My feelings are all messed up ! My son picks up his FIRST girlfriend (my son is only 14 years old) I give her a ride home from school. I talked to her grandma asking her for permission to come visit. I give her grandma my phone number for emergency just in case.
When I get home in about an hour and a half, she calls and starts telling me to be careful with her granddaughter. She is bipolar and addicted to SEX ! OMG and along with that she has a contagious disease she got from her 19 yr old ex-boyfriend ! the lady didn't sound like she was telling me this to protect her granddaughter from my son. She was actually warning me so my son doesn't get in trouble! The girl was actually taking some medication.
Now what ? I told my son he has to confront her and ask her what's is going on. Told him to be gentle. Tell her maybe you all can be friends and date now and then. I don't want him breaking her heart. Then she is bipolar, what if she gets very depressed and God prohibit what she would do to herself . . . .
I think she should of told my son about her problem before she even said YES to him
My son asks, so mom will she ever have a boyfriend? Will she get cured?
I know my son is NOT in love with her. He feels loved by a girl who tells him he is cute and loves to play with his hair. I told him he first have to get to know the girls first before he makes any move on them.
Please HELP ! What do you all think ?