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Title: kids or no kids????
Post by: misnertracy on August 13, 2010, 09:50:20 pm
I have two children a daughter (9) and a son (7) they are the love of my life.... Do you have children or no children???? My boyfreind has no children and he is AWESOME with my kids. Does your spouse have children with another person? If yes how is the relationship with you and the parent (female or male)? My kids father hates my boyfiend, and really he has no reason to... :-
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Post by: IceKittyNM on August 13, 2010, 09:59:24 pm
I have two children a daughter (9) and a son (7) they are the love of my life.... Do you have children or no children???? My boyfreind has no children and he is AWESOME with my kids. Does your spouse have children with another person? If yes how is the relationship with you and the parent (female or male)? My kids father hates my boyfiend, and really he has no reason to... :-

Perhaps he is jealous of the relationship your boyfriend has with your children?? How is his relationship with the kids?
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Post by: darkiedark on August 13, 2010, 11:20:56 pm
I have no kids yet!  :wave:
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Post by: dreamyxo on August 14, 2010, 12:32:29 am
None for me  ;D
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Post by: articx on August 14, 2010, 09:21:07 am
I have no kids, and don't want any.
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Post by: tantricia44 on August 14, 2010, 09:51:01 am
I wish to be an original so no copies for the next generation from me. (tthpowers that some others are not going to reproduce either :thumbsup:)

Though, I think it's great that your bf likes & get's along with your kids. Does he want kids of his own with you? According his behavior towards your kids, he'd make an ideal father to his own kids.

It's obvious that your kid's dad is jealous because, your bf's positive relationship w/his kids is a constant reminder of his failure in that area. Don't let it get you down & enjoy the promising relationship you have with your bf.  :thumbsup:
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Post by: syntheticbeauty on August 14, 2010, 10:04:23 am
I have 3 kids....I know what your going through. My best friend is dating a girl with 4 kids and their bio father seems to hate this.
His reason for hating everything is the children now consider my friend as a dad.
My friend really loves her children and takes care of them as if they are his own.
He even got teary eyed taking the 5 year old to her first day or school and teary eyed/ scared when the 16 year old went on her first " date".
The bio dad is upset over the kids seeing my friend as a father figure, but as I tell everyone it doesn't take blood to be a father.
It takes how you impact a persons life and that you own up to being a father figure.
Maybe your children's father feels like the pressure is on because your boyfriend is doing what doesn't come easy.
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Post by: misnertracy on August 15, 2010, 04:57:48 pm
My current boyfriend gets along well with my kids and I think he is jealous. Thanks
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Post by: Osmara13 on August 15, 2010, 05:01:34 pm
Currently am pregnant =) and have a step child living with me 24/7 that's 14. It's an experience... but a great one
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Post by: Valerie1979 on August 15, 2010, 05:55:55 pm
:)  I have one son and can't wait to have more.
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Post by: jgyoung on August 15, 2010, 07:11:25 pm
My wife and I have 1 kid, an 8 month old daughter and its just great, i thought id never want any till i had one and cant imagine my life without her.. Not sure if i want any more kids, but my wife wants at least one more..
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Post by: squirrelgirl44 on August 16, 2010, 07:09:32 am
I have one daughter, she is going to be 5 in November. I do not plan on having any more! My boyfriend is a few years younger than me and he is also really great with kids. Although I think in general it is easy to have more patience when you are dealing with a kid you can "give back" at the end of the day, lol.
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Post by: surveydad on August 16, 2010, 07:18:50 am
My wife and I have Two Daughters, They are 4 and 3 years old  :thumbsup:
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Post by: jkhanson on August 16, 2010, 08:55:11 am
Kids are one of life's greatest blessings!

We have 4.

31 year old daughter
27 year old son
21 year old daughter
19 year old daughter
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Post by: ODOMS6598 on August 16, 2010, 11:31:30 am
  I Have 3 kids (I used to have 4, but I lost my 16 yr old son, TeJay, to a car accident :angel12:)  my oldest is now 15(boy), 7 yr old girl, and a 5 yr old boy.   :wave:
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Post by: sandiegosurfer on August 16, 2010, 12:10:50 pm
Ick no kids.
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Post by: Hmarcum1 on August 16, 2010, 12:15:53 pm
I have a son named Holden who's 8 months old yesterday :)
He's amazing.
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Post by: prillycake on August 16, 2010, 01:46:54 pm
No kids, I won't have any darn kids out of wedlock.
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Post by: mylahsmommy on August 16, 2010, 01:50:39 pm
I am going to have two daughters. My first daughter is 2 soon to be 2 1/2 when her little sister is born , due October 28th
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Post by: wischmeyersn on August 17, 2010, 08:13:10 am
I currently don't have any kids, but I honestly can't wait to become a mother. My boyfriend doesn't have any kids either, but he is amazing with his nieses and nephews. I know he is going to make a great father, just gotta wait for the time to be right :)
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Post by: RockiesInOctober on August 17, 2010, 08:38:33 am
If I was the father of two kids and they were spending good quality dad-time with some other guy I would hate it too. And that is why good family values are important.
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Post by: StaciLyn1988 on August 17, 2010, 09:31:33 am
I have 2 kids a boy who is 3 and a girl who is going to be 2 next month trying to work things out with there father but its not going so good.
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Post by: gurgelj on August 17, 2010, 01:36:48 pm
I have a boy and my husband also has another son. My relationship with his ex is fine, I mean I don't hate her but I don't love her, to be honest I hardly know her. But I think if I even thought that my husband still has a thing for her, I dont think I'd like her. Your husband probably still have feelings for you, that is why he hates him. But hey, who cares, you suppose to like him, not your ex! Specially if he is great with the kids.
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Post by: ULuvCeCe on August 17, 2010, 01:56:42 pm
Up until I was in college, I never wanted kids but as time went on I decided two would be good. I just had my first a boy and my fiance is awesome with him.  I grew up in a family of 6 and loved it. :wave:
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Post by: smarie84 on August 17, 2010, 04:16:35 pm
i have a daughter,4 and the boyfriend has 2 boys, 9 and 14. somedays i want more, but my kids are so wonderful i don't want to push my luck!
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Post by: lennydee on August 17, 2010, 06:58:33 pm
children you got to love them i have seven and love each one of them they truly have been a blessing in my life that God for them.
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Post by: healer_ on August 17, 2010, 07:06:48 pm
Definatly kids.



I say this because I have 6 sisters and brothers.
LOL.


Oh....and I might be expecting a little one of my own, right now....  :binkybaby:


I"ll keep you guys posted. I'll know in a few days  :thumbsup:
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Post by: dwggs on August 17, 2010, 08:11:14 pm
I have fuzzy four legged children

2 dogs (14yrs old and 9 months)
4 cats (1-12 years old and 2-1 year old)

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Post by: lynnc35 on August 18, 2010, 04:02:27 am
Yes, but we do not see him. It is all awkward when you each have children from previous marriages, you have to incorporate the family and make the best out of it.
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Post by: klkwid on August 18, 2010, 04:40:35 am
No kids and no plans to have any.  Maybe if I find the right guy I'll change my mind, but for now, I just don't see how I could do it!  I have to say that I have a lot of respect for you people who do have kids and raise them right-there are so many others out there that don't raise their kids the right way and those kids go out into the world making harder or more uncomfortable for the people who try so hard.
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Post by: elysee24 on August 18, 2010, 05:22:43 am
I would love to have one, but after the miscarriage things  just aren't the same!!!
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Post by: vangabhargavi on August 18, 2010, 06:03:58 am
I prefer responsibilities only after we settle properly. After I settle in my life i.e., enough money for me then I will plan for kids. But definitely I would like to have one at home. Without kids home will very empty. Make sure everyone buy their home and car before kids.
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Post by: Shahrukhlover on August 18, 2010, 08:15:22 pm
I hate kids!  Babies always start crying when I walk by.  I plan on having kids though just because in my culture it's more appropriate for women to get married and have kids.  It's believed that a women's life isn't complete otherwise, so I guess I'm going to have kids.  My sister is going to take care of them though. She loves kids. I want a boy first and then three years later, I want a girl.
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Post by: ashraj8 on August 18, 2010, 08:31:53 pm
I love kids
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Post by: tzs on August 18, 2010, 08:44:38 pm

I love my child, It just makes life a hell of alot sweeter knowing that you have a little "partner in crime", who is just like you and your husband hanging out with you everyday!
She makes me laugh, she makes me cry, she makes me mad for short periods of time, but she's still learning, she makes me dream, she makes me feel like a kid again.  She makes me remember when I kissed my husband for the first time, and how that felt.....
I just love her, for many more reasons....... :heart:
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Post by: kapeh12 on August 18, 2010, 08:58:33 pm
No kids of my own, but I have plenty of nieces and nephews to spoil.   :thumbsup:

I'm not opposed to having kids, just haven't found a guy who can keep up with me and catch me yet.   ;D
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Post by: Nisha2006 on August 19, 2010, 09:14:01 am
i have two kids  and another one on the way. i have a daughter who is 3yrs old and a son who is 1yrs and another lil grl on the way who will be here in nov :heart:
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Post by: ashraj8 on August 19, 2010, 09:31:55 am
kids are really cool
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Post by: harika on August 19, 2010, 09:49:06 am
i love kids
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Post by: hemapreethaa on August 19, 2010, 11:21:47 am
we have2 girls, happy Healthy Family we are, i want a boy, but, dont want to end up having girl again :-)
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Post by: cjobey99 on August 21, 2010, 03:23:25 pm
Four grown, 2 mine, and 2 his. We also have 5 grandchildren, 4 present and 1 on the way. :peace:
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Post by: home_teachin on August 21, 2010, 03:45:37 pm
I have one son that will be 13 in October. I don't know anyone else with an only child but I can devote a lot of time to him. I'm thinking of fostering kids when my son goes to college.
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Post by: Khera2010 on August 21, 2010, 06:21:47 pm
 Hey i have no kids yet my first born will be due on November 22nd i'm so happy. And im having a lil girl.
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Post by: cece12 on August 22, 2010, 11:29:26 am
two daughters, 25 and 17 it's still an adventure every day :D
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Post by: tif92604 on August 22, 2010, 02:42:33 pm
I have two children a daughter (9) and a son (7) they are the love of my life.... Do you have children or no children???? My boyfreind has no children and he is AWESOME with my kids. Does your spouse have children with another person? If yes how is the relationship with you and the parent (female or male)? My kids father hates my boyfiend, and really he has no reason to... :-

I think the child's father is just jealous of the relationship that your boyfriend has built with your children. 
and I love kids.  I have a 11 month old and he is my entire world.
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Post by: Shmooi on August 22, 2010, 03:14:43 pm
No kids and definitely not planning on any. Ever.
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Post by: kenrachel1993 on August 24, 2010, 11:42:02 am
definatly kids , they are gods greatest blessing !!!
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Post by: Shutmeup3030150 on August 27, 2010, 08:22:03 am
I'm a senior in high school and fortunately have no kids yet. I adore kids and want one of my own more than anything in the entire world, but I rather wait til after college so I can give them a good life.
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Post by: vasireddy on August 27, 2010, 10:18:53 am
kids are everything for me.i had one kid  he is 3 month old and now no plan for other........
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Post by: colton1266 on August 27, 2010, 11:45:09 am
Yes I would love to have kids one day.
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Post by: jzmom on August 27, 2010, 11:58:16 am
I have 2 wonderful children.  Who are my pride and joy.

21 year old daughter, who goes to college, works and is on her way to becoming a published author.

19 year old son, who goes to college, works full time. 
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Post by: Lusie on August 27, 2010, 01:29:42 pm
I have a low probability of getting pregnant but we have discussed adoption.
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Post by: oonamas on August 27, 2010, 03:39:27 pm
I have no children yet, but I can't wait! Well....yes, I can, lol, because we are. Want to be more financially secure, and travel some more before we get tied down. Just went on vacay with my sister in law, her hubby and their baby boy. He's so much fun to be around, but I can see how tiring it would get day in and day out and their lives have certainly changed a lot from 2 years ago. Plan on having 2 kids though! I wanted 4, but hubby and over population have talked me down ;)
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Post by: RRacicot2310 on August 28, 2010, 09:06:58 pm
I have 1 daughter and hoping for a lil man soon!
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Post by: briannajeanxo on August 29, 2010, 07:45:46 am
i have a son (would be two in decemeber) my niece that i adopted (2 1/2) and a baby on the way (due in feb) dont know the gender yet but im convinced its a girl.
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Post by: trujillo33 on August 29, 2010, 08:45:49 am
I have no kids yet! I want three kids!!
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Post by: navnar10 on August 29, 2010, 09:09:29 am
I dont have any kids  :(

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Post by: tiffmarch82 on August 29, 2010, 09:12:01 am
i have kids all girls
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Post by: ACThaG on August 29, 2010, 11:43:23 am
We got none :'(
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Post by: chardy37 on August 29, 2010, 03:01:59 pm
I have four teenagers  :BangHead: but wouldnt trade them for anything in the world  :thumbsup:
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Post by: AleehaA06 on August 29, 2010, 03:34:10 pm
A personal choice, if you want kids or you dont want kids. :angel11:
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Post by: tslater3 on August 29, 2010, 03:50:49 pm
Going to have 3 me thinks
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Post by: Alyia72 on August 29, 2010, 03:52:44 pm
I have one 5 year old daughter and working on #2 hubby wants a boy but I think one more try is it for me lol.
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Post by: cherrington17 on August 29, 2010, 04:22:47 pm
No kids yet, but definitely want some.

It comes down to personal choice.  I have had a few ex's who were totally against having kids (which is why they are ex's) ranging from the poor raising by their own parents (and them being afraid to do the same) to to insanity of "it'll ruin my body". (in all fairness she did have a SMOKIN body... but that reason was purely idiotic)
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Post by: kamikarin on August 30, 2010, 01:17:26 pm
I don't but hope to have some in the future.
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Post by: cubarican210 on August 30, 2010, 03:14:40 pm
No kids of my own yet but I have a step-son. He's so handsome and smart and I love him as if he was my own.
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Post by: imac887 on August 30, 2010, 03:22:25 pm
I ain't got no kids!
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Post by: cakestripe on September 01, 2010, 07:54:56 am
I don't want to have my own kids... There are sooooo many out there, I'd only feel responsible by adopting! I mean, there are almost 9 billion people in the world. That's more than most ecologists say the earth can handle.  :sad1:
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Post by: makedoughonline on September 01, 2010, 06:41:38 pm
No kids.
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Post by: tdsantiago1 on February 16, 2011, 03:10:58 pm
im happy to be a proud mommy of 3.
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Post by: cubarican210 on February 21, 2011, 09:30:15 am
I have no kids yet but I have a step-son who just turned 6 on the 16th of February. I love him as if he was my own. He called me mommy by accident once but it felt so good to hear him say that. I guess it means he must love me or that I'm treating him very well that I reminded him of his mother although I'm not trying in any shape or form to take his mom's role.
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Post by: Boise40 on February 21, 2011, 10:16:56 am
I dated a woman with a year old daughter at the time. I didn't mind helping the mother with her daughter from time to time. I left the relationship because the mother wanted me to be more of a father. She was also getting bossy with me too, do this, do that. I wouldn't mind dating another woman with kids of her own. I will just hope the next mother is not too bossy and don't expect me to be the father when Im not.
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Post by: ninajay on February 21, 2011, 07:26:01 pm
No kids yet. I do want 2 kids though
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Post by: emiyasato on February 22, 2011, 10:19:49 am
I have no kids as of yet. 
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Post by: billermarie on February 22, 2011, 06:01:04 pm
i been married 3 yrs i 2 by him but i have a son by someone yet and he has a daughter by someone yet we get another good
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Post by: healer_ on February 22, 2011, 06:56:34 pm
I dont have any children yet. Although itll be a real blessing when I do! Its all in gods hands!. :angel12:
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Post by: WhitneyLBrock10 on February 22, 2011, 11:50:46 pm
I have 1 baby girl who is 10 months old and a little boy on the way!
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Post by: willow80834 on February 23, 2011, 08:42:27 am
I have 2  both over 20  but they are awesome...   Childs father clearly is envious of the time your boyfriend gets with his kids.... Cant really blame him I  would be too