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Title: I need prayers or good vibes! Having a string of bad luck! (LONG)
Post by: nadinastarr on January 14, 2017, 11:41:12 pm
I am in need of prayers or good vibes, whatever you got!!

The last few days have been a pain in the backside. It all started Wednesday. My cat Timon, decided to sleep with me. He put his head on mine. Then while he was snoozing away and I started to, he started chirping, in his sleep! I was so shocked by it, I reached over to him to check and he jerked awake. I must have scared him. It got me a bit worried he might be getting sick. He kept me up, cause I was listening to him breath after that and he acted like he wanted to leave, so I put him on the floor thinking he would go in with my parents. He laid down instead and looked at me like I had hurt his feelings! Mind you, he is VERY expressive! After a little pep talk, he went in with them for a while, but later he came back. I kept listening to him again so hardly any sleep that night.

Then, Thursday, we go to sleep again. Timon was laying behind me, facing our hallway. Out of nowhere, he starts hissing! I was looking where he was and there was nothing there! He started then staring at the ceiling and hissing. I'm freaking out, then he start whining and crying like he was hurt. I finally manage to get him to calm down, but he doesn't want to stay in with me. SO I was up most of that night.

I care for my dad as he cannot get up and down a lot. Friday, he thought he might have to go to the hospital, so I was cleaning, ended up hurting my back. He didn't go because he didn't want to and he figured they would not be able to help him with his problem anyway. I also had to go get part of our groceries after I got hurt. Not a happy camper then. Again, Timon had some issues, he decided he wanted to play with the other cats, who did not and was constantly picking on them, all night.

After that, yesterday, I was awoken at 4 something this morning by a neighbor playing very loud music. So, I had to call the cops to take care of it. I was in no mood for that having not gotten any sleep for 2 nights already. They finally turned it way down after that. I hate using our resources for such a thing, but I do not know our neighbors since they keep moving out of here so frequently! It also bothers me that there is really no way to tell where it is coming from unless you are outside. I live in county, so going out at that time, at night, not a good idea. That was primarily why I called it in, plus noise ordinances exist where I live, so there was that. I got about 3 hours of sleep after this.

Later that day, I was in my room as I was still not feeling well from my back and other female issues. My mom went to go do something outside and Timon, one of our 5 cats, decided to go outside. I dashed out in my sandals and went straight to the back, where they normally go to hide out! He played his game of coming where I could see him, then vanishing under again. We have big bricks stacked under our trailer, but there are gaps from them being moved and not put back. Timon decided to roll and I managed to get him, however, he was BEHIND the bricks, so I cut up my arm on it. I have a big bruise near the crease of my elbow. I hurt my knee, arm, back and side getting him. All of about 20 minutes. Plus the stuff I was in, I'm allergic to! So I started also having sinus trouble.

On top of all that, I still had to go pick up some items, which I didn't get everything yet, and I came home only to find my mom didn't take care of the buckets. Our roof leaks, hence why I am on here trying to make a little money to try getting it all fixed. So, we get a slight downpour, and I have to go bail buckets, which aggravates everything that is already hurting.

SO with that said, it's 12:38 AM Sunday. I'm hurting and tried to sleep, but when it's leaking in your room, it doesn't always go that way! I did try to sleep, but Timon got into an argument with his brother a while ago and it just kept me up! I'm running on empty! I have had probably about 8 hours of sleep, not all in a row mind you, in 4 days!

Any prayers, good vibes or what ever you got, would be appreciated!! I need all I can get!
Title: Re: I need prayers or good vibes! Having a string of bad luck! (LONG)
Post by: BATISTAGIRL663 on January 15, 2017, 09:01:04 am
sending lots of healing prayers your way --keep us posted !
Title: Re: I need prayers or good vibes! Having a string of bad luck! (LONG)
Post by: Nancy5 on January 15, 2017, 09:07:55 am
WOW!  You really have had a bunch of bad luck in the last few days.  Prayers going up for your problems to disappear and you get to sleep.  Good luck!
Title: Re: I need prayers or good vibes! Having a string of bad luck! (LONG)
Post by: nadinastarr on January 15, 2017, 12:07:13 pm
Had another rough night. My dad went to the hospital to see if they can help him with his OIC problem. He was in a lot of pain this morning. Not sure there is anything that can be done, but he is getting tests done. I also feel like I am getting a cold! UGH! I need a break!

Thank you for the prayers/good vibes. Can really use them!
Title: Re: I need prayers or good vibes! Having a string of bad luck! (LONG)
Post by: cwillard1 on January 15, 2017, 12:10:40 pm
Prayers coming your way.  Hope things turn around soon for you .   
Title: Re: I need prayers or good vibes! Having a string of bad luck! (LONG)
Post by: Nancy5 on January 15, 2017, 12:29:22 pm
So sorry to hear about your dad.  Good luck has to come your way soon.  Prayers being sent, please keep us posted.
Title: Re: I need prayers or good vibes! Having a string of bad luck! (LONG)
Post by: surveypro2016 on January 15, 2017, 12:35:42 pm
Prayers and Good Vibes headed your way. Hang in there Kiddo. Things will get better. Trust me.  :)
Title: Re: I need prayers or good vibes! Having a string of bad luck! (LONG)
Post by: camellia0 on January 15, 2017, 05:11:29 pm
Stay positive and focus on the good things.
Title: Re: I need prayers or good vibes! Having a string of bad luck! (LONG)
Post by: bremer51 on January 15, 2017, 05:17:06 pm
My goodness. You certainly do need a little positivity in your life.  Going without sleep makes everything worse.  My prayers are with you.
Title: Re: I need prayers or good vibes! Having a string of bad luck! (LONG)
Post by: hitch0403 on January 15, 2017, 05:54:31 pm
First off its good taking care of your parent.God commands us to honor them.

Having pets is a chore.5 cats???Wow!I love animals too and only have a dog and there is work to do and emotion involved with them.You just have to remember its worth it when they might get in the way.

The loud music is rude.I dont blame you for calling cops if they dont respond to a kind gesture on your part to lower it...you wanna sleep.

Hang in.So many others probably have it worse than you.There is more happiness in giving then receiving.

It never hurts to pray to God.Problem is we seem to only do so when we are in need.Meeting HIM halfway never hurts.HE appreciates it when we obey HIS commands.Reading the bible is a good start.
Title: Re: I need prayers or good vibes! Having a string of bad luck! (LONG)
Post by: singletonb on January 16, 2017, 09:46:29 am
I pray that things will get better for you.
Title: Re: I need prayers or good vibes! Having a string of bad luck! (LONG)
Post by: natashaspy on January 16, 2017, 02:15:04 pm
bless your heart, your life sounds as hectic as mine! sending lots of love and prayers to you and your family that things get better, that you get rest and you get your roof fixed soon!
Title: Re: I need prayers or good vibes! Having a string of bad luck! (LONG)
Post by: kimber62372 on January 16, 2017, 04:27:53 pm
Many prayers and blessings to you! Wishing you a healthy, restful night of sleep and that evertyhing goes your way. :)
Title: Re: I need prayers or good vibes! Having a string of bad luck! (LONG)
Post by: clickers on January 16, 2017, 04:58:31 pm
Weeping may endure for the night but  joy cometh in the morning. :notworthy:
Title: Re: I need prayers or good vibes! Having a string of bad luck! (LONG)
Post by: nadinastarr on January 30, 2017, 08:33:09 am
First off its good taking care of your parent.God commands us to honor them.

Having pets is a chore.5 cats???Wow!I love animals too and only have a dog and there is work to do and emotion involved with them.You just have to remember its worth it when they might get in the way.

The loud music is rude.I dont blame you for calling cops if they dont respond to a kind gesture on your part to lower it...you wanna sleep.

Hang in.So many others probably have it worse than you.There is more happiness in giving then receiving.

It never hurts to pray to God.Problem is we seem to only do so when we are in need.Meeting HIM halfway never hurts.HE appreciates it when we obey HIS commands.Reading the bible is a good start.

I pray frequently. It's just it seems like things were going way down hill fast those days!! I was just thinking a few extra prayers might help pull us up out of all this bad luck we seem to have accumulated.

My dad ended up at a rehabilitation center, he's still there. We do not know when he will be released. He ended up hurting his back and may have another infection. I am feeling a bit better. The cats we have are still driving me nuts every so often, but for the most part, they want to sleep and cuddle since it's bit a bit cold as of late.

Thank you for all the prayers and positive thoughts!!
Title: Re: I need prayers or good vibes! Having a string of bad luck! (LONG)
Post by: potluck6 on January 30, 2017, 12:48:32 pm
Maybe take the cast to the vet. Wow 5 cats i could never do that. I have one and another neighbor cat who comes around everyday. She wants to live here but can't afford her food is fine but vet bills no. As far as sleeping goes once you haven't slept its done can't go back. Hope your dad feels better you can maybe relax a bit with him not in the home. They call that a restbit for the care givers.
Title: Re: I need prayers or good vibes! Having a string of bad luck! (LONG)
Post by: haimsterette on January 30, 2017, 01:10:39 pm
I hope things improve! I'm sorry you've had such a terrible time lately.  :( It doesn't sound like you can afford it, which I understand, but it might be a good idea to take Timon to the vet if this behavior is abnormal for him. Maybe he's reacting to getting less attention? Cats are funny like that! Our almost 1-year-old cat, Monty, will misbehave if people in the house are fighting or if he feels ignored. I hope your dad is okay! And you are relieved of your physical ailments. It does seem like once one bad thing happens, there is kind of a domino effect!  :-\
Title: Re: I need prayers or good vibes! Having a string of bad luck! (LONG)
Post by: nmbrown863 on January 30, 2017, 04:11:53 pm
Hope your luck turns around! I will keep you in my prayers!
Title: Re: I need prayers or good vibes! Having a string of bad luck! (LONG)
Post by: tantricia44 on January 31, 2017, 12:24:15 am
☔Wow! When it rains it pours! I know it seems like you're completely out of control, but what you can do is take a step back focus on the things you can control, talk to your neighbors about the noise issue, you should let your cats know, you're the alpha cat, the pack leader & start setting boundaries, talk to your mom, that you need her help, that you can't do it all by your self. If all else fails, run out scream,shout,cry,curse out all of your pain, fears,& frustrations to the sky! I'll be sending the higher powers prayers for you to receive, healing energy to get through this hell you're in right now!