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Title: Ever had a stalker?
Post by: Mizzkizz7 on June 28, 2019, 03:52:51 pm
I had a online profile on myspace in the past. Went to the store and a man who I never seen in my life asked me if I was(my name). I said huh? Then I was at a gas station, saw a strange man looking at me and I continued to see him everywhere I traveled..I kept seeing his car and his face. scary but once I told my boyfriend about this, everything stopped. He was warned I'm thinking. We have to be visual out here ! Watch your surroundings. Cars following etc.
Title: Re: Ever had a stalker?
Post by: tnshpalmer85 on June 28, 2019, 06:00:42 pm
I have never had a stocker that I know of and I hope I never do. It is scary to have a stocker because people are so crazy these days and can be dangerous.
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Post by: LaTashaS28 on June 28, 2019, 09:57:56 pm
No I have never had a stalker and I hope I never do because it is scary
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Post by: singletonb on June 28, 2019, 10:41:03 pm
I have never had a stalker and pray that I never do.
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Post by: guapguysteven on June 28, 2019, 10:55:23 pm
No thank god theyre so wack and creepy i try to keep my distance from anyone like that i knew some people who needed to back off and give me some space though.
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Post by: dreamyxo on June 28, 2019, 11:31:58 pm
No thank goodness.
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Post by: nmbrown863 on June 29, 2019, 06:37:27 am
I have had a few creepos. Luckily it never got to out of hand.
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Post by: ngorecki on June 29, 2019, 09:20:53 am
yes, I have a stalker  now. he makes sure he is under my window and talks loud enough so i hear him, crazy
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Post by: Work2hard on June 29, 2019, 10:07:25 am
My first husband was now he is past tense.
Title: Re: Ever had a stalker?
Post by: santa7 on June 29, 2019, 02:17:48 pm
I had one for years.  Was so scared.  He would call me and tell me my every move I had made every day.  Horrible.  Would follow me in his car, at first I didn't know.  Had to call the police finally.  Be careful if you have one.  Do call the police.
Title: Re: Ever had a stalker?
Post by: lhz123 on June 30, 2019, 12:09:21 pm
No and don't want to have. So scared for that. Watching shows I.D. tv all this stalkers done for the person they stalked and sometimes killing them.
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Post by: myfreebees316 on June 30, 2019, 01:45:27 pm
Besides wannabee ones online no not really
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Post by: mrsmere on July 03, 2019, 06:56:55 am
No never had one and hope I never do.
Title: Re: Ever had a stalker?
Post by: countrygirl12 on July 03, 2019, 07:11:28 am
Besides wannabee ones online no not really

That is what I was going to say.  I can't recall anyone in person.  I did have 3 hispanics follow me around the mall for a couple hours.  Security was called by a store employee and a security guard (even though I protested) walked out to me truck with me.  Two of them were standing by my truck when we got to the parking lot.  One had been in the store and left the area when he saw the security guard.  Guess that could have turned out much differently.

Had a couple follow me around online. That has never ended in their favor. lol
Title: Re: Ever had a stalker?
Post by: cateyes1 on July 03, 2019, 12:53:19 pm
There was a guy who use to walk by my house every single day but I thought nothing of it, I just thought he was going to work. One day I was coming out of a CVS and he happened to be standing out front of the store with a box of chocolates. As I was walking past him he said "hey, your license plate number is" and he rattled off the number. I said how do you know that. He told me that he has been watching me for a year and he tried to get the nerve up to tell me that he thought I was the prettiest woman that he has ever seen that doesn't need makeup. We chat for a bit in the parking lot and he told me that he was a Harvard professor and blah blah blah. After he told me what he wanted I NEVER seen him again....he told me too the clothes I use to wear and what he likes me in, a bit creepy if you ask me.
Title: Re: Ever had a stalker?
Post by: ancmetro on July 03, 2019, 02:04:48 pm

  Do not give anyone your name!
  Your name is your name.
  Why is he asking your name?
  Good question?                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           
  What is he going to with your name?
Title: Re: Ever had a stalker?
Post by: vickysue on July 03, 2019, 02:09:01 pm
I did  for about a yea, he would follow me a lot, then started  following me in his  pickup. Told my cousin about it and he told me to come to the house and blow my horn, I did and he  flew out of his house with a baseball bat in his  hand and whacked the man with it.  also the window shield .  Told him if he ever caught him  following me again he would wish he hadn't.  By the  good ol  cousin weighed about 340 and  stood about  6'8'.  Then I started getting obscene phone  calls. The police  put a tracking system on it and yep same  guy. anyway he went to jail for awhile, I got an unlisted phone number and listed it under my  mothers maiden name.  Then moved  away to another  town a year later. Scary people out ther
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Post by: mrisha on July 03, 2019, 03:03:00 pm
Yes, I had a stalker and it was horrific and very stressful.  I had never experienced anything even close to what I went thru.
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Post by: DEBMZ6 on July 03, 2019, 03:14:05 pm
I'm happy to say, no I've never had a stalker and I hope I never do! 
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Post by: makeblessed on July 03, 2019, 03:22:58 pm
No I  never had one, and pray that I never do; they  sound dangerous and scary. That's why we all need to be aware of our surroundings and careful about information we share online!!!
Title: Re: Ever had a stalker?
Post by: sherryinutah on July 04, 2019, 12:30:37 am
I had to threaten a guy that I was going to file a stalking injunction if he didn't stop demanding my attention.  He was harmless but very annoying with the fact that he couldn't leave me alone.
Title: Re: Ever had a stalker?
Post by: de3ik on July 04, 2019, 12:36:24 am
I am sorry to hear about your stalker threat Mizzkizz7. I've never had an actual stalker, but I've had a few things happen in my life that made me think twice and feel somewhat threatened. Once a man called our house and told my mother he'd seen her leave our home and told her what our address was. She hung up right away but it was unnerving. Another time an estranged family member called our home repeatedly with prank calls until I demanded that they stop. I hope others never have any issues like these or with stalkers.
Title: Re: Ever had a stalker?
Post by: countrygirl12 on July 04, 2019, 04:50:30 am
There was a guy who use to walk by my house every single day but I thought nothing of it, I just thought he was going to work. One day I was coming out of a CVS and he happened to be standing out front of the store with a box of chocolates. As I was walking past him he said "hey, your license plate number is" and he rattled off the number. I said how do you know that. He told me that he has been watching me for a year and he tried to get the nerve up to tell me that he thought I was the prettiest woman that he has ever seen that doesn't need makeup. We chat for a bit in the parking lot and he told me that he was a Harvard professor and blah blah blah. After he told me what he wanted I NEVER seen him again....he told me too the clothes I use to wear and what he likes me in, a bit creepy if you ask me.

WHY would somebody say hey your license plate number is.....

That is just stupid.  As for saying stuff about your clothes and all that I would have gotten away as soon as possible.  I did have a neighbor that told me he had lusted after me and he said you don't know it but when you are outside I am always watching you.  Not going to put on here how I took care of that.  But he did decide that looking at the ground if we were both outside was in his best interest.

I will also add he ended up with cancer and before he died he did apologize to me for things he had done and things I did not know he had done.
Title: Re: Ever had a stalker?
Post by: cateyes1 on July 04, 2019, 05:13:11 am
There was a guy who use to walk by my house every single day but I thought nothing of it, I just thought he was going to work. One day I was coming out of a CVS and he happened to be standing out front of the store with a box of chocolates. As I was walking past him he said "hey, your license plate number is" and he rattled off the number. I said how do you know that. He told me that he has been watching me for a year and he tried to get the nerve up to tell me that he thought I was the prettiest woman that he has ever seen that doesn't need makeup. We chat for a bit in the parking lot and he told me that he was a Harvard professor and blah blah blah. After he told me what he wanted I NEVER seen him again....he told me too the clothes I use to wear and what he likes me in, a bit creepy if you ask me.

WHY would somebody say hey your license plate number is.....

That is just stupid.  As for saying stuff about your clothes and all that I would have gotten away as soon as possible.  I did have a neighbor that told me he had lusted after me and he said you don't know it but when you are outside I am always watching you.  Not going to put on here how I took care of that.  But he did decide that looking at the ground if we were both outside was in his best interest.

I will also add he ended up with cancer and before he died he did apologize to me for things he had done and things I did not know he had done.

I guess that was just his way on letting me know that he was watching me. He told me we had a mutual friend so I kind of trusted him then, and yes I gave him a ride home. Sounds like my stalker was nicer than yours ha ha lol
Title: Re: Ever had a stalker?
Post by: countrygirl12 on July 04, 2019, 06:47:29 am
There was a guy who use to walk by my house every single day but I thought nothing of it, I just thought he was going to work. One day I was coming out of a CVS and he happened to be standing out front of the store with a box of chocolates. As I was walking past him he said "hey, your license plate number is" and he rattled off the number. I said how do you know that. He told me that he has been watching me for a year and he tried to get the nerve up to tell me that he thought I was the prettiest woman that he has ever seen that doesn't need makeup. We chat for a bit in the parking lot and he told me that he was a Harvard professor and blah blah blah. After he told me what he wanted I NEVER seen him again....he told me too the clothes I use to wear and what he likes me in, a bit creepy if you ask me.

WHY would somebody say hey your license plate number is.....

That is just stupid.  As for saying stuff about your clothes and all that I would have gotten away as soon as possible.  I did have a neighbor that told me he had lusted after me and he said you don't know it but when you are outside I am always watching you.  Not going to put on here how I took care of that.  But he did decide that looking at the ground if we were both outside was in his best interest.

I will also add he ended up with cancer and before he died he did apologize to me for things he had done and things I did not know he had done.

I guess that was just his way on letting me know that he was watching me. He told me we had a mutual friend so I kind of trusted him then, and yes I gave him a ride home. Sounds like my stalker was nicer than yours ha ha lol

lol.  I just would be speechless if somebody walked up to me and said I know your tag number.  That sounds like a cheesy lame pick up line.  I do not trust anybody.  Years ago I gave a ride to a "friend" just someone I use to work with. But today I probably would not even do that.  You don't really know anybody.  And people are crazy.

At least mine did apologize before he died. :D
Title: Re: Ever had a stalker?
Post by: cateyes1 on July 04, 2019, 07:06:43 am
There was a guy who use to walk by my house every single day but I thought nothing of it, I just thought he was going to work. One day I was coming out of a CVS and he happened to be standing out front of the store with a box of chocolates. As I was walking past him he said "hey, your license plate number is" and he rattled off the number. I said how do you know that. He told me that he has been watching me for a year and he tried to get the nerve up to tell me that he thought I was the prettiest woman that he has ever seen that doesn't need makeup. We chat for a bit in the parking lot and he told me that he was a Harvard professor and blah blah blah. After he told me what he wanted I NEVER seen him again....he told me too the clothes I use to wear and what he likes me in, a bit creepy if you ask me.

WHY would somebody say hey your license plate number is.....

That is just stupid.  As for saying stuff about your clothes and all that I would have gotten away as soon as possible.  I did have a neighbor that told me he had lusted after me and he said you don't know it but when you are outside I am always watching you.  Not going to put on here how I took care of that.  But he did decide that looking at the ground if we were both outside was in his best interest.

I will also add he ended up with cancer and before he died he did apologize to me for things he had done and things I did not know he had done.

I guess that was just his way on letting me know that he was watching me. He told me we had a mutual friend so I kind of trusted him then, and yes I gave him a ride home. Sounds like my stalker was nicer than yours ha ha lol

lol.  I just would be speechless if somebody walked up to me and said I know your tag number.  That sounds like a cheesy lame pick up line.  I do not trust anybody.  Years ago I gave a ride to a "friend" just someone I use to work with. But today I probably would not even do that.  You don't really know anybody.  And people are crazy.

At least mine did apologize before he died. :D

How do you know that before mine passes he wont apologize? yee of little faith ha ha ha ha na na nana na LOL
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Post by: bretay on July 04, 2019, 07:47:35 am
no.. no stalkers...and i hope to never have one...that was creepy
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Post by: dsawan on July 04, 2019, 08:07:43 am
nope unless you count identity theft
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Post by: countrygirl12 on July 04, 2019, 08:14:26 am
There was a guy who use to walk by my house every single day but I thought nothing of it, I just thought he was going to work. One day I was coming out of a CVS and he happened to be standing out front of the store with a box of chocolates. As I was walking past him he said "hey, your license plate number is" and he rattled off the number. I said how do you know that. He told me that he has been watching me for a year and he tried to get the nerve up to tell me that he thought I was the prettiest woman that he has ever seen that doesn't need makeup. We chat for a bit in the parking lot and he told me that he was a Harvard professor and blah blah blah. After he told me what he wanted I NEVER seen him again....he told me too the clothes I use to wear and what he likes me in, a bit creepy if you ask me.

WHY would somebody say hey your license plate number is.....

That is just stupid.  As for saying stuff about your clothes and all that I would have gotten away as soon as possible.  I did have a neighbor that told me he had lusted after me and he said you don't know it but when you are outside I am always watching you.  Not going to put on here how I took care of that.  But he did decide that looking at the ground if we were both outside was in his best interest.

I will also add he ended up with cancer and before he died he did apologize to me for things he had done and things I did not know he had done.

I guess that was just his way on letting me know that he was watching me. He told me we had a mutual friend so I kind of trusted him then, and yes I gave him a ride home. Sounds like my stalker was nicer than yours ha ha lol

lol.  I just would be speechless if somebody walked up to me and said I know your tag number.  That sounds like a cheesy lame pick up line.  I do not trust anybody.  Years ago I gave a ride to a "friend" just someone I use to work with. But today I probably would not even do that.  You don't really know anybody.  And people are crazy.

At least mine did apologize before he died. :D

How do you know that before mine passes he wont apologize? yee of little faith ha ha ha ha na na nana na LOL

Well....
I guess he could. lol
Most times that is very unusual.  I think the only reason this guy did is because he found out he was eat up with cancer.
Title: Re: Ever had a stalker?
Post by: cateyes1 on July 04, 2019, 08:19:47 am
There was a guy who use to walk by my house every single day but I thought nothing of it, I just thought he was going to work. One day I was coming out of a CVS and he happened to be standing out front of the store with a box of chocolates. As I was walking past him he said "hey, your license plate number is" and he rattled off the number. I said how do you know that. He told me that he has been watching me for a year and he tried to get the nerve up to tell me that he thought I was the prettiest woman that he has ever seen that doesn't need makeup. We chat for a bit in the parking lot and he told me that he was a Harvard professor and blah blah blah. After he told me what he wanted I NEVER seen him again....he told me too the clothes I use to wear and what he likes me in, a bit creepy if you ask me.

WHY would somebody say hey your license plate number is.....

That is just stupid.  As for saying stuff about your clothes and all that I would have gotten away as soon as possible.  I did have a neighbor that told me he had lusted after me and he said you don't know it but when you are outside I am always watching you.  Not going to put on here how I took care of that.  But he did decide that looking at the ground if we were both outside was in his best interest.

I will also add he ended up with cancer and before he died he did apologize to me for things he had done and things I did not know he had done.

I guess that was just his way on letting me know that he was watching me. He told me we had a mutual friend so I kind of trusted him then, and yes I gave him a ride home. Sounds like my stalker was nicer than yours ha ha lol

lol.  I just would be speechless if somebody walked up to me and said I know your tag number.  That sounds like a cheesy lame pick up line.  I do not trust anybody.  Years ago I gave a ride to a "friend" just someone I use to work with. But today I probably would not even do that.  You don't really know anybody.  And people are crazy.

At least mine did apologize before he died. :D

How do you know that before mine passes he wont apologize? yee of little faith ha ha ha ha na na nana na LOL

Well....
I guess he could. lol
Most times that is very unusual.  I think the only reason this guy did is because he found out he was eat up with cancer.

Put it this way, my son was about 13 when this all happened and he is 37 now, so maybe the guy passed already, he never apologized the rat ba***** oh well. Did you forgive your stalker?
Title: Re: Ever had a stalker?
Post by: dancer139 on July 04, 2019, 01:00:02 pm
not that I know of,,,,   so if I do they are very good at it  :)
Title: Re: Ever had a stalker?
Post by: countrygirl12 on July 04, 2019, 01:47:04 pm
There was a guy who use to walk by my house every single day but I thought nothing of it, I just thought he was going to work. One day I was coming out of a CVS and he happened to be standing out front of the store with a box of chocolates. As I was walking past him he said "hey, your license plate number is" and he rattled off the number. I said how do you know that. He told me that he has been watching me for a year and he tried to get the nerve up to tell me that he thought I was the prettiest woman that he has ever seen that doesn't need makeup. We chat for a bit in the parking lot and he told me that he was a Harvard professor and blah blah blah. After he told me what he wanted I NEVER seen him again....he told me too the clothes I use to wear and what he likes me in, a bit creepy if you ask me.

WHY would somebody say hey your license plate number is.....

That is just stupid.  As for saying stuff about your clothes and all that I would have gotten away as soon as possible.  I did have a neighbor that told me he had lusted after me and he said you don't know it but when you are outside I am always watching you.  Not going to put on here how I took care of that.  But he did decide that looking at the ground if we were both outside was in his best interest.

I will also add he ended up with cancer and before he died he did apologize to me for things he had done and things I did not know he had done.

I guess that was just his way on letting me know that he was watching me. He told me we had a mutual friend so I kind of trusted him then, and yes I gave him a ride home. Sounds like my stalker was nicer than yours ha ha lol

lol.  I just would be speechless if somebody walked up to me and said I know your tag number.  That sounds like a cheesy lame pick up line.  I do not trust anybody.  Years ago I gave a ride to a "friend" just someone I use to work with. But today I probably would not even do that.  You don't really know anybody.  And people are crazy.

At least mine did apologize before he died. :D

How do you know that before mine passes he wont apologize? yee of little faith ha ha ha ha na na nana na LOL

Well....
I guess he could. lol
Most times that is very unusual.  I think the only reason this guy did is because he found out he was eat up with cancer.

Put it this way, my son was about 13 when this all happened and he is 37 now, so maybe the guy passed already, he never apologized the rat ba***** oh well. Did you forgive your stalker?

I did.