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Title: Starting all over
Post by: melodylogan45 on October 15, 2016, 08:18:32 am
It is so sad when someone loses their job and have to start over. An employee lost their job yesterday and I know the tension will be in the air Monday because the rest of of us are going to be wondering, which one of us maybe next.

I have been through a job lost twice, so I know it it not easy, but we have to keep moving forward.

Title: Re: Starting all over
Post by: BATISTAGIRL663 on October 15, 2016, 10:40:02 am
that is so true --when someone loses their job and if they have been there for a long time it makes it even worse a gal that works with me lost her job after 30 years there --they just up and got rid of the job completely --i try to think that there are better things coming for them !
Title: Re: Starting all over
Post by: kimber62372 on October 15, 2016, 10:56:29 am
That is so sad! Did that person deserve to be terminated? Companies and small businesses have no heart some times. I am sure they will be okay and I would not worry about losing your job because the Universe will work with you if you truly believe! :)
Title: Re: Starting all over
Post by: Skyisbluetoday on October 15, 2016, 11:21:58 am
That has happened to me a few time's
Title: Re: Starting all over
Post by: oldbuddy on October 15, 2016, 12:24:56 pm
I went through that like 40 times when I was in my 20's, but when I reached 40 I decided I hated it enough, that I started my own business and never lost another job again.
Title: Re: Starting all over
Post by: vickysue on October 15, 2016, 02:53:25 pm
I have only lost one job, but when i think about it, it was for the best, i was not as happy as i should have been working there. But  God led me to another and better job.  One that i truly enjoyed doing. What gets me now is those who have been working for a company for years and then they  tell you that you are going to have to train a person not of the U.S. to take your job.  that i can not   believe in. Hope all of those who it happens to find Jobs they really like.
Title: Re: Starting all over
Post by: dsawan on October 15, 2016, 03:10:51 pm
happened to me back in 2011 and had to take low-paying retail jobs to live and go on and off unemployment. Just started this year with a decent job back in July. But yeah its hard in your 40's as it sets you back
Title: Re: Starting all over
Post by: BeccaGoga on October 15, 2016, 10:40:21 pm
I've lost jobs a couple of times. It sucks, but I eventually was able to find good and steady work.
Title: Re: Starting all over
Post by: Penwoir on October 16, 2016, 08:13:07 am
Loosing a job is always unsettling for those involved, not just the one that loses their job but everybody that remains in that employment. Sure they will be thinking "could I be next?" or "what criteria did they use and how does that reflect on me?", but of course a business' mission is to make money, and make themselves more profitable. Sometimes decisions have to be made to complete this mission and it should not be taken personally. I realise it feels totally personal when it happens to you and of course you never know when something like this could happen. So, live life having already done your homework. What would I do if I lost my job? Are my academics sufficiently attractive to be deemed highly employable? Is my resume reflective of my experience and talents? I used to work in recruitment and not a working day would go by where I didn't take the time to see what the job market was like.
Title: Re: Starting all over
Post by: debidoo on October 16, 2016, 08:16:07 am
I am sure that is not only extremely stressful for the person who lost their job but for the others of you as well.  I have been on both sides so I know it is hard.  I hope they are able to find a new job quickly and that the rest of you will be able to be secure in your jobs for a long time.
Title: Re: Starting all over
Post by: elvisdo on October 16, 2016, 08:58:46 am
It is stressful. I've been on both ends of it.
Title: Re: Starting all over
Post by: cathy37 on October 16, 2016, 09:12:35 am
I have never had to experience this because I was in my job for over 30 years and retired from it.  Recently Hurricane Matthew came through North Carolina and so many places were flooded and people have lost everything they own.  I feel so bad for them.
Title: Re: Starting all over
Post by: tfw6693 on October 16, 2016, 09:31:05 am
Doing Commercial Refrigeration for over 45 years, I was never fired but one time.

The guy who fired me was a jerk, and still is, but I have forgiven him and moved on.  :)

Now I am just an old retired guy.

Oldfriend
Title: Re: Starting all over
Post by: dogsleash on October 16, 2016, 09:39:29 am
last time i lost a job i went back to school for 19 month it was hard money wise but now i make 2x the amount i use to and i never have to worry about work. i take job change as a sign to try a new field i have done it 4 times and i think i got this one right.
Title: Re: Starting all over
Post by: dogsleash on October 16, 2016, 09:39:48 am
last time i lost a job i went back to school for 19 month it was hard money wise but now i make 2x the amount i use to and i never have to worry about work. i take job change as a sign to try a new field i have done it 4 times and i think i got this one right.
Title: Re: Starting all over
Post by: jenniferhoder on October 17, 2016, 03:34:24 am
It is VERY hard, but sometimes  you don't see the blessing in disguise until much later....
Title: Re: Starting all over
Post by: plennis on October 17, 2016, 07:53:13 pm
It is a bummer.  But sometimes I think it happens for a reason, I have always gotten a better job, or better circumstances anyway.   
Title: Re: Starting all over
Post by: mrsmere on October 18, 2016, 06:40:02 am
It's not a good feeling that's for sure.  I think it's really sad when someone is about to retire and is let go because they have to compete with younger folks in the job market and they also will not get that retirement check that they counted on.
Title: Re: Starting all over
Post by: pkrahmer on October 18, 2016, 07:17:14 am
I have lost jobs several times through no fault of my own. it was very difficult but something better always came along. Then I decided to work for myself. Best decision I ever  made  plus I a lot of daith in god:rainbow: :rose: :peace: :wave:
Title: Re: Starting all over
Post by: betlynjua on October 18, 2016, 08:26:46 am
I went through that like 40 times when I was in my 20's, but when I reached 40 I decided I hated it enough, that I started my own business and never lost another job again.
I left my last corporate job many years ago.  I vividly remember walking out with my head held high and a spring in my step.  I vowed to never work for anyone else again.

Today, my husband and I own a very successful business.  We absolutely love being our own bosses.

Even though it may not always be all hunky dory, it sure beats working for someone else any day.
Title: Re: Starting all over
Post by: ghunter on October 18, 2016, 09:53:12 am
I agree, losing a job and starting over is very hard.  If you are young you can do it with no problem, but us season people it is so hard because no one wants to hire older people unless you want to work at Walmart as a greeter. :)
Title: Re: Starting all over
Post by: gaylasue on October 18, 2016, 01:03:27 pm
My position that I had for 15 years was outsourced about 5 1/2 years ago.  It was a big blow because it paid very well and had good benefits.  It was outsourced to someone who had previously worked with one of my bosses and had started their own company.  It was a struggle to find a job in our job-depressed area but I found one that helps keep food on the table.
Title: Re: Starting all over
Post by: pstovall on October 18, 2016, 01:10:01 pm
It must be terrible to experience such a loss.  I've known several people who have had to deal with this.  It's quite stressful.  Fortunately, I never had to go though this. Dental hygienists were always in demand back when I graduated, with more jobs available than people to fill them, at least where I lived.
Title: Re: Starting all over
Post by: Tresbn00 on October 29, 2016, 12:58:36 pm
That is a a total drag. I hope that the employee had some premonition or advanced warning so that they could prepare. Or a working spouse that could help with the bills until another job could be found. I have two and a half jobs and have maintained at least that many jobs since I was fifteen years of age. Even when I was self employed I had four corporations set up and was doing quite well. I just don't trust corporate America. When layoffs begin I am generally the last to be let go and I would like to think that this is because I work harder than most and exceed everyone' production numbers. My wife has been with a company for thirty eight years and is watching another round of layoffs happen next week. At least one hundred people being set free two months before the holidays. Bummer.
Title: Re: Starting all over
Post by: plennis on October 29, 2016, 03:18:51 pm
Bummer to lose a job anytime, but at the holidays there is extra pressure.  There usually are lots of extra little part time jobs available.
Title: Re: Starting all over
Post by: SherylsShado on October 30, 2016, 06:03:36 am
I've had to deal with that repeatedly.  The first time it happened, I was SICK at the idea of having to start over.  Then I decided to always have "a plan" in case I lost my job.  Many times I worked a full time job and kept a part time job, just in case I lost one...I'd still have a job.  Now due to health reasons, one job is all I have ---but I still have a back-up plan if that job was gone.  (And every single job loss does seem to have been a blessing in disguise.   :)  )
Title: Re: Starting all over
Post by: countrygirl12 on October 30, 2016, 09:18:19 am
It is so sad when someone loses their job and have to start over. An employee lost their job yesterday and I know the tension will be in the air Monday because the rest of of us are going to be wondering, which one of us maybe next.

I have been through a job lost twice, so I know it it not easy, but we have to keep moving forward.



Just because you loose your job does not mean you have to start all over.   You still have your home, your family, and a lot of other things.  Lately I don't feel too bad for people because they loose their job and then want to start a new one and start at the top.  And refuse jobs they feel are beneath them. 
Title: Re: Starting all over
Post by: cateyes1 on October 30, 2016, 09:32:54 am
Good luck I hope that no one else is next :(
Title: Re: Starting all over
Post by: vg7405 on November 02, 2016, 01:42:30 am
Thankfully, I am in a job where it is comparably less harder to be "let go". However, I have had personal friends of mine who were laid off because of the terrible economy. And I must say that I greatly sympathize with such individuals. It is not easy when one loses a job simply because it is not easy to secure one in these difficult economical times.
Title: Re: Starting all over
Post by: 6265AT99 on November 02, 2016, 10:53:53 am
That's never easy for anyone but it's especially hard for someone who is "older" for sure.
Title: Re: Starting all over
Post by: makeblessed on November 02, 2016, 02:19:54 pm
Yes, that is always hard as everyone has responsibilities of taking care of their daily living needs, I experience that once when I was full time in the workforce, but I was lucky because  it took me no time to find an even better position, so that saying when one door closes enough ones opens up worked out for me, sometimes we just need to get out of our own way for a better opportunity. Hope things works out for your former co-worker.
Title: Re: Starting all over
Post by: ancmetro on November 04, 2016, 12:00:58 am

    Remember when the ATMs were first introduced? I knew many Bank Teller who lost their jobs after so many years of training and hard work. It is called "Displacement by Technology". A new technology is invented and introduced to the public and suddenly workers are laid off.
Title: Re: Starting all over
Post by: judylucas on November 04, 2016, 04:50:31 am
I was very lucky I never lost a job but my husband's alloy plant shut down and he lost his