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My son will be 37 in June and he has such an attitude. If I want to talk or ask him something he will answer with " whaaaaat Ma" grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. He will talk to me more at my grave site then he does at home here. Does ANYONE want a son? ....anyone else have one like mine UGH ...thanks for letting me vent
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Have you let him know how you feel? If you have and he still behaves that way then I think you have to continue with your life and let him worry about his.
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Have you let him know how you feel? If you have and he still behaves that way then I think you have to continue with your life and let him worry about his.
I have told him over and over again how it makes me feel but it falls on deaf ears. BUT heaven forbid if I cop an attitude if he wants to talk to me, he'll say "WOW Ma whats the matter with you" Alina I cant win for losing...thanks for answering :)
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That is very sad. I am sorry your son is so disrespectful.
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That is very sad. I am sorry your son is so disrespectful.
Thanks madera i'm use to it but it gets aggravating at times. I told him that 1 day I hope we can have a civil conversation. He has a lot on his plate I suppose
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If you get to personnel maybe he doesn't want to share. My son age 27 will talk to me abou5 his girl or job stuff. Talk about random things like movies or your other kids. Good luck
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My son will be 37 in June and he has such an attitude. If I want to talk or ask him something he will answer with " whaaaaat Ma" grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. He will talk to me more at my grave site then he does at home here. Does ANYONE want a son? ....anyone else have one like mine UGH ...thanks for letting me vent
I doubt he will talk to you at your grave. Not being mean. Stating the truth. I am sorry he is treating you this way. It isn't right but not a lot you can do about it. Seems a lot of people are saying the same things these days. :(
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That is very sad. I am sorry your son is so disrespectful.
Thanks madera i'm use to it but it gets aggravating at times. I told him that 1 day I hope we can have a civil conversation. He has a lot on his plate I suppose
You should not have to get use to that. :(
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Both my son, 20, and my daughter, 18, do this. It's annoying.
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My son will be 37 in June and he has such an attitude. If I want to talk or ask him something he will answer with " whaaaaat Ma" grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. He will talk to me more at my grave site then he does at home here. Does ANYONE want a son? ....anyone else have one like mine UGH ...thanks for letting me vent
I doubt he will talk to you at your grave. Not being mean. Stating the truth. I am sorry he is treating you this way. It isn't right but not a lot you can do about it. Seems a lot of people are saying the same things these days. :(
I know he goes to his Dads grave and talks to him a lot. But I want to hear/talk NOW so I can be in on our conversations lol
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Both my son, 20, and my daughter, 18, do this. It's annoying.
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Author I can still see it at your kids age, but my son is much older, has a daughter himself. He is a cop and I know he hears and see's a lot and maybe that puts him in moods. Its tough being a cop these days (or anytime for that matter) my brother told me that I am his whipping post, but I wish he wouldn't take his bad day out on me :(
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My son will be 37 in June and he has such an attitude. If I want to talk or ask him something he will answer with " whaaaaat Ma" grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. He will talk to me more at my grave site then he does at home here. Does ANYONE want a son? ....anyone else have one like mine UGH ...thanks for letting me vent
Why do you tolerate such disrespect from your son? Has he always been that way? If so why didn't put a stop to it immediately. I would never stand for disrespect from my child.
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My son will be 37 in June and he has such an attitude. If I want to talk or ask him something he will answer with " whaaaaat Ma" grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. He will talk to me more at my grave site then he does at home here. Does ANYONE want a son? ....anyone else have one like mine UGH ...thanks for letting me vent
Why do you tolerate such disrespect from your son? Has he always been that way? If so why didn't put a stop to it immediately. I would never stand for disrespect from my child.
You cannot make your child talk to you especially after they are an adult. If they do not want you in their life then you cannot MAKE them be a part of yours.
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Girlfriend I feel your pain. I have a 37 year old who lives with me and a younger son who is 33 that doesn't live with me and both are a pain in my butt. I love them both but I just can't get into it there isn't enough room to explain all the ways those two are making my life difficult.
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We all have a movie in our heads of how we want our children to turn out. I would say the large majority of us never see that movie play out the way we desire. What we CAN do is change the way we feel about the movie. There's a self help technique called EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) that can help with the emotions that are bothering us. It's easy to learn, free to use, and it works! You tap on various acupuncture points on your body to help clear negative emotions. If you are interested in learning more, look up Jessica or Nick Ortner, or EFT. There are plenty of YouTube videos that show how it works.
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I never had kids but i see how other people have the same problems , there are days i feel bad i never had kids , but most times i'm glad.
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I have a son and he is the sweetest son on earth. I thank God for him everyday.
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no sons but 2 daughters...my oldest i can talk to...but my youngest..thats another problem...she doesnt want to talk to us at all...when she comes over we have to watch what we sy or she wont come back for a few years...so irritating..
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Well guess what my friends. My same son bought me a stove for Mother's Day, how about that LOL
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I have Three Grown Sons who are exactly the same way. They think that it is a sin to talk to me. I have told them how it makes me feel, but it does not do me any good. I just Pray that one day soon, they will come around and feel bad for what they are doing to me.
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I have Three Grown Sons who are exactly the same way. They think that it is a sin to talk to me. I have told them how it makes me feel, but it does not do me any good. I just Pray that one day soon, they will come around and feel bad for what they are doing to me.
I cant figure it out myself hun. My son lost his Dad when he was 12 and a friend of mine thinks that maybe he doesn't want to get to close for when I pass it wont hurt as much. That kind of makes sense to me.
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I have Three Grown Sons who are exactly the same way. They think that it is a sin to talk to me. I have told them how it makes me feel, but it does not do me any good. I just Pray that one day soon, they will come around and feel bad for what they are doing to me.
I cant figure it out myself hun. My son lost his Dad when he was 12 and a friend of mine thinks that maybe he doesn't want to get to close for when I pass it wont hurt as much. That kind of makes sense to me.
I guess. I have heard people say stuff like that before. But that doesn't make sense to me.
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Sounds like he is trouble by something and he is taking it out on you. Sad.
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Sounds like a typical millennial to me.
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I have Three Grown Sons who are exactly the same way. They think that it is a sin to talk to me. I have told them how it makes me feel, but it does not do me any good. I just Pray that one day soon, they will come around and feel bad for what they are doing to me.
I cant figure it out myself hun. My son lost his Dad when he was 12 and a friend of mine thinks that maybe he doesn't want to get to close for when I pass it wont hurt as much. That kind of makes sense to me.
I guess. I have heard people say stuff like that before. But that doesn't make sense to me.
It make perfect sense to me. I know many people who suppress their feelings for 1 reason of another.
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I'm sorry for the way he speaks to you, I hope it will change.