We have had run-ins with my grandson's father at the grocery store. My husband was there and I gave him the phone number to appease my husband. He called my grandson and asked him if he wanted to come to his house. I told my daughter of his latest idea and gave her the phone number where he called from. He was upset because she called him and went off. He had the nerve to call me and ask me why I told her when I know how she is. I told him that I told her because he wants to go behind her back and try to be in his life without giving up a dime of support. I then went off on him myself. I told him he sees his son and the only thing I observe is that he wants a hug and a picture, but he don't reach in his pockets and give him a penny. He then said my husband told him he could come out here and pick him up anytime, which is an outright lie because I was there; what my hubby said was that he was welcome to come out here and visit him, but as far as picking him up, he don't have any intentions, now or ever, of allowing that. I told him that my husband is doing more for his son than he is, and I think it is a darned shame that he can't give his son a dollar in the event that he wants to buy something. His excuse is that he wants to be in his life, but he has bills to pay, which pissed me off and I told him that I didn't lay down and get him; he and my daughter laid down and conceived him. He is married now, and so he has an extended family to take care of. It does not excuse the fact that he has three children and my hubby and me are taking care of his second youngest son. I love my grandson, and it hurts me to no end that he does not feel any responsibility in his care. What do you think?