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Off-Topic / Having a stroke and cheating spouse.
« on: December 20, 2011, 08:54:55 am »Message ID: 463396
Not sure how I wanted to title this. The short of the story is my best friend had 2 anuerysims which caused a major stroke at the end of September. We nearly lost him that night. They had to cut half of his skull off to remove a baseball size blood clot. His wife stayed with him non stop the first week in the hospital. As the weeks went by the less she was with him until the last week he was in there she was not there at all. He was only there for a month. I had to quit my job to take care of him because he needs some one there 24/7 until he can get his skull replaced. When he came home she only came around once a week for a few hours and hardly talked to him at all. Found out for sure Thanksgiving she had been cheating on him for at least a month. Sad thing is she just got out of jail back in June and he stood by her and supported her the year and a half she was in there.
Once her family found out what was going on they moved us in with them so I could get a job and some one would be with him while I was out. Now she tries to talk to him every day. Only thing is she is always wanting something from him. I know he is hurting because of all if this, but I can not understand how you can say you love some one and will never leave or hurt them but as soon as things get bad you take off on the first gravy train that accepts you.
Any thoughts on this?
Once her family found out what was going on they moved us in with them so I could get a job and some one would be with him while I was out. Now she tries to talk to him every day. Only thing is she is always wanting something from him. I know he is hurting because of all if this, but I can not understand how you can say you love some one and will never leave or hurt them but as soon as things get bad you take off on the first gravy train that accepts you.
Any thoughts on this?