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Discussion Boards => Off-Topic => Topic started by: anotherlaujgirl on September 01, 2014, 09:35:59 am
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It's was a very different scenario for me. He asked my mom for permission since my parents are very traditional Hmong parents. My dad did not really approve when I had told him, but my sister couldn't tell if he said in Hmong "No" or "whooa"
so to be safe when he asked my mom we ended the night early.
But for starters he spent the whole day with my family because we had a BBQ. At first I was teasing him about coming because I always do.. but then all my older siblings invited him. LOL so he came and was awkward for a very long time. Then he went home and picked me up later for a movie date.
He's not my boyfriend, but.... He paid for me. :D my last boyfriend didn't even pay for me and it was matinee. I'm not saying i'm relying on him to pay, but as new as this unofficial boyfriend of mine is to the concept of a relationship, he was off to a good start. He was really nervous and honest about how he was feeling.
To be honest I was nervous at first, until i realized how nervous he was, and I found it really cute so I got comfortable. LOL :) Tried to make it comfortable for him as well. LOL We watched If I Stay.. But half way in i realized.. Too many kissing scenes! I FREAKED OUT.
But then at the end we laughed it off and he sent me home because my early curfew was nearing, and I didn't actually have my dad's permission. But all in all, this was my first official date. It was different, but nice.
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that is great it is always awkward on your first date how old are you
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It sounds like a positive experience and the guy was a gentleman. Hopefully, your parents are at peace with you spending time with him.
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It sounds like it went well. I agree with sherryinutah, I hope your parents are at peace with the two of you spending time together.
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What a wonderful story. I wish the best of luck in the future for you and your other.
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He seems to care what your family thinks of him, which is a good thing. And I think if your father disapproved, he would have told you at the BBQ. Best of luck in this new relationship - he sounds sweet!
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kudos!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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First dates are always awkward. lol It's good that he was respectful and met your parents. My advice to you, and I'm sure you already know, take it sloooww!!! lol Good luck!
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What a wonderful experience. There is no hurry, enjoy your new relationship and take it slow. I wish you all the best.
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Sounds very promising :) Good luck to the both of you!
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that is great it is always awkward on your first date how old are you
I'm 19. It was different because i have never gone on a date in my previous relationships.
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Thanks everyone! :D
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It sounds like a positive experience and the guy was a gentleman. Hopefully, your parents are at peace with you spending time with him.
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Thanks! I wish they were too, but as of now.. not really.
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Sounds like it was a nice first date. Like others have said, first dates can be awkward. This guy sounds like a gentleman, very traditional.
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It sounds like this will be a nice relationship. Keep it fun and enjoy it. He sounds like a nice guy. Your family might know more about it than you think if he was at a family BBQ.
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Aww sounds like y'all had a great day/date! It is nice having someone who respects you and your family. I wish you both the best :)
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Congrats,here's to many more!
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First dates are always awkward. lol It's good that he was respectful and met your parents. My advice to you, and I'm sure you already know, take it sloooww!!! lol Good luck!
Definitely! Will take it slow. Thank you! :D
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What a wonderful story. I wish the best of luck in the future for you and your other.
Thank you :D
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It sounds like this will be a nice relationship. Keep it fun and enjoy it. He sounds like a nice guy. Your family might know more about it than you think if he was at a family BBQ.
Thanks! I hope so too.
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Oh, sweet. I hope the rest of your dates are as nice as this one.
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Well I think it sounds like a great date. Just be careful, you sound pretty young and you still have a lot of time.
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Wow that's a very nice first date experience story. You are a very lucky girl to have parents that hold traditions and to have gone out with a young man who's respectful. My first date wasn't suppose to happen. My parents didn't allow any of us to date until we were 16 or 17 years old. But because my father was sick he wanted to see me experience my first date so, homecoming, prom etc... he let it slide. I went to Prom with a Senior when I was a freshman. Captain of the football team and oh just gorgeous. We went to the same church although I didn't know him personally. He too was respectful. My daughter hasn't had her official first date. I'm completely at peace with that.
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Oh, sweet. I hope the rest of your dates are as nice as this one.
Thank you. I hope so too.
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i am so happy that you went on your first date last night hope you enjoyed it and hope it will be a second one
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That was such a nice story. I am so happy you had a nice first date and he sounds like a very nice young man. Good luck and hope there is a second date!
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That was such a nice story. I am so happy you had a nice first date and he sounds like a very nice young man. Good luck and hope there is a second date!
Thank you so much! :) He is still a little new to the whole dating thing, but that makes us both!
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Wow that's a very nice first date experience story. You are a very lucky girl to have parents that hold traditions and to have gone out with a young man who's respectful. My first date wasn't suppose to happen. My parents didn't allow any of us to date until we were 16 or 17 years old. But because my father was sick he wanted to see me experience my first date so, homecoming, prom etc... he let it slide. I went to Prom with a Senior when I was a freshman. Captain of the football team and oh just gorgeous. We went to the same church although I didn't know him personally. He too was respectful. My daughter hasn't had her official first date. I'm completely at peace with that.
LOL :) That's a good story itself. Thanks for sharing.
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i am so happy that you went on your first date last night hope you enjoyed it and hope it will be a second one
Thank you! And there definitely was a second!