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Title: shared custody
Post by: hensleyll on February 26, 2014, 12:30:12 pm

so my daughter going to jail probably for 20 years her kids will be with me and ther other great grandparents thre father says as long as he doesnt have to pay child support they can stay with us can w really trust him?

Title: Re: shared custody
Post by: moon29 on February 27, 2014, 04:22:39 pm

dont trust go to court and get appointed the legal guardians he could come back and take the children back not only that but he should be required to pay child support if he is the father they are his responsibility as well as she didnt make them on her own.    also as a legal guardian you will have it easier when it comes to decisions for doctors and school and if you should ever need assistance from the state i believe you are required to be their guardian.  I think that it is great that you are willing to step up and take over where he is failing instead of the children ending up in foster care.

Title: Re: shared custody
Post by: tantricia44 on February 28, 2014, 10:31:47 pm

Report father right away cuz father needs to pay child support whether he or not wants to keep the kids!

Title: Re: shared custody
Post by: BATISTAGIRL663 on March 01, 2014, 02:07:38 pm

I agree with moon29 take action ASAP!!! the kids have to have someone on their side to protect them ! God bless you and I sure hope things work out!

Title: Re: shared custody
Post by: msmoneybags48 on March 01, 2014, 02:42:37 pm

He can change his mind, so no, I would not trust him on that one.  He needs to take some responsibility because your daughter did not have those kids without his help.  Whether he wants to pay child support or not, he needs to help take care of his children.  For him to tell you that, he is obligating you to take care of his children as long as he doesn't have to pay child support.  He should be reported for that.  I would take him to court and have him sign papers to that effect. ??? ??? ??? :thumbsup: :bad: :rainbow:

Title: Re: shared custody
Post by: hawkeye3210 on March 02, 2014, 06:09:49 am

I think the mother should pay child support as well.

Title: Re: shared custody
Post by: hensleyll on March 13, 2014, 01:04:35 pm

update ,dad says now he wants them ,mom goes to court tomorrow to find out how much time she gets,cant convince anyone to do anything guess im going to have to pettition the court myself daughter is hateful sometimes and want help me at all.i think her laywer going try to get judge to let her get help for her bipolar and addictions instead of jailwe will see let you know more when i do pray for me and the kids

Title: Re: shared custody
Post by: king4cash on March 30, 2014, 12:36:15 pm

People will change their  mind when the situation changes, especially when it suits them or thay do not have to pay more, be warned....

Title: Re: shared custody
Post by: lgemini on March 30, 2014, 05:02:39 pm

The best thing to do is to do what is best for the kids.  Good luck to you.

Title: Re: shared custody
Post by: hensleyll on April 28, 2014, 07:44:47 pm

so my daughter got 7 1/2 years and the boys daddy is taking them ,she is pregnant in prison I will be taking care of that baby still hoping dad will let us keep them

Title: Re: shared custody
Post by: kristalie on April 30, 2014, 09:54:05 am

Oh I'm sorry you're going through that right now. That's a terrible situation to be in.

Title: Re: shared custody
Post by: hensleyll on April 30, 2014, 10:56:29 am

So we are hoping he will leave boys but we will see

Title: Re: shared custody
Post by: colbtrist on April 30, 2014, 02:47:16 pm

I'm very sorry you have to deal with this, I hope things get better for everyone involved.