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Support / Re: HEADS UP...... "ROOKIE" ON DECK!!! TIPS ANYONE....????

« on: March 27, 2011, 01:31:29 pm »Message ID: 331418

That seemed to have helped out a lot.... THANKS!!! Other than that... this seems to be a great site!!!

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Off-Topic / Re: THE RULES HAVE BEEN UPDATED!!!!!

« on: March 27, 2011, 08:52:33 am »Message ID: 331321

I really dont see what the big deal is about the rules it is no different than what you teach your children when they are growing up to treat others as you want to be treated and there are ways to have discussions that not everyone agrees on and still be civil to everyone.

The "problems" usually stem from a sneaky lil transition of perceptions that go from "Everyone has a rigt to an opinion..." to a CONTEST of who's opinion is more "right".... or holds the most AUTHORITY!!! A lotta cats end up with an OBSESSION to "be right".... because they feel a sense of "power" or "authority" from it!!! No one who ARGUES... really INTENDS to "harm" the other person.... they are usually merelt seeking VALIDATION that their standing... is CORRECT or holds AUTHORITY!!!


-jussathought-

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Off-Topic / Re: THE RULES HAVE BEEN UPDATED!!!!!

« on: March 27, 2011, 08:42:41 am »Message ID: 331320

That rule to me is a tricky one because sometimes when people do you wrong is it right for you to treat them right just because thats how you want to be treated even though they arent treating you the way you deserve to be treated?

DEFINATELY!!! Remember..... If you're coming from "love"... and that is your STANDING.... your INTENT is never to EXPECT a "return" no matter what it is!!! Hence the term UNCONDITIONAL!!! When your HAPPINESS.... RESPECT..... SELF-WORTH..... SELF-VALIDATION...etc... comes from an INSIDE INFLUENCE(yourself).... you need not look to OUTSIDE INFLUENCES(others).... to "feed you".... so that if they don't.... you may be "starved" of the HAPPINESS!!!

-jussathought-

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Support / HEADS UP...... "ROOKIE" ON DECK!!! TIPS ANYONE....????

« on: March 27, 2011, 08:22:11 am »Message ID: 331314

   Hello all.... I'm just getting started so please excuse.... but does anyone have any tips or suggestions for increasing "offers credited" vs "not credited"... Theres a lot of them that haven't been credited and I'm trying to figure out why..... Thanks!!!