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Having or exhibiting self-importance or being arrogant !! My mom called them wind bags!! There is a woman I know who really thinks she is something. They did have a big business and lost it and are now broke. But she is still as big as life pretending they have it all..... and treats people different who wouldn't fit in her fake upper-class world. Have you every called a person out or confronted them for being a jerk!
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For me it's easier to just walk away. Not worth it to call them out, deep down they know what's happened and are probably really hurting inside. Just ignore it, let them be.
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I called someone out for treating individuals like they were her own personal slaves. It was not pretty and I knew that she and I would no longer be "friends" after that.
Sometimes you just need to say it so it doesn't get "bottled up" inside. :heart:
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Increasingly, I'm losing my patience with people like this. And with people who like to play "the victim" in everything. I know a couple of people in both categories, I've had to distance myself from them in order to keep my sanity... and cool! :(
But, sometimes, something just needs to be said for the benefit of all around these people. And I hate it to be me who says it... I'd rather just fade out on them rather than having a big scene!
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I tend to tune them out after a while. It is really hard to get loose from some of them. But i sometimes say excuse me, but i need to go and start for the door and they will follow still going on about what ever they are talking about. i do tend to try not to be around them, what a waset of space and air.
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I tend to tune them out after a while. It is really hard to get loose from some of them. But i sometimes say excuse me, but i need to go and start for the door and they will follow still going on about what ever they are talking about. i do tend to try not to be around them, what a waset of space and air.
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Yup!
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They treat others like that because they are afraid of ending up in "the poor house".
Avoid them because there is something mentally wrong with characters like those you
are describing.
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describes most politicians these days
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I love to confront people like that IF they still belittle others.
I say to them in front of others.
Hi Mr/Mrs ..... So? How's business.. (In a fairly loud voice)
Most time get flustered n embarrassed, walk away..
Job done... :D
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Love them anyway. :angel11: My advice. Take it or leave it.
Hard to do, but always worth it. :peace:
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Does it really matter? Why bother "calling her out"? Do you just want to make her look bad in front of others? That makes you as bad as her. Just go in with your life and stay away from her.
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I probably did in younger days but now I would just ignore them because lets face it they are more worthy of being pitied than called out. We all have problems some of us just exhibit them differently.
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I just don't hang around or want to be near the people who act better.
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a few times and it feels good when i am right .
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I believe those types of people, are just people. We all have flaws and insecurities, maybe to different degrees and we handle them differently. I find it best to just show them love anyway. Pray for them. And if it affects you too much emotionally, walk away.
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All is vanity.
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For me it's easier to just walk away. Not worth it to call them out, deep down they know what's happened and are probably really hurting inside. Just ignore it, let them be.
I'm in total agreement. That's pretty much how I handle it as well. I feel that my time and energy can be used for so many worthwhile things: Bible reading, taking care of my husband, our home, our beautiful pets, our business and, yes, myself too.
By the time I accomplish all of that and whatever else has to be done, I don't have time for non essentials.
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I generally avoid people like that. If I can't and I wind up in a confrontation I tell them off. I'm straight foward like that. I don't hold it in because I have way to sensitive a stomach so if I don't and it sits in my mind how angry they've made me with their attitude I get physically sick. So like I said, I avoid at all possible and if not, I let them have it.