm
 :o people would stay away from me at all times. I would not have too many people to talk too on this planet.
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Post by: greenthumbjan on October 29, 2013, 09:35:20 pm
This is one of my favorite screams, "Oh, that is too much information, awh".  :bs:
Too much loud mouth is not good, too closed mouth is not good either. 
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Post by: maxinmotion on October 29, 2013, 09:48:58 pm
Wow that is a good one! If all of my thoughts were visible I would have very few friends and would probably be scared to go to church, lol. 
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Post by: Sweetpea1228 on October 29, 2013, 11:03:01 pm
Omgoodness I would be alone with my thoughts if people could see or hear what I think half the time.   :o
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Post by: blondie71 on October 29, 2013, 11:31:50 pm
I don't think I have anything that is so secret that I could not share it with anyone else.  I have told my husband everything that was bad and good in my life.   I think if you have secrets between couples than you don't trust them so if you have friends you can't share that with than there are not close and there is no trust their.
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Post by: Kirenisa on October 30, 2013, 02:12:19 am
Uhm yes and no, I know a few people who avoid me all together and a few people who would actually want to be around me all the time.
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Post by: kimberlymgiles on October 30, 2013, 05:42:33 pm
I basically would not be able to leave the comfort of my home. People would truly hate me.
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Post by: jorhea on October 30, 2013, 07:43:13 pm
I am dealing with some issues right now with my daughter that have shocked me and embarrassed me. I am not talking to anyone about it as I am also sort of ashamed.
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Post by: Shandara09 on October 31, 2013, 03:22:43 pm
lol  Probably not.  I wouldn't want to know everyone else's thoughts, either.  Some things are just better off not being said.
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Post by: cateyes1 on October 31, 2013, 03:31:06 pm
Hmmmm you all are scaring me now lol, I have no problem with people knowing my thoughts...what is going on with you all? comeon spill your guts lol
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Post by: countrygirl12 on October 31, 2013, 03:33:26 pm
I don't think I have anything that is so secret that I could not share it with anyone else.  I have told my husband everything that was bad and good in my life.   I think if you have secrets between couples than you don't trust them so if you have friends you can't share that with than there are not close and there is no trust their.

I don't think that's what they meant.  You have never had a bad thought about someone you meet in Walmart?  Or something you wouldn't say out loud when talking to someone or when you're with a group and someone is talking?
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Post by: countrygirl12 on October 31, 2013, 03:37:14 pm
I am dealing with some issues right now with my daughter that have shocked me and embarrassed me. I am not talking to anyone about it as I am also sort of ashamed.

I think everyone has things in their life that they don't tell others.  But know that what ever you are dealing with it is most likely not the first time it has ever happened and others have probably experienced something similiar.  In other words I am sure there are others who know what you are going thru.  And if someone did know and tried to put you down then they have issues of their own.  I'm probably rambling but I am trying to make ya feel better.
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Post by: countrygirl12 on October 31, 2013, 03:38:12 pm
lol  Probably not.  I wouldn't want to know everyone else's thoughts, either.  Some things are just better off not being said.

True.  There are times when chatting with others and it's like I wonder what you really think about me. lol
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Post by: elysee24 on October 31, 2013, 04:56:53 pm
I don't share that much with people I know, I don't like people to bug in to my own life!!
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Post by: madeara on October 31, 2013, 05:44:24 pm
I would hope that people would understand.  True friends love you unconditionally.  If not, they were not friends to begin with.
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Post by: junis57601 on October 31, 2013, 06:37:13 pm
lol. Probably not.  Life would probably be easier if I kept more things to myself.  ;D

Many good posts on this one, but yours most definitely fits me Countrygirl!