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Off-Topic / Tough month so far
« on: December 16, 2014, 11:40:55 am »Message ID: 943503
On December 1st my husband and I were at the nursing home visiting with my father-in-law. My cellphone rang (I usually have it on silent while at the nursing home) It was one of my nephews and I knew something had to be wrong. I excused myself and stepped out of the room. He was calling to tell me that his dad had passed away suddenly a couple of hours before. He was only 57 years old and the EMT guys thought it was probably his heart. I told him to tell his mother I was on my way. It took my 2 1/2 hours drive time to get to my sisters' house where I stayed for a week. My brother-in-laws' service took place that following saturday but in the mean time I came down with broncitus and a severe throat infection, and then the next day I had the flu. Needless to say I was in no condition to go to his memorial service. I felt so bad having to miss it but just had no choice. My sister and her family understood for which I'm grateful. Now, we're dealing with my father-in-law in the nursing home wanting to stop eating so he can just go on and die. He recouped pretty good from his broken hip but at 97 years old he's ready to give up and go home to the Lord. Its hard for all of us to see him this way and I hope he'll have a change of heart. Prayers would be appreciated.